Why did a boy break up with a girl? Why did the boy come back and break up with the girl?

Is it really that you don't have a good personality together? Why think so much. If you don't think it's your personality that is incompatible, it's that he has changed his mind.

Don't overthink it. Without him, there are thousands of good boys waiting for you, and you will definitely be able to find one that suits you.

To put it simply, there are the following points.

1.Your boyfriend is a game boy (the kind that you dump after playing, the most cheap!! Saying that the personality is not compatible is just an excuse

2.Emotional dilution, this is what many students will encounter (if you are a student) generally will not be more than 1 year, it is a normal situation, if you are sincere, you can only rely on yourself to extricate yourself

3.The worst of all - unintentionally you often do things that your boyfriend can't stand, and you never ask, resulting in **, to put it mildly, you are too selfish.

At first, I didn't know much, but I was able to be together, but after a long time, I gradually found that the other party was a little discordant with myself, or I couldn't recognize some of the other party's practices, and I would become discordant, and emotional things would be reluctant

Or, he is a very frivolous person, thinks other girls are good-looking, and falls in love with others.

In fact, sometimes it is a good thing to break up, you can know your shortcomings from the other party, and then turn the shortcomings into advantages, and then make a better one, as for this relationship, time is the best healing medicine, why bother yourself?

The personality is not compatible! There is also a fading relationship, another new love, or the girl is not good enough to distract him, or he has a terminal illness!!

In fact, if the personality is really incompatible, the girl will also feel more and more difficult to communicate, in that case, the breakup is a relief, it is good for everyone, but the two parties don't make the relationship too stiff.

I think you should think about the bits and pieces of your time together, whether you often get into trouble because of disagreement, etc. Maybe he's an excuse... You reflect on it yourself.,Then communicate with him to see what he has to say.,If he's still determined to break up.,Then I'll advise you to give up.,This kind of relationship is still not very safe.。。。

That's all I can say here, because you didn't say a lot of facts about you, so I don't know how to analyze it...

1;Two people are not suitable.

2;He's taking a liking to someone else.

He must not have been sincere to you before, so that kind of man is not worth your affection.

There is only one reason for two to fall in love, but there are thousands of excuses for breaking up.

There are so many whys. There won't be so many crazy men and women in this world.

The subject's question is somewhat vague, is the boy's return due to the fact that the two of them have been separated for a long time, or is it for what reason?

Personally, I think that if two people haven't seen each other for a long time, and the boy returns and wants to separate from the girl, there are several possibilities.

The first possibility

It's that the boy already has someone else he likes.

Because the two have been separated for a long time, the boy's feelings for the girl have faded, and he likes other girls, so he chooses to break up with the girl.

To put it bluntly, the boy fell in love with someone else, and he came back to break up with the girl, and the boy had changed his mind.

The second possibility

The boy may have something unspeakable.

This kind of unspeakable concealment can't be said to the girl, and she doesn't want to drag the girl down, so she simply chose to break up with the girl.

That is to say, the boy actually has unavoidable suffering, which may come from his body itself, or from his family, all in all, it makes him very stressed, he likes girls very much, but he doesn't want girls to suffer with him, so he chooses to break up with girls.

The third possibility

When the boy returned, he heard some rumors about the girl and didn't believe the girl anymore

In other words, the girl was not able to give the boy enough security, and after the boy came back, he felt that the distance between the two was getting farther and farther away, or that the boy didn't trust the girl at all, so he chose to break up with the girl.

In fact, everyone's psychological activities are different, and only the boy's thoughts are best known to the boy himself, if the girl still has attachment to the boy, she can try to choose to redeem it.

If the girl can accept the boy's return and propose to break up, then I also hope that the two can separate peacefully, respect each other's ideas, and be okay with each other.

Because of unwillingness, there is also a memory of the good things that the two of them used to be. I can't put it down!

In the past, we were separated for less than 2 weeks together, and then I returned to the city where I studied, and he was in his city, and then in the month we were separated, I suddenly received a WeChat message from my friend, sending **. In the middle of it, he is sitting with his ex, still holding her. In fact, as soon as we got together, he went on a trip with his brother and sister-in-law and his ex.

I said it was okay, but it really didn't matter? At that time, I didn't post a photo or say anything, I just said that I broke up. At that time, I didn't care if he was back together with his ex, but I believe that any woman who sees her boyfriend and his ex together will have doubts and uneasiness.

We have been separated for a few months, and he keeps calling me.

I thought we were separated, I could forget, but during the time we were separated, he often called me, I took photos of him and **number, in short, I deleted all about him, his own ** can't play, just ask someone else's mobile phone to call me, every day different ** called, But in 2016, he added back to my WeChat again, when we chatted and chatted, chatting very well, he suddenly said to me that we are together (reunite), I didn't agree at the time, but he didn't give up, But I didn't say yes a few times later, and the last time I said yes, I fell in love with him again!

This kind of thing is known only to the parties themselves.