How to deal with a boyfriend who always buries things in his heart?

My boyfriend is a bit like this, but please don't think about changing him in the first place, because the man is like this because he thinks that the man should carry a lot of things by himself, and he shouldn't tell the woman everything and let the woman worry about him. However, I also understand what you mean, there are some things that should be communicated more and more exchanged, or it will worry us women. You can slowly use your care and wisdom to understand him, get close to his heart, try to think more about the problem from his point of view to see what he is thinking, but there are some things if you understand and don't pick and tell him that you know what he is worried about, men need this kind of space to solve problems independently, that is how they find self-affirmation.

Sometimes when he is in a good mood and you feel that you can, you can also try to talk to him about his thoughts. In fact, men also need to be hurt and cared for, and for such a man, you have to care more about him and understand him.

Some people's personalities are like this (mostly men) Look at your personality, can you tolerate it? Can you change it? If it works, change yourself. It is much easier to change yourself than it is to change others.

Don't ask if he doesn't say it, give him more space, maybe he just doesn't want you to worry.

He doesn't want to say, so don't ask

He wants to tell you that he will naturally say that some boys are like this, and they don't want to tell you bad things, probably because they are afraid that you will worry, and my boyfriend is like this, and he obeyed him

A more reliable way is to change your identity to understand her mind and listen to her (netizens or friends of friends or something...)

Either you hold back the accident or you hold back to become a strong woman, and it's normal to basically have these two situations.

Praise her more, care about her, does she have any friends? If the economic conditions are good, take her outside to see

Accompany her more and take her out to travel and sing.

People will always go through this process, and you can quietly log on to her QQ or other accounts to view the chat history, although it is rude to peep into other people's privacy.

Some people like to talk about their psychology, some people like to bury them in the bottom of their hearts, everyone treats things differently, and as a partner, for people who like to bury their hearts in their hearts, it may be more difficult to get along, never know what he is thinking, what he wants to do, how he wants, to keep guessing, to think... For this kind of person, there are several types. One is that they don't want you to worry, or that there are things that you worry about and that are useless, and they choose not to say it.

There is also a way where they want you to guess what they are thinking, so that they can enjoy his importance in your heart and how well you know it. And so on...

There is a way, you can pretend not to know the first kind of person, when he doesn't want to say it, you don't care, just care about him in your way, a little more careful will find a lot of things, if he wants to say, just listen quietly. For the second, talk openly and find a way that is acceptable to both of you, write it down on paper, or whatever, and let him know what you think! The rest is up to the two of you to run in and discuss.

He doesn't even trust the people who love him, and he won't talk to you! Then he is very sick, and the uncertainty in his heart will make him suspicious and make him depressed and mentally distorted.

He feels that you can't share it for him, and it is useless to tell you.

Maybe he just doesn't want you to worry about it, you can talk to him more, maybe he'll let you go.

A real boyfriend is one who cares and takes care of you all the time, and will talk to you about things carefully.

Take your time, it's this kind of person, I like to wrap myself, I can't let go, I don't trust people easily, this kind of person can only rely on time and some things to slowly move him and adapt to him, maybe it will be a long, long time, maybe it will be sudden, as long as you love him, he loves you, and he won't do anything out of the ordinary, and some things don't affect anything, so why care.

He doesn't even trust the people who love him, and he won't talk to you! Then he was very sick. The uncertainty in his heart will make him suspicious and make him depressed and mentally distorted.

Women have fast mouths and can't support things psychologically, so they won't tell you, which is why there are very few women who are officials.

Your boyfriend is very much like me and has the same style as me ==

If you don't give money, if you don't give money, what are you afraid of?

You do the same to him, and see who is great.

Give somebody a taste of his own medicine.

Do you do to him what he does to you

People who don't talk much, are used to hiding things in their hearts, are more introverted, and are prone to tendons when encountering problems, are very stubborn, and are not good at thinking from different angles. Especially when it comes to difficult issues, I don't like to ask for and listen to other people's opinions. Such a person talks a little more when he is in a good mood.

It is recommended that you do not ask this or that when he is in a bad mood, he will feel bored and lazy to talk to you or very angry; You have to pay attention to adjust his mood, and when he is in a good mood, you ask him what he really thinks in his heart, and he may tell you.

Don't think too much, people are not so perfect, let him think like this; I am born to be useful, why bother yourself, although there are many unsatisfactory things in life, but we must be strong to encourage ourselves, so that it will get better and better!

You can talk to him more and let him know that you need him, and do something to let him know that he is not very bad. It's best to spend more time with him.

Care more about him, encourage him, put your heart to him and let him help you with ideas, so that he feels that you need him.

Usually care and love him more, let him have face outside, and encourage him to do what he wants to do but does not do.

You can coax her, because boys love to hear this.

I don't like this kind of person, if I would break up with him.

In the future, when he encounters things that need to be decided or made a judgment on something, as long as it is not wrong or outrageous, he will follow his ideas and encourage him to choose how correct it is, and slowly he will have a confident and cheerful attitude.

You have to encourage him, don't let him do things he doesn't like to do, otherwise he will be mad with you, give him more confidence!

You don't need to be together with things, your existence is to guide him, I think you should be more lively, outgoing, and have good interpersonal relationships, so you will attract him, you just need to be around him all the time to see how you deal with some things, and he will change under the influence of his ears, but the process is slow.

Try to support him, say good things to him, let him experience it for himself, and break through his own problems.

Take him out for a walk, and smile at him every time to make him subtle

Then you should be gentle.

Communicate more with your boyfriend and spend more time with him! Or find more topics to talk to your boyfriend about.

He should prefer gentle and understanding girls, and it's best not to be too verbose with him, it will backfire!

Do you want to know what is going on in his heart?

Tell him he's not alone and that he's still with him.

This boy is really similar to my personality.