What if I always drop the chain at the most critical time?

I'm a madman who drops the chain at a critical moment. Whenever I change jobs or positions. I'm going to have a big chain drop.

My first job was as an experimenter in a pharmaceutical company. At that time, I had just graduated from my undergraduate degree, and I took the job very seriously. But when I was carefully mixing the medicine, the god sent the wrong medicine to the devil.

I used up one of the most expensive reagents as if it were cheap. Of course, due to the wrong ratio of drugs, the entire experiment was scrapped. It was my first job, and you can imagine how panicked I was, and it would have taken me years to afford the loss at my wage, but I met a kind supervisor.

He helped me take care of this and did not report the experimental accident to the higher-ups. [Thanksgiving] <>

The second time I moved to another department that specialized in research. So this time, the leader will take me to a seminar, and the leader will ask me to buy a train ticket and arrange a round-trip itinerary according to the meeting notice. I'm actually very serious, I went to the train ticket agency with the meeting notice to buy the train ticket.

But even so, I got the date wrong. I consider the date of attendance for the meeting to be our departure date. Whereas, the journey by train takes one working day.

We would have missed the whole seminar. The key thing is that I didn't find out about it first. Instead, when he returned to the unit to report to the leader, he was seen by the leader.

I was sweating profusely and wanted to quit immediately. Luckily, I met a good leader again. Didn't blame me, but asked me to immediately let me go for a refund and change.

In the end, he insisted that he pay the handling fees for refunds and changes. But I thought to myself that he would think I was mentally retarded. Because I think so too.

The third mistake I made was that I lost my invoice. This time it turns out that our department has completed an important project. The leader took the entire department, nearly 30 people had a good meal, and I was called by the leader to pay the bill, and the amount was quite large.

Then the invoice is issued, collected, and prepared for the next day's accounting. But I didn't expect the invoice to disappear the next day. I had no idea where the invoice had got, and I hadn't drunk that day.

I searched through my home and office, but I still couldn't find it. And this time, I didn't panic and immediately confessed to the leader. I ran straight to the store and I wanted him to send me an invoice for the same amount.

Due to the re-invoicing, there will be some taxes involved in the merchant. I can only eat this part of the tax myself. An invoice of the same amount was obtained.

Without anyone knowing, this problem was solved.

From my experience, everyone should drop the chain at a critical moment. And if you fall down, you will fall out of experience, and after that, you will silently use various ways to make up for your own problems, so that everyone can't see it. So as long as we sum up the experience and learn the lessons, it will not be too much of a problem.

About the chain drop! I'm the most vocal!

Usually play billiards, I also play very well, usually only a few minutes a bar, sometimes the ball can be a stroke even five or six balls, when it comes to the game or when there are girls around, all kinds of crooked hands, all kinds of strength to make it bigger, and then it becomes more and more nervous, and slowly the mentality collapses! <>

There is also the time when the game, it has been popular to play PUBG recently, occupy a high point on the map, guard the player over, hit a quasi, at most take 9 kills in this way, but if it is an encounter! It's not good, the worst time, I didn't see him at first, he didn't see me, the corner suddenly touched, raised his hand is a shuttle bullet, hit him to the blood, I changed the bullet faster than him, at this critical time, I hit crooked! I watched him change his bullets and shoot me in the head...

I remember an event I was interviewed, along the way thinking about how to say, first what to say, then what to say, and finally summarize what, all very thoughtful, to interview me, I just said what I thought, it was recorded very well, I also relaxed all of a sudden, at this time the video said that I was not very good to wear a hat for the first time, took off the hat and did it again, I suddenly began to be nervous inexplicably, my head was a little empty, a little incoherent, I recorded several times in a row and did not record well, I was anxious to think about what to do, and told myselfCalm down! Be calm, after taking a deep breath, I noticed that it was much better, and then I successfully recorded it!

Later, slowly, I found the rule, that is, I was too demanding of myself at a critical moment! And the psychological quality can't keep up with the ability, and then the thing of falling off the chain happened, and then at such a critical moment, I have been saying to myself not to panic, calm down, after calming down, the thing of falling off the chain will happen less, and I can also play my true level!

It means that the mentality is not good, or the ability is insufficient, of course, there may be a little luck mixed in it.

I have a classmate who usually studies very well, and he is usually at the top of the class in exams, but when it comes to big exams, he can't do it. Every time she broke down, she studied harder, but the test just got worse and worse.

Later, I learned that every time she came to the big exam, she would be very nervous. When I arrived at the exam room, my brain was blank, and I couldn't think of anything. I don't need anything I usually learn. This mentality is enough, even if you learn well, you don't need it.

Another is the lack of ability, usually take the exam, the luck is good, and you can get a good score, but when you encounter a large exam, your luck is a little worse, and this is the chain.

Ability and mentality, these two are indispensable, with the ability and mentality is not good, you will be confused when you encounter something, and you will not be able to become a big tool. But if you have a mentality and no ability, it is funny, you can't go far without the ability, and you can't go well without the mentality. Usually it's just an exam, but if you encounter something big, it will be miserable.

Therefore, the hard work of the older generation is not wrong, which not only cultivates ability but also exercises self-confidence.

Is it because of fear?

I'm actually pretty much the same. When someone asks me to do something, I always say that I may have problems here or there, and you must be a little more responsible, otherwise, I am afraid that I will mess up your affairs. Even when my senior invited me to join the debate team, he almost broke away because of my uncertainty.

I was really afraid of failure, so I always wondered if I could make a mistake. But the more suspicious you are, the less you have the ability to settle down and do things, and the less focused you are, the more likely you are to make mistakes. And the critical time determines the success or failure of a thing, and it is also the time when you are most nervous, in this case, it makes sense to drop the chain.

For me, every time I do something, I check it several times. That's what gives me a little more peace of mind. After each problem, test it repeatedly, and before doing each thing, think repeatedly about the order of doing things and the purpose that needs to be achieved.

In this way, you may ease your fear and nervousness and make yourself feel better.

What you have to understand is that you can do anything well, and if you drop the chain, it's just a psychological effect.

Just like when I played Honor of Kings before, I was often afraid that I would not drag my teammates back, and the more I thought about it, the more I was afraid of failure, the easier it was for me to rush forward without a brain, so I unloaded this game that was not so popular at the time, and chose to walk out silently.

Actually, it doesn't seem to me to matter now.

Slowly groping, figuring out the method, slowly inspecting, and testing the loopholes. No one is born with a chain that falls off the chain all the time. You drop the chain just because you are not familiar with it and are not confident.

Be brave and face up to failure.

You'll do better.

There are many people who have made full preparations before a thing, but once it comes to the actual start of doing it, there are always more or less problems, such as when taking the exam, they have done the questions on the test paper before, but no matter how they think about it, they just can't remember how to do it, showing anxiety and a blank in their brains. In some key occasions, often a small thing is fatal, if you can't effectively change the problem of losing the chain at the critical moment, it is likely to affect your life development. Let's talk about how to avoid falling off the chain at a critical moment.

First of all, be prepared for prevention. Before you want to do something, think about what you are worried about, what troubles you will encounter in the process of completing the task, how to solve it in case I encounter it, what unexpected situations may occur when doing that thing, and what unexpected things will happen to you, so that you know in your heart. On the one hand, this allows you to prepare in advance, in the process of doing things, in case you really encounter problems, you are also expected, you have been prepared, you will not be so nervous, and you will be handy to deal with; On the other hand, before doing something, you think about the problem carefully, so as to vent the tension in your heart, tell yourself that the impact of not doing this thing is limited, and then eliminate your tension.

Second, we need to make perfect. In normal times, you must do more exercises, especially in stressful situations, so that you will not be at a loss under the pressure of real emergencies, and through continuous practice, you can exercise your on-the-spot adaptability, so that you can learn to face problems calmly and calmly, no matter what emergencies occur, you can face them calmly.

Finally, don't have high expectations, just take it with a normal heart.

Everyone faces some moments that are very important to them in their daily life. However, there are quite a few people who will always drop the chain at a critical moment and then lose something important. This made them very distressed, and they didn't know what to do to change the occurrence of this critical moment of chain dropping.

First, reflect on your state when you dropped the chain. The reason why many people drop the chain is actually that they are too nervous. Everyone has moments of tension to some degree, and we should all know how tension affects us.

Nervous state can easily cause our mind to go blank and affect our performance. Some people will tremble when they are nervous, and in more serious cases, their faces will turn pale, and they may fall down at any time. How can this state play well?

We should take it easy, keep ourselves in a normal mind, whether we lose or win, what we gain and what we lose, don't look at it so important.

Then, reflect on why you fell off the chain. I don't always feel so nervous, there are always times when I'm not nervous, so why do I drop the chain at those times? The reason why many people drop the chain is actually their own lack of ability.

It's like when I memorized texts in elementary school and junior high school. If a person memorizes the melon well, then no matter when and what kind of state should be able to recite it fluently. But if you are already between remembering and forgetting, and then you are nervous, it is easy to forget it all.

If you are well prepared and skilled, then you will not make mistakes.

Of course, luck is also indispensable, after all, luck is also part of strength. When you're lucky, everything goes well; When you're unlucky, you can't do anything. But it's not luck that determines everything, luck is just a supporting role.

If you are very strong, then no matter how bad your luck is, you can't stop yourself. If you are weak, then no matter how good luck you are, you will often not be able to help yourself.

Dropping the chain at a critical moment means that the critical moment or a more important thing is not done well, or it is said that it is "smashed". The original intention refers to a common fault of the bicycle, in the process of driving, the chain falls off the sprocket of the transmission, thus losing the transmission capacity, and by extension, the error at the critical moment affects the final result.

It is a metaphor for people who lose their proper state or are exposed in important aspects of things, resulting in failure or embarrassment. Because it is more lively and playful, it has now been used in the news** and online, and has penetrated into household language.

The physiological reason for dropping the chain at critical moments is that short-term memory cannot store a large amount of information. Since human memory has two parts: long-term memory and short-term memory, the short-term memory used by people cannot store massive amounts of information like long-term memory, and can only process the information being applied.

<> "Why do some people drop the chain at a critical moment?

I don't know if you have any experience that you haven't had such an experience: I have been preparing for an interview or exam for a long time, and I have rehearsed myself many times, but my mind is blank as soon as I enter the examination room, and then I answer in a mess, and I drop the chain at a critical moment?

In fact, this is related to the psychology of threading needles, which refers to the stronger the purpose, the easier it is to fail because of nervousness, just like when threading a small sewing needle, the more concentrated and hard work, the more difficult it is to thread the thread.

There is a limit to the amount of information that the human brain can process at the same time, and when it is too stressful, it is easier for a lot of irrelevant thoughts to pour into the brain to compete for attention. At this time, the brain will be occupied by anxiety, doubt or fear, and there is no way to continue to focus on Laqing's eyes, the speed of brain operation will decrease, and it is easy to have confused memory, confusion, confusion, and IQ.

Here, you can take the following steps to relieve tension:

1.Don't set yourself too high expectations and be mentally prepared to fail. Lower your expectations, give yourself a preset in your psychology before the debate, pay more attention to it, and be less nervous. Carry.

2.Adjust your mindset and keep a normal mind. In a calm and positive state of mind, you will become calm, flexible in your thinking, and more likely to stimulate your potential.

3.Regulates your breathing, and proper deep breathing can regulate tension.