The highest state of loving someone is that if he is happy, will I be happy?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It should be said that as long as he is happy, don't care if he is happy or not, he will not be happy if he can't have himself, I couldn't experience this feeling before, but now that I have met the person I love, I can really know the feeling of "I can give up everything for the person I love, including him"! But in order for him to be truly happy, you also have to try to make yourself better, at least look better, so that he won't be burdened!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As long as he is happy, he is happy, this is self-deception, in fact, because he let go, he feels more painful, regrets, and blames himself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is great.

    Love is also selfish.

    The kind of practice you are talking about is the concept of love of a philanthropic person.

    A lot of things can be seen from a different perspective, and you can look at it this way, for example, most people think that a third party is destroying someone else's love, but from another point of view, he is actually fulfilling his own love.

    The third person is also very brave, he is brave to pursue his own happiness, people are selfish, no matter what this person has done, he just wants to live a good life, peace of mind, love is the most selfish kind of human feelings.

    So if I love someone, I will use all my strength to make him love me, and I will not have regrets.

    I can be very selfish and look for the next relationship with peace of mind, and maybe I can live a life without regrets.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Say so, but when he's happy you're not with him or because of you, will you still be happy? People have to be practical. There is no rule that a person can only love a few times in his life, except for this person, I believe that there are similar occurrences.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    His happiness is yours only when you are together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's the highest state of mind. Love him and bless him. I used to think so. But when the real time happened to me, I found that it was not like that. Maybe it's my heart that love hasn't been sublimated to that state @.

    If you just like it, I think it's easier to do that because you haven't invested much yet! After all, love is selfish. I don't know what you think now

    But no matter what you think, I hope you will be happy! Don't want to think too much. It's good to be happy, it's really pulling!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Without him, no matter how happy it is, it is a desolate feeling!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The high level of love, but the love is too high, if you don't pay attention, you will fall very badly, so love needs everyone's good attitude and self-confidence to achieve.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are many things that are beautiful only in the missing

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How many people can reach this state? How many people deserve that kind of true affection?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think so.

    First of all, love is not one-sided.

    It's for two.

    Happiness should be for two people.

    Secondly, love is one-sided.

    He should love you.

    Otherwise, it's not your love.

    That's just you in love.

    So, I think love is a matter of two people.

    Happiness will not divide each other.

    It should be a whole.

    Happiness is love.

    The joys and sorrows of two people are not buried in the bent birds that will be separated sooner.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Perhaps the highest level of love is letting go.

    But let go for the sake of her happiness, her happiness.

    For her filial piety, Wang Xian can go smoothly and let Qiaoling open his hand.

    Love is the highest. The realm is self-forgetfulness.

    Take her as your own.

    His joys, angers, and sorrows are his own joys, angers, and sorrows.

    It is the highest level.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't love him, you won't have heartache, and it's because you love him. Divide his happiness, but what Pai Feng left you with cannot be happiness 1, it can only be sadness and imitation of the world, and the heart is ready for pain. Isn't that how you feel?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The highest state of loving someone is.

    If he is happy, you will be happy.

    He's sad, and you're sadder than he.

    He's in a hurry, you're even more anxious, and do everything you can to help him solve his problem.

    When I saw him talking and laughing with a girl.

    There will be a slight sadness in your heart.

    When I saw that he found the other half of his heart and treated her very attentively.

    Your heart will feel a little jealous, but at the same time, it will feel very comforting.

    After all, he got the happiness he wanted.

    That's what you'd like to see.

    So, like someone, love someone.

    It will be reflected from all sides.

    Just observe yourself.

    You will find out whether you really like it, or you really love it.

    Hehe. Bless you, happy man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Questions. Hello teacher!Love in lovers, new contact, even though the other party is excellent, what if you don't feel particularly happy?

    Well, is it because you are not confident in this relationship?It's too much for him, he doesn't care too much about your emotions, right?It's not every day that I'm making you happy. Is it?

    Questions. Maybe a little, and it seems that they are not very willing to pay financially.

    Don't take the initiative to pay?

    Huh??That's a character problem.

    Questions. How to judge a person's character?

    I think the most basic thing is not to let girls pay, this is the most basic quality in a relationship.

    How many times have you been dating?Are you all paying?

    Questions. I'm not very willing to buy me a gift.

    Let me tell you, when I was in love with my husband, I casually said that I would use my mobile phone to watch for a while**, and I didn't chat, but I bought an Apple tablet the next day. So I can talk to him, but he's not very rich.

    I had a very scummy ex before, and he basically cheated me out, so women must keep their eyes open when they are in love

    Questions. Twice, one person pays the same money, which seems to be a bit like the A system.

    This guy can't do it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is such love in the world, but it is rare. In addition, to enter a person's heart, it requires a high level of wisdom.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It seems that you are really in love with each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you can really reach that state, it is time for human beings to become extinct.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Habit is the highest state of love!

    It's habits, and when you get used to the habits in a person's life, you really fall in love with him. "Love is the identification of one person with another person's habits, and to love to the highest level is to identify with his habits. A woman who is accustomed to a man's snoring, from being uncomfortable to getting used to it and then not being able to sleep without his snoring, is love;A man is accustomed to a woman's willfulness, coquettishness, and even unreasonableness and making trouble for nothing, this is love;One person will change and accommodate for the sake of another, this is love;The philosophy of love is sometimes as simple as that, in the bits and pieces of life.

    If you can't adapt to a person and all his habits, it just means that you don't love him, or that you haven't reached the realm of love, because love is in these details. When you have gotten used to all the habits of your lover, such as the smell of tobacco in his clothes, such as his clean shirt, such as when he gets up in the middle of the night to watch football. If you're used to that, then stop asking about the stupid subject of love.

    Love, sometimes it is so simple and simple, it is like a glass of boiled water around us, within reach, light and tasteless, but it is a necessity of life. I am reminded of the words of Baby Anne: "Not to love him, but to love the days with him."

    Perhaps, habit is the belonging of love, and it is also the highest state of love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    "Love is a game, and we must always be on equal footing with each other, evenly matched, in order to rely on each other for a long time." Because an opponent who is too strong is tired, and an opponent who is too weak is tired. ”

    The highest level of loving a person is the companionship of the soul, and on the spiritual level, it will always be the same. An unforgettable love must be the kind that loves to the bones, a confidant of the soul, no matter how far away it is, it is very close when you think about it.

    It is easy to get 10,000 taels**, and it is difficult to find a confidant. "Everyone needs a confidant, especially when they reach middle age. The best confidants are husbands and wives who love each other deeply.

    Everyone's soul needs to be filled with feelings, otherwise, the soul will be empty; Between people, the deeper the feelings, the closer the soul. True love for one person is two souls, which slowly merge together and can become one and become a community of souls

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think that the highest level of loving someone is to hope that he will grow old with him, meet him to see the sunset of life, and carry out love to the end.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The highest state of love is the passing years of the dull and learn to capture happiness in forgetfulness. That's how I feel anyway

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The highest level of love is lovelessness, and loveless people are filled with love everywhere.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The Bible says that the highest level of love is not love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's that person who is always in your heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's when you find out one day that she's not by your side, and you're in a hurry.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Love is willing to pay and sacrifice unconditionally for each other, you don't need any reason to love someone, you just want the other party to be happy forever and never worry about each other, because the other party is happy and happy, and feel happy because the other party is happy.

    We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, the happiness of the other party is your happiness, you should be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness.

    There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

    If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

    Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy. tr

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Why can you love someone to the point of not loving? Many people have asked me this phrase, and I give them this: and it is "very simple".

    If you can't be with him or her, why bother with him/her? It's better to be separated, each other will be better, two people together is not necessarily happiness, because there is such a saying: "Love each other, it's better to know each other", what can two people do together?

    Is it happiness? If two people are together, and both parties don't know each other, then what is the point of being together? , Loving someone, you don't have to be together, it's good to look at him, both parties understand each other, isn't it much better than falling in love?

    Rather than being a pair of lovers, it is better to be a confidant, of course, this is only in a certain thing or in a certain degree of talk, such as we take a pair of chopsticks, break it, repair it, then, can it still be used? The answer is: "Yes" but what about a new pair of chopsticks?

    Which pair is good? After all, there are scars, even if it is only a little ......Loving someone can be so much that you don't love it, do you understand?

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