What should I do if I like to be at the same table, I have a crush on him for 2 years, I don t know

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I can understand. Who hasn't been at the same table? There is a word called long-term love, in the face of a person who has experienced a lot together, who has not had a good impression of their table mate or even liked or secretly loved?

    This question is actually not difficult, when you meet someone you like, you should be brave enough to pursue it, so that you will not regret it, if you can go from now to the future, it is a kind of happiness that can not be found. But there's one word you have to remember is "go with the flow."

    Because it is only junior high school now, high school or university in the future will encounter all kinds of encounters, and if you are in a different place, it will definitely be an unspeakable hardship and test. You confessed to him, I can see that he is not saying that he doesn't have a good impression of you, for every boy, having a girl who likes him is a thing that needs to be cherished and happy, maybe he is now for you, just a natural and heartfelt good feeling, but he may not be ready to fall in love, you know? It doesn't mean he doesn't like you or anything.

    Falling in love is also a responsibility for a boy, especially the first love, which is very young, pure, beautiful and silly. That means that you can no longer be as unscrupulous as friends, because you will become sensitive to the person you love, you will be hurt inadvertently, and you may be jealous when you see him talking to other girls. Maybe he will try to make himself a man, escort you, and give you the best, but at the moment he doesn't have the financial **, and he may not be able to give it back.

    Maybe you will say that you don't care, you just want two people to like it well, but love is a desire, it will continue to increase, he may have never considered this moment before, maybe he is a little scared for the first time, these take time.

    As you, you are very brave, but you can't ask for answers to your questions and he will give you answers right away, the best love is to meet the right person at the right time and place, there is a saying called good things are grinding, right? A love has been tempered by all the hardships, maybe you can't afford it at the moment, it is good that he can accept you and work with you to meet the future together. But if he can't respond now, don't be sad or feel that you have lost something, you can tell him that you like him, but you won't force him, because if you love someone, you have to start understanding him, and understanding is always your best lubricant.

    In the future, when he thinks it's okay, if you still love him at that time, then you can start your love, before he has someone he likes and before you have no other person you like, you will still like him, or at the same table.

    Don't refer to how the people around you love or don't, your love, the protagonist is you, and the others are floating clouds, and you have no right to float into your world without permission. I hope it can be helpful to you, if you still have questions, you can contact me. Finally, I wish you a very vulgar one, study hard, make progress every day, not to mention anything else, at least the exam is still needed.

    Happy New Year

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't know what school you go to? Is it high school or college?

    Does it have to be interesting to you? If it doesn't mean anything to you, don't confess, the province destroys the friendship at the same table, and the crush is also beautiful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can write him a note... Or you can hint at him, ask a friend to say it, in short, don't say it yourself... It's safest to find a friend to say ...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's easy to solve, I'm from here.

    Go to your good friend and tell him, and then pretend to be angry and say who is better than what you told him.

    If he refuses, just say your good friend is talking nonsense.

    If you don't say no, so much the better.

    In this way, no matter what the outcome is, you will not lose face.

    I've taught you a good idea.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, face up to the question, that is, whether you really like him, because sometimes the more things we can't get, the more persistent we are, and the reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.

    If he is really good and you really have the intention, then be brave enough to express your thoughts, say it and everything will be solved, whether he accepts it or not, just talk about it

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Just like Liang Jingru's singing Feelings are your own business If you confess to someone else to tell you I don't know what confidence you can have in yourself, I have been secretly in love for two years I should know more about it It is estimated that that person should also have feelings, in fact, it may only be a step forward for you No matter what you say or do, two people who love each other will not care about this. Have confidence in yourself Remember to speak boldly Whether it's sunny or rainy It's an explanation to yourself, come on!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Preliminary judgment whether he has the same meaning, if he doesn't hate you, be kind to her, and the fierce man is also afraid of pestering.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are shy, you can call him ** and confess to him, I used to do this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. If you are sure that he likes you, you should boldly confess to him, and you will regret it if you can't give this relationship to others for nothing. Or you ignore him and observe him for a while, maybe he finds it boring and doesn't stay with that girl.

    What should I do if I like you in the light and dark, but I confess to your tablemates.

    Hello, are you sure he likes you?

    Maybe this boy is trying to get your attention and make you react to him.

    If you are sure that he likes you, you should boldly confess to him, and you will regret it if you can't give this relationship to others for nothing. Or you ignore him and observe him for a while, maybe he finds it boring and doesn't stay with that girl.

    Then why didn't he just say it.

    She probably doesn't have the courage to do it, we can't guess what he thinks.

    Then why did he confess to me at the same table?

    Maybe this boy is trying to get your attention and make you react to him.

    Do you put a long line to catch big fish?

    I analyzed it above, she wants to see your performance.

    You take a good look at my previous analysis.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you confess to you after a year at the same table, then I think it's actually very easy to deal with, that is, ask yourself if you have feelings for each other, and if you have a good impression of each other? If you want to try to fall in love with the other person, then you can agree with the other person, but if you don't have this idea, just reject him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In a relationship, if you like him, then you can confess to him directly, but if you don't particularly like him, you can also reject him directly, because rejecting him will hurt him less.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then you go according to your own heart, whether he is your former tablemate or not, as long as you like it, he confesses to you, you agree to be with him, if you don't like it, just reject the other party.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Confess to yourself at the same table, if I like him, I will agree, if I don't like him, I will not agree, and when I don't agree, I will directly refuse.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, you should still think about your feelings for your tablemates, if you particularly like your tablemates, then I think you agreed to the other party's confession, or you will refuse directly, there are only two options.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't have a particular favorite person, and you don't particularly hate each other, I think you can give each other a chance, or you can investigate each other first to see if you are suitable!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you like him too, then promise to be together. If you just want to be a regular friend, then tell him that you are better suited to be friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The first thing you have to do is to determine if you like him? If you like him, it's a great thing for everyone, congratulations.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you don't marry her, you can consider it, in fact, classmates are the most suitable, get along for a long time, and know the roots!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It will inevitably feel awkward to be at the same table with a classmate who has rejected me, but at the same time, it is another opportunity to take a positive approach to this matter.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's close, but it feels like it's far away.

    Someone once said that a crush is the saddest thing, you like him, you like him, you like him, but he doesn't know, he just gave more flowers, but you are red-eyed and want to spend the rest of your life as a price, I think everyone has a crush in their life, maybe in their youth, maybe in old age, no matter when, there is always their crush.

    The phenomenon of crushes.

    The phenomenon of crushes mostly occurs among young people who are just beginning to fall in love, or teenagers. Crushes can happen inadvertently or deliberately. Perhaps because of all kinds of pressure and resistance in reality, I have to bury my feelings in my heart.

    Secondary school students face academic pressure and parents and schools, and there are more cases of secret crush at the age when love is just beginning. Of course, crushes are also related to one's own view of love.

    In addition, the object of a crush is usually a friend, an acquaintance, someone you meet at work, or someone in a group gathering. The inability to confess may be due to the fact that the relationship between the lovers is not in line with reality, or the confession will be rejected and affect the relationship between the two people, causing an embarrassing situation.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. Silently dedicate to each other.

    In the process of crushing, you will willingly give for the other person, the kind that gives silently. Never ask for anything in return. You may be very careful, or you may secretly share some things for the other person.

    Although the other party doesn't know, every time you finish it, you will be very happy and happy in your heart. Because you're doing something for someone you like, you feel content and fulfilled.

    2. Fantasize about being with each other.

    In the process of crushing, you will often fantasize about the scene where you confess to the other person and the other party promises you to confess, and then you begin to fantasize about the scene of you being together, fantasizing about the picture of you being happy and happy together. Imagine what kind of measures you take to confess, how the other person accepts you, and all kinds of beautiful situations when you become a couple. At this time, your heart is full of sweetness and beauty.

    3. Being shy in front of each other.

    In the process of having a crush, when you have a crush, when you appear in front of your crush, or when your crush appears in front of you, you will be very shy, very uncomfortable, very nervous. You even have a feeling of being afraid of the other person, especially wanting to see the other person, and when you do, you are afraid to see the other person. You may have a lot to say to the other person, but when the other person appears, you will not be able to say a word because of your excessive shyness.

    Fourth, I care a lot about my image.

    In the process of having a crush, when you have a crush, you will start to pay special attention to your own image. Look in the mirror often and start paying attention to what clothes you wear to look better and what hairstyle will suit you. Especially in front of your crush, you will pay special attention to your image and do not allow any mistakes or bad impressions.

    5. Like everything about the other person.

    In the process of having a crush, you will care a lot about everything about your crush, the other party's hobbies, the other party's usual performance, and the other party's every move, you will see it in your eyes. In your eyes, you will feel that everything about the other party is so perfect, without a single flaw. You start paying attention to the other person's interests, and you start liking the other person's interests.

    You'll love everything about each other.

    6. Care about the opposite sex around the other party.

    In the process of crushing, you will care if there is another person of the opposite sex next to the other person. If there is, you will be very sad in your heart, and you will try your best to figure out the relationship between them. If you have a close relationship, you will be very lost and sad.

    You are especially jealous of the existence of those of the opposite sex, especially those of the opposite sex who are frequently interacted with and are relatively close to.

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