How do prospective high school juniors deal with a nagging mom?

The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, the child wants to raise but does not wait, in fact, looking back and thinking about nagging is also a kind of happiness, at least it is your mother's concern for you, at least she really wants you to be good, if she has nothing to do with her she will not be like that, well......You can learn to understand your mother's difficulties, or take the initiative to communicate with your mother, chat, you can talk about interesting things peacefully, don't be hot as soon as you say it, that will hurt your body, affect your mood, make your mother very sad, and the scene is also embarrassing, so why bother......After the rebellious period, you will understand that it is a kind of love.

The nagging is also for your own good, listen to it more, my mother will just say whatever you want, I am sometimes speechless. .We should all be patient in the face of mother's nagging, listen carefully and you will find that you have such a good mother...

I'm also so annoying, and my mother nagged me at home every day.

It's the best way to choose a place far away from them, otherwise what can you do.

Mom is really verbose.

But I'm a sophomore now, and every time I think about it at school, I know that it's not easy for my mother.

But when I really went home on vacation, I was so annoying, so annoying

Otherwise, you should try to communicate more with your mother.

Although I don't think it's useful to communicate with women.

After a while, she still can't change her nagging, nature child

Oh, it's possible that your mom has entered "menopause", it's best to be considerate of your mom, you are in the stage of puberty, and you may have a greater temper in things. Your mom is in an anxious situation, sensitive to everything, and she must blame herself every time she loses her temper. You're about to take the university entrance exam, and it's stressful, and it's your mom who is more stressed, and your parents are always more anxious than their children, and they will think more about things like that:

What should I do if my child doesn't do well in the exam? How will you go into society in the future? "Wait.

You can talk to your mother through a conversation, which can relieve the pressure on both parties, it is best to relax, be optimistic, you can think about it, is your mother's nagging for yourself, I believe you can calm down, come on! I believe you can! I wish you a good university!!

Same as the third year of high school.

Maybe your mom is in menopause, and my mom usually does the same. But don't let that slow you down. The important thing is to put your mind on studying, and after this year, the sea will be wide and leaping

Judging from the results, the mother was wrong to accompany the studyIf the mother does not accompany the study and shifts the focus a little, maybe the son will not be able to do such an impulsive thing.

1. Disobeying discipline and killing his mother, Yang, a senior high school student in Jiangsu, because he disobeyed his mother Xu's family disciplineAn argument with his mother led to a physical altercation that resulted in the death of his mother.

It's really sad to see this news, is it the child's fault or the mother's fault? The mother worked hard to accompany the study, and the child not only did not understand, but also thought that the mother's nagging was annoying.

Why don't the children who are accompanied by the school think about why their mothers love to nag? Why pay so much attention to changes in your grades? What is the mother doing to give up her job to be a full-time accompaniment?

Second, the mother accompanied the reading wrong, the mother should not accompany Xu If she didn't accompany the reading, would Yang still be so disgusted with Xu? The odds should be slim.

The mother who accompanies the reading is with the child all the time, nagging to eat, nagging to study, nagging to make up classes and other issues, the child is tired of listening every day, and he can't feel the mother's love for him at all, only the feeling of being nagged and judged. If you don't accompany the child, you won't be able to see your mother all the time, and your disgust will immediately turn into a kind of nostalgia, and you will understand your mother's intentions and understand your mother's nagging.

"Far from relatives, close to smell" Whether it is a parent-child relationship or other relationships, it is not a good thing to get too close. When the child grows up, the mother should consciously back down, give the child a certain freedom of life and learning, and not manage too much and get too close.

Xu's accompaniment itself was wrong, she gave up on herself and sacrificed herself, but she didn't let her son make herself happy and happy, but let her son fall into a kind of pain, it was a mistake on top of a mistake, the child could live and study independently in the third year of high school, and he should have let go a long time ago.

3. Children are children, parents are parents, whether children need to accompany them, which troubles many parents, in fact, I personally think that children do not need to be accompanied by their parents, and children need to learn and live more independently, rather than accompanying.

Children need to exercise their ability to learn and live independently, and parents should try not to accompany them regardless of the grade they are in. Yang is already in his third year of high school, he is not in kindergarten and needs his parents to take care of him to eat, drink and sleep, he can eat, drink, sleep and sleep by himself in the third year of high school, and he does not need to be reminded by his parents at the time of care, he needs to be responsible for his own behavior and learn lessons.

If their parents have been with them, they will never grow up, and they will always be "mom boys, mom girls".

The best education that parents give their children is that they are loving, full of positive energy, and have been on the road to pursuing their dreams.

And finally:Parents should be willing to be ordinary, don't think that their children must get ahead, in fact, ordinary is another kind of success, as long as the child is healthy, safe and happy, nothing else matters.

Of course, it is not wrong, but the mother constantly puts pressure on the child, and this method is very wrong and will make the child unable to think about it.

may have been oppressive, so he got angry, and he actually had more opinions about his mother, so he did something special without humanity.

There's nothing wrong with that. It's just that the mother puts all her energy and hope on the child, which causes too much pressure on the child, and she can give the child some space appropriately.

Personally, I don't think it's the mother's fault, the mother is also for the good of the child, which will cause a lot of psychological pressure on the child, and the child always follows the mother's ideas, and the heart will collapse after a long time, so it will lead to such a thing.

The reporter learned in the investigation that Yang's mother Xu is a teacher, usually very strict with her son, and has high requirements for his learning, and now his son has reached the critical third year of high school, so Xu rented a house near the school to accompany him, hoping that the child can achieve better results.

Yang's neighbor also revealed that he often heard the quarrel between the mother and son, and it can be seen from this information that the mother also has a deep love for the child, so she is responsible, because she has too high expectations for the child, so she is strict with the child.

She can be regarded as a painstaking child for the child, but she would never have thought that the knife in the child's hand would be pointed at her throat, she felt that she loved the child, but the child regarded herself as an enemy.

This is a family tragedy, in fact, the child and the mother are both victims, when everyone sees this news, they will inevitably accuse the child of being cruel and cruel, but this child is only 17 years old, which is the best age in life, and should be full of sunshine and play with friends.

However, he was so overwhelmed by his studies that he could not breathe, and even attacked his loved ones, and his conflict with his mother became the last straw that broke the camel's back. The long-term stress was not vented, and this tragedy eventually happened.

In fact, there are not a few such cases, with the acceleration of the pace of society, the increase in children's fierce competition, similar extreme events also occur frequently, many children commit suicide, run away or do harm to their relatives because of study pressure.

This can also be said to be the tragedy of education, although the parents' starting point is good, but in the eyes of the child is not the case, the parents in the eyes of the child only have grades, they do not understand the child's feelings and do not pay attention, the child's pressure has nowhere to tell, can not be resolved, and finally can only end in tragedy.

This student didn't want to be disciplined by his mother, so he had a quarrel with his mother, during which there was a physical altercation, which finally led to the death of his mother. This student's approach is too extreme and hateful.

The reason why the junior in high school would kill his mother was because he was under too much pressure, and part of his pressure came from his mother, so he killed his mother impulsively.

This is a tragedy of homeschooling. I think it is the result of a deformed love, the mother cares too much about the child, sets a good route for the child, chooses a good model, and learns according to her own wishes, which leads to the child's mental pressure, psychological distortion can not be released, and finally leads to tragedy.

Because he felt that his mother was too strict, he usually nagged him, so that he couldn't prevent it, and finally he killed his mother, I think this student will definitely regret it in the future, and only parents are selfless dedication to him in the world.

It is only in the process of arguing with the mother that the student misses and causes the death of the mother, and the mother also has problems with the way the child is educated, which will lead to changes in the parent-child relationship, so in the process of educating the child, we must pay attention to the ways and means.

Because he had an argument with his mother, and was very dissatisfied with his mother's discipline and abuse, he became very emotional, and finally hacked his mother to death when it was difficult to control his emotions.

I think that as long as it is because of dissatisfaction with my mother's long-term management and restraint, the long-standing anger eventually turns into hatred.

Because this student was a junior in high school, he was under a lot of pressure to study, and he had some quarrels with his mother at that time, so he behaved like this.

It should have been his mother who put too much pressure on him, and he felt annoyed, so he killed him.

Because he was under great pressure to study, his mother's discipline was too harsh for him to bear, so he killed his mother in a fit of emotion.

The senior high school students are under a lot of pressure to study, and the mother is too strict in her daily life, so the child can't control his emotions for a while, which leads to tragedy.

If your parents' nagging has become a habit, then you should wait for them to be in a good mood, calm down and talk to them about "nagging is also harmful", tell him what things can be said more, what things can not be said more, and explain the reason. In this way, when they want to nag in the future, they will also remember what you said, and slowly they will know, which ones to nag?

If you say it and they still don't change, then you quietly close the door while they are nagging, but don't talk back and do your own thing.

There are no parents in the world who do not love their children, and the nagging of parents to us is undoubtedly a kind of love, and I hope that we will all become better, so when you are faced with the nagging of your parents, you can still listen patiently and express affirmation from time to time, it is the best, you are definitely a likable child. If you smile at your parents whenever you hear them, and think to yourself that you have parents who love you so much, then you will feel very happy when you listen to the nagging. Your parents are nagging you because you did something they didn't think was right, and they wanted to give you some advice, so if you can sit down with your parents and talk quietly, maybe you'll be in a much better mood.

Of course, parental nagging is not always correct and useful. And due to the limitations of their time, intelligence, etc., there must be a lot of incorrect, even negative energy. What should I do if I encounter this kind of parent? Then if you don't hear it, just hide and find a soothing pastime.

When we face the love nagging of our parents.

If parents are concerned about their nagging, then listen carefully to their thoughts, and if you don't want to hear their nagging, then please:

1. Arrange a lot of work for yourself If you don't want to go home and listen to your parents' nagging more, then you keep yourself busy, and your parents will not want to bother you when they see that you are working hard, so this is also a very good way.

2. Strive to be a child who does not let parents worry Although parents are worried about their children all the time, if we are a good child, listen to our parents more often, and be a good child, then parents must have nothing to nag you.

3. Listen to your parents' nagging as a kind of happiness If you smile at your parents whenever you hear your parents' nagging, and think that you have parents who love you so much, then you will also feel very happy when you listen to the nagging.

4. Find a way to have a pastime In life, we will encounter many unsatisfactory things, and we still don't want our parents to worry, so we have to hide it from our parents, so we can find a way to have a pastime, such as singing and walking, etc.

5. Talk to your parents Parents are nagging you because you have done something that worries them, and they want to give you some advice, so if you can sit down with your parents and talk quietly at this time, maybe you will be in a much better mood.

I'll answer enthusiastic netizens.

1. Listen patiently to the bottom of the world.

First, it's not your parents who are like this, every parent is like this, second, we can't change our own parents, it's the same if we change others, it's all love for us, third, this thing can only be accepted, recognized by them, we accept what is right, if it's not right, it's good to bow your head.

Fourth, study the reasons behind our parents' nagging, whether it is due to their habits, or whether we are really immature and do too many things that are not successful, which makes our parents worry that if it is the latter, we need to adjust and improve ourselves.