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Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that you suffer losses, be deceived, even your ordinary falls are the most valuable experience in your life What you have to do is to accept all this Cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, and fraternity are even the most painful things. Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.
Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much. You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm! I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself!
In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely. So, isn't it all a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened?
Is that right? For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc.
People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them. Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live?
Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied? So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body.
That's why people feel tired! In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.
Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.
There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! So much to the point. You should work harder to face life.
Even a storm is a necessary part of your life! May you shine every day! Happy and healthy:
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Ever loved? I've been hurt or hurt.
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Is that why??? You didn't tell us the truth, we're not good!! Right? Is it about friends? Or is it about love??
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Is it that you have too many things in your heart to tolerate anything else?
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Is there no one to accompany you, or is there still no purpose in life
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Isn't it time to fall in love? Haha,
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Emptiness generally refers to the feeling that you have nothing to do, that your daily life is not fulfilling enough, and that you don't have any clear ideas in your head. At this time, you should try to enrich your lifeThe most important thing to solve the emptiness is to "go out", set a goal for yourself every day to give yourself the motivation to execute, even if it is as simple as going to a distant place to eat a meal. To overcome emptiness, you must first understand what emptiness is, to use a very simple examplePeople are a small piece of a puzzle that seems ordinary but crucial, and the puzzle will only be complete if you put yourself in the right placeThis piece of the puzzle will also become meaningful. Therefore, people are the same, only by finding the right position, can they better realize the meaning of life; And only by finding the right goal can we completely get out of the emptiness.
I believe that many people have felt this way, if a person lies at home for a day and has nothing to do, just simply swiping his mobile phone, playing games, and ordering takeout even if he eats. You may enjoy a day or two, but after a long time, you will definitely feel that your life is very empty. Now let's look at another kind of life, I will arrange tasks for myself every day, whether it is learning to read, exercising and entertaining, it is difficult to persevere at first, after all, it is very difficult to get out of the comfort zone, but after long-term perseverance, I will find that my heart will become more and more fulfilling.
So if you want to solve the feeling of emptiness in your heart, the first thing is not to let yourself be idleSet a goal for yourself every day, and you can also set a long-term goal for yourself, only under such motivation will people have fighting spirit. Because once people lose the fighting spirit of life, they will naturally feel very empty when they feel that every day is the same.
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A person's life is lonely and arcane. Whether it's a person or a group of revelers, after they disperse, they are still left alone. Therefore, people's hearts are empty, there is no expectation and no disappointment, a very calm feeling, but it is fatally sad, there is a kind of heart that has been cut a small piece but can't say what is going on.
It's like seeing through the red dust, but it's a little unwilling. It's like a holiday birthday, a group of people are preparing and playing together, you look at it very calmly, and your heart feels even more empty, which shows one thing, you have grown up, and the happiest person is not you. What's even more terrifying is that there is no way to solve this emptiness, whether it is to eat a big meal or find something to do on your own, you can only enjoy it, or sleep, and simply ignore it.
Although I don't know if this thing can be linked to depression, but no matter how optimistic people are, no matter how much they learn and how much they do, they will only achieve the effect of alleviation.
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You can ask this question to give the impression that it is.
It's the imperfection of what I do, and I feel a sense of loss in my heart. Or you like to be lively, and your heart is very full when you have something to do, and once you stop the work you are doing and are idle, you feel empty. Or maybe you have the habit of fantasizing, that is, something doesn't necessarily happen, but you think about the consequences of it happening and the way you will deal with it after it happens, but it doesn't happen later, and you feel as if you're missing something.
This is caused by the heavy burden of your mind and the high psychological pressure, usually don't think too much, think too much and feel tired.
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The world of feelings, there is not so much hurt.
Learn to let yourself be free and easy, and don't be hurt by the past.
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Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.
Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.
5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.
Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.
7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.
Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.
Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Come on.
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Do something meaningful to pass the time, and it won't feel empty. Learn to use reason to control bad emotions. Also, talk to friends more, go out for a walk, and also vent some bad emotions.
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It may be that the progress of modern society is too fast, the fierce competition and too much pressure will make people confused, this is normal, just go through this period, at this time it is best to learn some useful knowledge and skills to lay a good foundation, get together with friends more, communicate and exchange, expand social coverage, and prepare for the arrival of new opportunities, opportunities will only be left to those who are prepared.
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Let's watch One Piece. I have a dream in my heart
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If you always feel empty in your heart, it may be because you have been missing a purpose in life. Only by setting new goals and persevering in our efforts will life feel fulfilling.
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I think that if you always feel that your heart is empty, first of all, because you don't keep yourself busy, and secondly, because you have certain problems in social interaction, you can get together with friends and chat.
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This is because you have no goals and pursuits in your heart, feel that you have nothing to do, and then you are impetuous, to solve this problem, you should keep yourself busy and move, and you can't be idle and easy to think cranky and feel empty in your heart.
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Because your life is not fulfilling, it is good to do something meaningful.
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Hehe, everyone has this kind of problem! And this kind of emotion can happen anytime and anywhere, and sometimes it feels this way for no reason, so don't take it personally!
My suggestion is:
1. Make more bosom friends, I mean bosom friends, the kind that can speak in their hearts, when they are troubled and sad, the two of them communicate with each other and talk to each other, just say it.
2. Make more ordinary friends, here refers to playmates who can eat together, go shopping together, and call them out to play together when they are empty! Distraction is effective.
3. Cultivate more hobbies. For example, playing ball, listening to **, reading books, in fact, watching an idol drama with an exaggerated mental retardation can also make you happy.
4. Keep yourself busy. If you're already working, it's usually rare to feel that way. If you don't have a job, find something to do for yourself, such as learning some commonly used fun and practical computer software, like.
photoshop and the like; You can learn English, and learn English while watching English entertainment programs; Or take a look at celebrity blogs and so on.
We all have empty moments, and the key is to make good use of them.
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That's your life is empty, add more seasoning to life, do more meaningful losses, don't think about it when you're fine, it's not good!
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Blank, Wang Luoluo, Pan Qi.
Many times, there will be some emotions, some emotions that I don't think are necessary, rational analysis, everything seems to be fine, everything is also going on normally, everything is also reasonable, but why are there such and such emotions? Including sometimes empty hearts.
There may be the following:
Alone. People spend a lot of time with themselves, how do you spend such time? Being alone is an ability, and you should focus your thoughts more on yourself or what you do, and get along with yourself.
Instead of always forgetting to look elsewhere, always "stressing" others, or fidgeting.
Assertive. A confident person is more often than in affirming himself than denying himself. It also means affirming one's own value, identifying with what one does, firming one's minds, and not following the crowd. Otherwise, it's called self-loss.
Susceptible. Sensitive people are greatly influenced by the outside world, and the emotions they produce are often sad and negative. Therefore, it is necessary to consider the problem rationally.
Optimism. It should be a wise choice.
Have your own things to do. Do what you feel is valuable and meaningful, and you will be very fulfilling, and you will not be empty.
The above are just some of my own perceptions, I hope it will be useful to the subject.
The most important thing for people is to know themselves. in order to be better kind to yourself and develop yourself.
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It only means that you don't have enough confidence in yourself, and sometimes you don't have to pay in return. But if you don't pay, there must be no return, as long as you work hard to express yourself, you must be appreciated, you will be able to get what you want, hard work, peace of mind, and naturally fulfillment.
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