I want to ask if it s good to fall in love in college, and whether it s good to fall in love in coll

Updated on educate 2024-05-25
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not good or bad, sometimes you meet the right person even in high school, you will work hard, so just follow the fate, life must always have joys and sorrows, and experience is also a kind of wealth.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you don't find a partner in college, it's hard to find a partner when you come out, and in the end, you can go on a blind date, and you can do it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Haha, how to say it when you fall in love, it's also a point when you talk about it.

    But it's an experience after all.

    It's up to you to figure it out.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Book one first so you don't find it after you work.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Not good, a waste of money and a waste of time. I found that studying hard in college and working with classmates was much more enjoyable than the quality of the assignments than falling in love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How to say it, everyone has different opinions. There are pros and cons. I think it's great if two people can live and work together in the same place after graduation, but if not, there are other things like going abroad, which will be very troublesome.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's nice to have someone with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There should be no definite answer to this!! After all, you're not too young, so decide for yourself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    。can tell you. If you don't fall in love, you may be idle.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's good to be able to enrich your life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, as long as you don't delay your ...... study

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    College students don't have to be in a relationship, but if you meet someone you like, talk about it, but pay attention to the following questions:

    1. Correctly handle the relationship between love and study.

    As a college student, the relationship between love and study should be corrected, students should still focus on academics, and must make the school a place for learning, of course, it is not advisable to put academics first, and it is not advisable to waste studies for love.

    2. Establish a healthy outlook on love.

    Learning is not the only one, but we must focus on academics, we must fully understand the importance of learning, don't covet temporary happiness, love should give each other happiness, so, do not abandon studies, otherwise, can not give each other happiness.

    3. Enjoy the quality time together.

    For college students, this college time must be the best time in life, so we should fully enjoy the time with our lovers, and those who know how to be in love will be together to urge each other, improve each other, and prepare for the future.

    4. Learn to be considerate of each other.

    In the eyes of everyone, love is a very beautiful thing and is sacrosanct, so we should cherish it more, so that each other can respect and improve each other.

    5. Don't think too much about economic issues.

    Falling in love during the student period is still relatively noble, at least the pursuit of material things is not particularly much, but more about the talent of the other party, precisely because there are many possibilities in the future, so improving oneself is the last word.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's definitely not good to fall in love in college. Because the study life at the university is relatively intense. Falling in love is a waste of time and energy, and it will definitely delay learning. That's more than worth the cost.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's okay to fall in love with someone you like in college, but you should still focus on your studies.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    College students falling in love is a common phenomenon that is not common in Yanzai, love is a very beautiful thing, and love is noble and rude. Teenagers will also be full of yearning for love, which is not allowed in high school, so there are many students who fall in love in college. The most anxious Jian Liang of college students falling in love is unable to correctly handle the relationship between feelings and studies, love and work.

    However, today's college students have a very positive attitude towards love and academics, believing that "the meaning of love is to help each other and at the same time raise oneself". True love is based on the foundation and premise of studies and careers, and turning happy love into positive force is the right way for college students to fall in love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Falling in love in college will make people feel very happy to talk about the wheel, and it is more relaxed to meet the person you like in the university to dig the campus, because the study is not heavy, there will be a lot of time to maintain the relationship, and the two people are sweeter together, but you must find someone who is really suitable for you, don't fall in love casually, and pay attention to the character of the other party.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is different from person to person, as long as it does not delay your studies and does not affect your normal life, you can still do it, good luck!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can push forward high school, junior high school, elementary school, is it good to fall in love? You can find out!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you have to distinguish whether you are talking for the sake of falling in love or if you like someone who wants to fall in love with her. Talking for the sake of falling in love may not be happy or even feel like a waste of time.

    Qi Min accompanies Laci, college student, you have to recognize your identity. Improving yourself is the most important thing, and what kind of person you are, you will attract what kind of person you are. If you become excellent and slippery, excellent people will naturally be attracted to you.

    So remember to improve yourself and don't become a love brain.

    In the end, if two people get better together, it proves that the relationship is good and you are improving each other. On the contrary, if two people are together and quarrel every day, then you need to think about the relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you're already a college student, then you're already 18 years old, you're already an adult, and of course you can fall in love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    College love is a dream, but many people have been single for four years.

    Why. Before going to college, students' minds are full of beautiful visions of college life, what to participate in the student union, get scholarships, fight for graduate school, etc., and the most planned list should be to talk about a sweet campus love.

    <> high school does not allow early love, mainly because of the fear of delaying students' learning, and also for fear that they will be immature and guided by bad emotions, but there are still some high school students who are secretly in early love, and they are usually criticized and educated when they are discovered, and even more so they are punished with demerits, and the price is not small, even so it cannot stop the throbbing of some adolescent students.

    In college, love can be above board, and there are many students who have this plan in college, but in today's college campuses, single people abound, and many students have never been in love in four years of college, and there are many students who have good looks and conditions in all aspects.

    In the matter of falling in love, usually boys take the initiative more, there are many beautiful girls on the college campus, and even if you don't fall in love, you can become friends, but many college boys would rather play games in the dormitory, and they don't go far out of the dormitory to make friends, and they regret it after being single for four years, why didn't they fall in love.

    College students would rather live in dormitories than make friends, why are they so "rebellious"?

    Not only boys, but many girls would rather stay in the dormitory than go out to meet new friends, naturally there is no way to fall in love in the dormitory, high school does not allow non-early love, college let and single, can't help but wonder why college students are so rebellious?

    One of the reasons for the analysis is "involution", it is said that today's college students are really easy to mix, and they will graduate after playing for four years, but you don't see everything.

    Today's college students take college as a high school a lot, not only to take care of their studies, to ensure the results of each subject, but also to continue to enrich, improve the overall quality, but also to participate in various organizational activities, enrich personal resume, a week down there is no free time at all, finally can have a relaxing time, boys play games, girls are chasing dramas, but not just don't want to go out.

    Of course, part of the reason is that many college students are unwilling to reduce their quality of life, falling in love is more expensive, college students' living expenses are limited, if they are in love, their daily expenses will also increase, then their quality of life will decline, many college students want to understand this, and they are more willing to make themselves comfortable than in love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There are pros and cons to falling in love in college, depending on the individual's situation and attitude. Here are some of the possible benefits and disadvantages:

    Benefits: Helps you better understand yourself and others, develop emotional and social skills.

    Have someone who supports you and can share the joys and sorrows of life together.

    It can improve self-confidence and well-being, making you more positive.

    The bad part:

    It may distract you and affect your studies and life.

    It can be emotionally volatile and painful and takes time and effort to deal with.

    It can lead to complications in interpersonal relationships, and you need to deal with your own relationships with others.

    Therefore, falling in love in college is not an absolutely good or bad thing, and it needs to be decided according to one's own situation and attitude. If you feel like you're ready, try to find a suitable partner; If you feel like you're not ready, you can also choose to skip a relationship for a while and focus on your studies and personal growth.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, it's okay to fall in love in college, there is no problem to worry about, or care about such things, as long as you can manage this relationship better.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's okay, it's okay, if two people are together, it's good to feel happy, if two people are not so happy together, it doesn't matter.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    <> "What is the concept of college love, college is a very free learning environment, unlike high school, junior high school which can not fall in love, but how to treat the concept of love in college life is also a big problem, we meet a lot of friends of the opposite sex in college life, and their relationship will have different levels, the highest level is to fall in love and get married after graduation to build a happy family, so we must pay attention to the relationship with the opposite sex in college life, Falling in love means that we establish an intimate relationship with each other, that is, from strangers to such intimate relationships, the process is very exciting, if you meet the right person of the opposite sex, then you don't hold back, no matter what the consequences are, but you try it will be very appreciated, so it's good to fall in love in college.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This question cannot be generalized, it depends on how we go about this relationship.

    First of all, we must ensure that we are sober, we can't fall in love, we can't lose ourselves for the other party, we have to have our own set of principles, and stop the relationship in time when the other party hurts us.

    Intimacy is what helps us live and work, and we feel more colorful in our lives, so the other half needs to bring you happiness and you feel comfortable around him/her. If it feels a bit far-fetched, forget it, it's not suitable, and there's no need to endure it.

    Finally, there is a sense of responsibility, everyone is an adult, and they should be responsible for doing things, and they should also take responsibility for their girlfriends (boyfriends), although they are not married, but you choose to believe in each other, and then fall in love together, we have to be right about this trust.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Personally, I think there are pros and cons to falling in love in college. It's up to you to take advantage of the advantages and avoid the disadvantages.

    Let's start with the benefits. There are about three benefits:

    1. If both parties in love like to learn, then two people can often go to the library to study together, motivate each other, learn questions together, and these two people can grow together.

    2. When you are in love, you will introduce your friends to each other, which invisibly expands the circle of friends and promotes social skills, because you know more friends, you will communicate more with friends, get a lot of information from friends, and improve the ability of both parties to talk.

    3. College love can increase the sense of responsibility, so that both parties know how to love someone, and they will also know how to cherish family and friends.

    The downside is the following:

    1. Many college students are not rational enough in love, and when two people are in love, they go around to play, no longer read books, and ignore the importance of academics, which is not right, the most important thing in college is to study and enrich themselves.

    2. Maybe they may not be able to come together in the future, because college students are from all over the country, and there are too many uncertainties after graduation, so there are many college students whose graduation season is the breakup season, and even some people have excessive bad behaviors because of breakups, which affects physical and mental health.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on the situation, there are no successful examples around me, but my friends do, mainly because these two people were admitted to the same graduate school in the same hometown, and both parents know the roots, and the relationship is also very deep, so they are almost married. But for most college students, you two are not from the same province, are you really willing to leave your hometown and start over after graduation? Does he really love you so much that he loves you to do this?

    Maybe you can't find a decent job in his city? What if parents don't agree? There are too many problems, if you want to seriously fall in love and get married, I hope you will think twice, there is something to give, after all, it is not easy to meet the person you love in your life, and it is not easy to give up your familiar environment.

    Think about you and be responsible for him, don't delay girls, and don't delay boys.

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