Why do I love so fast, I get tired of it so quickly, do I have a problem in my heart?

Updated on healthy 2024-05-18
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When you and the other person start out, it's just a temporary infatuation, and you don't really like the other person, and when your infatuation passes, you will feel that the other person is just an ordinary person. It's not that you have a problem in your heart, it's that you don't have the right attitude towards love. When you want to start with each other, think about each other clearly, understand each other from many aspects, until you really think that the other person is worthy of your love, and you are very happy together. Let's look farther, and exaggerate a little bit about whether I can go on like this with the other party.

    If you are not ready and think clearly when you love, how can you love far?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Will there be a problem? I just didn't find the right one.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's because you live too easily Have you watched "Gun Forest Love Song" Wang Zhiwen said"You people live too easily to know what it means to cherish"

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not psychological! It's normal.,Maybe it's not sincere.,Maybe there's less contact with the other party because of something else.,Maybe it's .......I don't know, it's definitely not a psychological problem anyway

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It means that you haven't met your true destiny yet

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, each other, each other. My solution is to take the pain seriously.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe the other person is not your true love

    Don't worry, everyone will encounter this kind of problem.

    I've had this kind of trouble, and I've even begun to wonder if I'm very attentive and bad.

    Until you meet someone who can really impress you, you will have the idea of wanting to be with him for the rest of your life.

    So, it's just that the person you were destined to have not appeared yet, so be patient and wait!

    Don't doubt yourself!

    You're OK! :)

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe you haven't found someone who really makes you give your heart, it's okay. But you can't take the relationship as a child's play, you have to be responsible for the other party, since you get tired of it so quickly, don't start easily, otherwise both of you will be hurt, and it will also affect your trust in the new relationship in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're supposed to be handsome, and if you meet someone who's going to lose your appetite

    You're going to feel that way right away, really, I'm from here, haha

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The landlord's idea is what a normal man should have. Leave the people upstairs scolding you. They can't eat grapes and say grapes are sour.

    I don't want others to get what I can't get. If you are a lan, you think that others are lan, and if others are not bad, they will attack others wildly. A typical villain's heart is a gentleman's belly.

    I admire you very much, landlord, you can get out of the mud without staining. Why do you want to suspect that you have a psychological problem, didn't Qu Yuan say back then, the whole world is turbid, I am the only one, sometimes the truth is often in the hands of a few people. I believe that the current social climate is not right, and I believe that it is only temporary.

    And I also believe that there are many people who stand by the truth. Didn't Dante say to do your own way and let others say go.

    I hope that the landlord can maintain a good attitude, and I believe that you will definitely be able to find a pure, kind and good wife.

    Let's go to SI for all those LAN goods.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Friends, good!

    I'd rather lack than abuse, just like this, I'm the same as you, I don't like to be too casual, I just have to find a good girl I love!

    Persistence, looking up to your love, you must stick to your beliefs, because this is right, this is to be responsible for yourself, and not to leave yourself a little regret.

    You must find a good girl, hold on, there must be a good girl of your own.

    Don't let other people's lifestyles get in the way of your own life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your mind is normal. It's just a little paranoid! In fact, every man wants his wife to be a symbol of purity.

    It's just that it's getting more and more difficult now! I advise you to reach out to more friends in college, especially friends of the opposite sex, so that you can really understand what you have in mind!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Senior year is really important right now.

    Especially for the first time, in fact, there are those who are very conservative in school, but you learn to look carefully, and there are some middle schools that want to be Cinderella.

    But I still like the kind of iceberg beauty, the kind that is very pure.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't look for answers, young man, let it be. Often when you fall in love with someone, you don't care about anything, and when you meet someone like that, you find the answer.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you're looking for someone who is still in kindergarten, mentally retarded, disabled, mentally ill, or ugly, or something like that.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You have low self-esteem in terms of relationships, and you think too highly of everyone, as if you are not worthy of others. The first thing you have to do is be happy to do what you want to do and make more friends. Naturally, you will find that there are still many people around you who like you and are worthy of your liking.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I can only tell you.

    You don't know when you really like someone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're quite conservative, hehe, not ordinary, too narcissistic.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Little boys generally have this kind of mentality.,Even before I had the same mentality.,But with the growth of age and knowledge.,Everything will change.。。 Rest assured, it's not a psychological problem, and if it is, then I don't have a problem too?? Ha ha..

    It will be fine in the future, in fact, this is also the cherishing of beautiful things, and it is normal not to want to break the image of good things in my heart.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Isn't it a place, let you serve her every day, like grandma, do you like it? Why don't you men think about it when they spoil women, it's not what's wrong, men like you have problems in their hearts, they really love her, they won't mind her before, they will only cherish your time together! Don't wait for the loss to be regretted.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not a place, let you serve her every day, extreme.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The performance of immaturity ,,, a bit extreme.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's normal psychology, on the one hand, you want to like him, but on the other hand, you don't feel like him, maybe it's some objective conditions, maybe you like him, because you have a sexual relationship with him, but on the other hand, maybe you don't like him, just because this kind of sexual relationship makes you feel that you are already his person, so you need him, it is recommended that you find a quiet place to stay, let your heart relax and calm down, objectively analyze your relationship with him, and some conditions for whether you can be together, Make your own best decision by doing so.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People are contradictions, they know that they are not good, but they want to try, don't blame themselves, the important thing is to know how to solve these problems.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Man is a contradiction, not rejecting his body means that you are not very repulsive to him, think about it, don't make a decision after passing the train of youth.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, people are so contradictory.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are other factors that cause love boredom. An American marriage psychology expert pointed out that loneliness, monotony of life, and lack of emotional communication are the main factors that cause love boredom.

    Among these factors, loneliness is one of the more important. A person who does not have someone to share the joys and feelings of life with him can develop a sense of loneliness. If you feel lonely, you will turn into disappointment and complaints about your marriage, and the original feelings will slowly disappear.

    And if there is a lack of emotional communication between husband and wife for a long time, it will also breed love boredom. In fact, the harmonious relationship between husband and wife is formed and maintained by the exchange of ideas and information, it includes mutual respect and appreciation, if the husband and wife lack emotional communication, their estrangement will seep into all aspects of life, so that the two sides are gradually estranged, from mutual disability to mutual boredom, love boredom is generated.

    1.Establish the principle of lover first, and give priority to the legitimate emotional needs of your lover when dealing with anything in daily life. Only when you value the relationship as a couple will all aspects of your life be balanced and solid.

    2.Try to make family life as varied as possible.

    3.Praise each other often.

    4.Strive to improve your self-cultivation in all aspects.

    5.Be good at understanding the psychology of the other party.

    6.Pay attention to each other's strengths and avoid weaknesses.

    7.Adapt appropriately to each other's personalities.

    8.Learn to think together.

    9.Lower your expectations of your lover and raise your expectations of yourself.

    10.Pay attention to the harmony of sex life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's human nature, you said it, others didn't say it.

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