Confused about the choice? About life confusion, doubt that my choice is also wrong?

In fact, setting up a stall and doing sales are good choices for those of us who work as workers.

You can go to Alibaba to find a source of goods to set up a stall, and everything there has a wholesale price.

If you do sales, you can do some electrical sales first, and you will learn more in sales.

Don't feel that you are not suitable for anything, no matter what you do, you must have a process of adaptation, this process varies from person to person, some may be able to adapt in a month, and some may take two or three months to adapt, as long as you go through this process, you will not have the idea that you feel that you are not suitable.

Life is not perfect, but now you are only half of your life is not perfect, use all your efforts to make the rest as perfect as possible, in fact, look at what you write so much, you know that it is written from the heart, life, the most important thing is not choice, but determination, no matter what kind of choice, have the determination to go on, do the best, you can go on, do the best! Finally, I sincerely wish you all the best!!

Perhaps, I'm going to have to make a choice right away. Understand your feelings very well, maybe it's always hard to take the first step. If you can't find a career that can give you a sense of belonging, then work one aspect.

You can do whatever you want first, and when you have money later, you can do what you like, and you have to plan for the future. There is also social experience that is very important, you don't need to be a boss, it's enough to be well-off.

It's good to have an idea. Everyone has times when they are confused and confused, as long as you believe in your own choices and stick to them, it will pay off.

In fact, in the process of growing up, not only the subject will have this kind of doubt, we often don't know whether our decision is right or wrong, and even many times we will reflect on our previous choices and think that we have made the wrong decision.

Maybe some decisions are indeed wrong, but life is a different choice, although sometimes we do make wrong decisions, but it does not mean that we can't go to the final end, but sometimes the road is more tortuous, it takes us longer time and hard work, so when we realize that we have a problem, we can first calm down our anxious heart, think back to our past, see if we can find our own problems, and slowly regain our own self-confidence. Find the right option.

Some decisions may always be right, but it does not mean that there will be no setbacks in our lives, and a smooth sailing life cannot withstand a little failure, so sometimes we also need to give ourselves some tests, because what will happen tomorrow, no one can predict, but we can make some preparations in advance, so that even if we encounter strong winds and waves, we have enough ability to get through this difficulty.

The subject thinks that his learning ability is not enough, so he slowly begins to doubt himself, we put more energy on questioning himself, and slowly we are afraid of learning, and dare not try easily, so that we deviate from the direction of learning, and finally do not get the desired results, and even many times doubt whether they can do these things well, because the final result is really unsatisfactory.

But we can ask ourselves the question, are we really going to the extra mile? If the answer is yes, although we didn't get the best results, but in the process of hard work, we also gained a lot, such as the answer is no, then how can we achieve better results?

Since you have chosen, you will go on bravely, it is not terrible to be wrong, but it is terrible that we dare not try.

I am Xiaofan, the world and I love you.

Confused, is it because there are too many choices, or is it ......?

I used to feel lost because there were too many choices, because I hesitated, I thought too much, and there was no result, so I was lost. Later, I realized that everything is because others don't understand you, and you don't understand yourself, and you give yourself a so-called definition.

The real reason lies in the masking, in the absence of clear principles.

Is there really no principle? It's not, it's just not so clear and unambiguous, so it's hesitant and confused when facing things.

Some people will ask what is a principle? Principles are the principles by which we speak and do things.

Principles are the guidelines by which we look at and deal with problems. The stance, view, and perspective of dealing with problems are often influenced by the family environment, educational environment, and living environment.

Some people hesitate and don't know how to make a choice; Some people, faced with the same thing, will be dealt with by this standard today, and handled by that standard tomorrow; There are also people who fall with the wind; Some people like to listen to slander. When you change your views and perspectives on a thing, either you don't have principles, or you go from sticking to one principle to being destroyed and choosing another.

I think there are people who, like me, want to sort out their principles clearly, concretely, and clearly. But I don't know how to start. I was confused at first.

First of all, we need to deliberately memorize and imitate some fundamental principles.

For example, "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People".

1.Be proactive (I'm in charge of my life).

2.Have a goal (have a plan).

3.Work is divided into priorities (work first, then entertainment).

4.Think about the problem from a win-win perspective (self-interest).

5.Understand others first (and then ask others to understand).

6.Synergy (cooperation is better).

7.Abrasive Shoushu knife does not mistake woodcutters (seeking health and balance).

Second, collect and refine our own principles.

Before you do something, you must understand the purpose of doing it. Whether it is in line with or contrary to one's own principles. Learn to remove things that are out of principle and stick to being yourself.

Finally, classify and organize your own principles to form a system.

Categorize the principles and sort them by importance.

When the system of principles is established, it will be easier for us to make decisions, more in line with our hearts, and happier to do.

Learn to choose, learn to think.

Everyone knows that when picking apples, choose the big one, but when no one tells you that you can only take one, can you still take only one big one with a normal heart?

When faced with a choice, I always want to be able to choose the direction that can get the best result for me through my own thinking and understanding, and I rely too much on this sense of direction, so that I almost believe that the right direction can make me feel rich directly like taking an elevator. But in fact, we ignore the more important one, the pace of progress, which is the driving force behind the change of the status quo. Only by moving forward can you see more scenery and load more mood.

All roads lead to Rome, and the direction of most people is actually not much off. The key is to have the courage to take steps.

There are three necessary points on the way forward: first, the right choice; Second, the pace of progress; 3. The courage to take a step.

How to make a choice to pursue the advantages and avoid the disadvantages? When faced with a problem, first of all, we should think more, analyze and compare the choices made and the expected results, and consider whether it is necessary to adhere to the status quo in combination with the current situation. Then, analyze the reasons why you need to choose, and judge whether the reason for your choice is an irresponsible performance or a subconscious evasion.

Avoid this irresponsible avoidance and deal a heavy blow to your self-esteem and self-confidence. This is followed by a rational analysis of the problem, as much analysis as possible of the possible factors of choice.

Have a positive attitude towards the road ahead full of choices. The road is found in the sun, so let yourself walk on the road more easily and happily. The pain of growing up needs to be reconciled with happiness, and this happiness is my sunny mentality.

It's not so easy to stay in school, history is not something that can be settled with a little knowledge, and it is inseparable from literature and politics. If you haven't published anything new or your ability is really good during your time in school, it's okay to stay in school. There are many students who have gone on to graduate school after the college entrance examination, do you have the courage and confidence to fight with them?

It's not pouring cold water, but you really have to think about it, is there really no room for development in the workplace? Is it possible to consider taking some work-related certificates to improve your abilities in all aspects, after all, even if you enter the university, it is difficult to get a good position, and even if you stay in school, the salary may not be as high as your public institution. After all, in the future, you have to think about children, starting a family, etc., think of more ways to make money, and you are not afraid of anything when you make money.

When the time comes, you don't have to worry about what to do, and you don't have to worry about it.

Life is not long, and you should struggle happily while you are young to test your ability. It's better than wasting time in a worthless place, right? At least you can accumulate a lot of experience in the process, and you can continue to challenge yourself in things that are more suitable for you. I wish you success!

Teach you how to do multiple-choice questions on the road of life: There is a truth that you must understand, between trade-offs, there must be gains and losses.

1. As a young person, when making a choice, pay attention to the goal far; The farther you put it depends on your height.

2. Shift your gaze away from what you might lose to what you're sure to gain in the future. Weigh it in your heart, that one is more important.

3. Don't take too long to make a choice, because if perseverance and persistence are not enough, even some small things can affect your decision.

4. If you have to stay alone for a while, and then you are confident enough, you can find the most influential person in your heart to communicate your thoughts, because the elder is an experienced person, he will not help you make a choice, but will only guide you to think.

With that said, I think I should understand my choice.

If you want to succeed, it is certain to lose something, sometimes what you want to have and are not willing to give up, will you think the other way around, if what you lose is only temporary.

Choose which one is more beneficial to you in the future, you should already know in your heart which one is more beneficial to you, and I believe you already have the answer in your heart.

Remember one sentence. Four years of college. You learn more in one day outside than you do in one day at school. Practice makes sense. It's good to be informed. And. Health is now the greatest asset. Support you.

I went back and did what I thought was right.