If your husband loves you, but he can t tolerate you, what does it mean?

I think this is very normal, in fact, every man is more or less selfish. If you weren't selfish, you wouldn't have the security you need, and I'm like your husband, I understand. You also have to understand him, if you really feel bad, you mention it to him, and he should be able to understand you.

Although every man says that he is a civilized person, he does not have a single bone of feudal thought.

When you encounter a threat.

Especially when it comes to the woman you love deeply.

Especially when you feel that someone is eyeing your own position ...

Men are instinctive creatures.

You should be good-looking or you have a strong relationship with the opposite sex, so.

The worry is justified.

This is not a solution that can be solved by the word "inclusive".

You should give him more confidence in his behavior and spoken language, so that he can take care of himself.

Hobby. Interest.

Then he won't keep circling around you! But.

You'll feel like you've been left behind!

Because that's what he is.

There is more communication, and now men and women are equal for a long time.

If it's true love, it's inclusive.

It shows that his thinking is more feudal.

Everyone has their own habits and ways of life, this way has been many years, it is difficult to change, this may also be the way he knows to love you, if you are very sure that he loves you, then there is no need to ask him to change for you!

It's a bit of a self! And a bit feudal! Connected to the same fate! Relatively helpless!

Not accepted. A man who doesn't love you enough won't be willing to pay for you in money. Although the call for equality between men and women is growing, we cannot ignore the fact that this call is based on the fact that there can be no equality between men and women.

Men need to face stronger same-sex competition, which makes them more competitive and physically qualified than women. It also prevents them and women from essentially achieving equal pay for equal work. Whether it's in terms of salary, salary, or other benefits, they can easily gain the upper hand.

Love has an expiration date, and marriage is not a safe. If you don't know how to operate, love will expire when it should expire, and it will be corrupt if it should be corrupted, and it will definitely not be open because they have had a good beginning.

Notes:

Whether you are in love or married, when a man truly loves you, he will always consciously take care of you and care for you. Because you occupy an important place in his heart, he will take your feelings into account in everything he does.

And he will care about you when he gets along with you in life. If he asks you these five sentences frequently, it means that he really loves you and cares about you.

Although it is a bad habit to come home late, it is okay once in a while. After all, everyone has a friend, and it's understandable that they will go home later. However, as soon as you arrive late, the man will lose his temper with you, even suspect you, and say something unpleasant.

In fact, when a person does this, his love for you is not strong enough to love you, so it will treat your feelings like this and treat you like that.

Many men feel that cooking is a woman's duty, but this is not an objective fact. Women also learn some culinary expertise. Before marriage, the man did not discuss you, but after marriage, the man was not very happy with the fact that he could not cook.

A person's perception does indicate that his love for you is insufficient. A man who doesn't love you will think that you will definitely not do that, it is not easy to do that, and it is annoying to meet you. Therefore, after marriage, if you meet such a man, you can really endure hardship.

It is true that women are paid less than men in many jobs. In particular, some women still have to take care of their loved ones, so they don't have much to think about, and in most cases, it is not easy to raise them. But because of this, men don't know enough and feel that women earn too little money, and still feel that their life influence should be the lowest.

I never thought that women would do it because of home. This kind of man doesn't love a woman enough, and when a woman looks away, they will decide to marry him.

A lot of men take their parents that seriously. But when a woman marries you, you still have to pay attention to the woman and consider her emotions. Sometimes, a dispute between a woman and her mother-in-law is not necessarily the woman's fault.

You can verify the situation to resolve the difficulty. You may even feel that a woman is too much, so that it is not easy for that woman to come. In such a marriage, I firmly believe that women will be disappointed.

After getting married, if a man can't tolerate your living habits, and is often dissatisfied with your figure and dress, it means that he doesn't really love you as a person.

He is unwilling to tolerate your bad temper, will not respect your hobbies, is unwilling to support your work, is unwilling to be filial to your parents, and is always critical of your friends, which shows that he is not sincere to you.

If a man can't tolerate you after getting married, no matter what, he is self-centered, it means that he doesn't really love you and even wants to control you financially.

Bai Yang said, "Love does not develop logically, so we must always pay attention to its changes." Love is not eternal, so it must be pursued constantly. "Love can't be forever, its changing climate is always invisible, unconsciously, and before you even notice it, it's getting farther and farther away from you.

I think that both like and love have some elements of possession, and they both hope that the other party belongs to themselves alone, and I hope that the other party's heart can only tolerate themselves alone, and no one else can exist. But we can't be sure that the other party's heart for us can always be the same, sometimes the people around you may have slowly changed and no longer love you, but you still haven't found out. A man "tolerates you" in these four things, which means that he really doesn't love you anymore.

1. Be with the opposite sex.

If a person loves you and likes you, he doesn't want the person he loves to be so close to other people of the opposite sex, and if he sees other men close to his woman, he will be jealous and angry. But if a man doesn't love you, he won't interfere with your dealings with other members of the opposite sex, no matter what you do or do.

Second, I came home very late.

You come home very late every day, and your man doesn't care about you or cares about you, and such a man doesn't care about you anymore. A man who loves you, he cares a lot about why you come home so late and who you go out with, he will take the initiative to ask you, call you ** to let you go home early, or go pick you up.

3. Don't tell him what is on your mind.

Everyone's thoughts cannot be the same, in a relationship, the communication between two people can promote the relationship between two people and enhance the relationship between two people. It is normal for two people to tell each other their hearts, and what they are most afraid of is that one party does not say it, and the other party does not ask, which will only make the relationship between the two people worse and worse. If a man can tolerate you and not tell him what is on his mind, the explanation of his heart is no longer pointing to you in Yufan.

Fourth, don't give him a **.

Take her own side as an example, a friend used to fight with her boyfriend often, and then slowly** became less and less, because the two were in a long-distance relationship, her boyfriend came to her, and the two of them had a big fight. It can be seen that this man loves her and does not want the two of them to be like this. If this man doesn't love her, she doesn't give him a **, and this man won't say much.

Many people advocate that there must be mutual tolerance and understanding in the relationship, which is true, but if it is infinite tolerance, it becomes indulgence. Therefore, the measurement of this still needs to be grasped by everyone in their own feelings, if you repeatedly tolerate these 5 things of men, it will make him love you even less!

1. Tolerate his bad temper.

A bad temper is for changing, not for tolerating over and over again, if you always tolerate a man's bad temper, then in the eyes of the man, this is not a serious problem, so he will definitely do it again. Moreover, in his heart, he will also feel that you can be infinitely tolerant, which will make him even less concerned about your feelings.

2. Tolerate his mistakes in principle.

If a man makes a mistake of principle and you can tolerate it, then the man will also think that you are an unprincipled woman. This kind of tolerance not only does not have any benefits for the relationship, but also brings more negative effects to the relationship, and the most serious thing is that it will make the man not love you even more.

3. Tolerate him and be good to other women.

Single-mindedness in the relationship is not touchable, this is the bottom line of feelings, and it should also be the bottom line of women's tolerance. If a man is always good to other women, but you don't say a word, this will not make the man change his mind, let alone let the man see your goodness. On the contrary, it will make men feel that you don't care about these things, and over time, they will naturally not love you.

They will tolerate your bad temper, they will tolerate your state of life, they will not interfere too much, they will love the house and your family.

Being able to choose to ease your emotions when you are angry. Be able to tolerate some of the bad habits you develop in your daily routine.

Be tolerant of your past, tolerant of your temper, tolerant of your shortcomings, tolerant of your family, and be very patient with you.