Regarding online dating, uh, it s also a psychological problem.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Here's a question for you: do you want to be with him or what year should you know? You don't want to online dating, you want us to give you a reason so that you can let go of your heart to her, maybe you really like him, but the premise is that you yourself have to know what you really want, we netizens give you knowledge and advice, and the final decision is still yourself, think about what you really need!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Big sister comes to tell you, you are still young, don't talk nonsense, online dating has no good results, it is a truth to fall in love with teachers and students, suppose your netizens are in Beijing, you are in Shanghai, you two are still in love! When you were in school here, he didn't know what he was doing over there! There is enough time to memorize 2 questions!

    I can't be together, why do I want to do so much? You think that distance produces beauty, let me tell you, distance is distance, and it can only produce rustiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hey, don't be like me, online dating, now it's still messing up, hurting her, and I'm sad, now it's endless, wave after wave, online dating, in the real world, it's best not to talk about what you like or dislike, you know, the Internet is illusory, no one knows what kind of person the other party is, if you really like it, make an appointment to meet, get to know each other in reality, you know, understanding in reality is the real understanding, even if you really like him now, you have to think twiceRemember, to suppress your impulses, because all mistakes are caused by impulses, to learn to empathize, to understand each other from different angles, there is only so much to tell you, as for whether you like him, or worship him, it's all the same, distance produces beauty, only in reality, I have emphasized many times, remember, reality is the last word, the Internet, unreliable, practice is the only criterion for verifying the truth,

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I definitely liked it!

    At first, you admired his knowledge as a kind of liking, a kind of subconscious liking, and then your classmate's reminder put your liking for him in front of you, and you found that you really liked him, so you searched for his relevant information to learn more about him.

    That's how your psychology changes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't like him, I like someone, I want to see him, I want to talk to him, but I get nervous when I talk, I get shy, I feel shy.

    You're just worshipping him, you're a little bit dependent on him psychologically, that's it, if you really like it, it's impossible to suppress it, don't think about it so much, you can just think of him as a friend, a confidant, or a big brother, don't bother yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it was because of the admiration that came out of the liking.

    When we get along with someone for a long time, we will inevitably fall in love with each other for a long time.

    I also talked to a guy on the Internet, I told him everything, and he would give me advice.

    We have known this netizen for three years, and we all have realistic boyfriends and girlfriends.

    I respectfully call him brother, and I admit that I love his humor and the occasional melancholy.

    But I know it's just liking and nothing else.

    If I were to be realistic with him, I'm afraid I'd run away.

    And both of our boyfriends and girlfriends knew that there was such a friend who had never met.

    It's normal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Did you meet someone in the Night God Cafe? I don't think the Internet is very realistic, so it's better to be a friend, don't think too much

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're standing in the doorway that likes him, and you're being pushed through the door by your classmates, because you're paying attention to him now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Internet knowledge is a fictional world, and what you imagine is not so beautiful in reality.

    Note that he may appreciate him, but if you haven't been in touch for a long time, you won't have such thoughts, after all, time will dilute a lot.

    After all, the Internet is unrealistic, don't let your classmates' words hinder your thoughts, you just appreciate him!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I didn't like him, but I liked him under the influence of my classmates. I pay so much attention to him, I like him. Me too, I always look at whether his QQ is **, and I wonder if he sent it as soon as the message rings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everything that is detached from reality lacks authenticity, but it is just that Beratula is afraid of what he should do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This kind of thing is a bottomless pit.

    There can be no result.

    It's better to retract your mind as soon as possible and have a crush on the handsome guy next to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You like it unconsciously, and sometimes you really don't realize it, and since you have feelings for him, you might as well try it, and maybe he likes you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's like, it's just that you don't want to admit it! Girls can also be duplicitous!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's your emptiness and loneliness. I'll be honest ...

    Remember.. Not many people play long-distance relationships.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Be grateful: He has done for you. I don't really like him, and I don't have the mystery of meeting.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then confess and prove it, so that you will not leave regrets.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you haven't seen people in reality, don't say this lightly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This should be said that you used to like it in your heart It is that you don't know that you like him, but now your classmates have said what you think in your heart, and you yourself have understood what you think in your heart, but how to deal with this matter You have to see it yourself My personal opinion is that the probability of success in online dating is not very large.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You'll know when you meet. That's true.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Dear, I'm glad to answer for you! The psychological problems of online dating among middle school students mainly include the following aspects:1

    Loneliness and dependency: Middle school students are in adolescence and are emotionally prone to loneliness. Online dating can provide a channel to communicate with others, but over-reliance on online dating relationships can lead to the loss of real-life social skills, affecting daily life and school.

    2.Uncertainty and anxiety: Online dating often lacks face-to-face communication, and it is difficult to determine the authenticity of the other party, which is prone to insecurity and anxiety.

    At the same time, middle school students are also uncertain about their own image and social skills, and may be worried that the other party will not like to judge them and be happy with them. 3.Idealization and fantasy:

    Due to the lack of physical contact, it is easy to idealize and accompany the online dating partner, thinking that the other person is perfect. This idealization can easily lead to dissatisfaction and disappointment in real relationships. 4.

    Time and energy consumption: Online dating can take up a lot of time and energy among middle school students, leading to neglect of academics and other important matters. For a long time, it will have an impact on the overall development and interpersonal relationships of middle school students.

    5.Social Barriers and Confessional Communication Skills: After being immersed in the virtual world for a long time, middle school students may lose the ability to communicate face-to-face, and develop problems such as silence, introversion, and social anxiety.

    **When dating online, middle school students should remain rational and make reasonable discernments and judgments about each other. At the same time, for middle school students, it is recommended to pay attention to real-life social relationships, cultivate good interpersonal skills, and reasonably arrange time for study and entertainment. Most importantly, parents and teachers should be concerned about the mental health of secondary school students and provide appropriate guidance and support.

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