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It has something to do with the experience, there have been many failures, many times the fact that it does not match your expectations, or the irresponsible remarks of others may make you think badly, it is a good thing and a bad thing, a good thing refers to a premonition, unhappy too early, as a result of the disappointment of you, anything can happen, the bad thing is that you always think so badly, make yourself unhappy, and destroy a good mood.
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Thinking about the worst of everything, thinking about it is a kind of obsessive thinking. This is a manifestation of obsessive-compulsive disorder. On the one hand, it is related to mental and psychological factors. On the other hand, it is also associated with poor personality traits. Severe cases require psychological**or medicated**.
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I guess you're still not optimistic about your life, and I used to think about the worst of everything.
Optimistic face life and the people and things around you! Be confident!
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One of the advantages of this is that you are prepared for the worst!
It's really like that, the old ministry will be so disappointed! Have you thought about it all?
But the days will pass very colorlessly.
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Think of the worst.
But you can't think of the worst.
If you do this again, you will slowly get anxiety disorders.
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Be optimistic, everything is not as bad as you think, and think about the benefits of everything.
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Worry about the sky, adjust your mentality, and go to the hospital if necessary**.
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Reply. The disappointment will feel a little smaller.
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It's good to be prepared for danger in times of peace.
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Very good method, FYI.
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Go to the hospital for a check-up**.
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Try to adjust your mindset.
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You can use the psychological suggestion of psychology to overcome it! Don't always stress negative results to yourself. Let's not always give ourselves reminders like "I fell here yesterday", "There are always traffic accidents on this road", etc.
Because the more this happens, the more nervous we become. Therefore, smart people should avoid reminding themselves of the lesson of hail finger failure, and should use more positive cues, such as: "If you walk steadily, you won't fall", "You should slow down when passing this road", and so on.
This kind of positive cues and guidance is much better than always emphasizing negative results to yourself. Adjust your mood with a "car warm-up" method. Drivers know that the engine must be warmed up before the car goes on the road, so as to ensure that the car is in good driving condition, and the same is true for doing things.
When you're not completely out of the weekend syndrome on Monday morning, don't rush to work. You can first communicate with your colleagues about Lu Shi's book, or read last week's work diary first, and then enter the work state with a new look after you "warm up" your mood. Rise to the challenge when you're at your best.
Everyone who lives in society will carry out suggestive activities in the morning. A positive and kind attitude often gives positive hints so that others can overcome difficulties.
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It's not all bad to think about things in a bad way. But it's not always good. If you want to change, you should use some practical cases to tell yourself that not everything will be a bad result, and there is a practical proof that as long as you work hard, there will be a good result.
If you tell yourself often, you will slowly move towards normal.
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People who like to think about things in a bad way are pessimists, people who like to think about things more optimistically, and if you have a particularly strong tendency to do so, you may be anxious. Pay attention to regulate your heart, don't think too much, do appropriate activities before going to bed at night, and drink a glass of warm fresh milk to help you sleep.
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You're negativity, it's better to go out for a walk, or read a book to supplement the lack of culture.
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See a psychiatrist and take some medicine that works.
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Murphy's Law. You start to think about the good.
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I always think about things in the worst way because I am not confident enough. Make yourself confident and optimistic. Life is short, let go of the burden and look at the point.
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If you are pessimistic, you have to find an opportunity to make him succeed in an idea, so that he has the right thinking and concepts.
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Thoughtlessness and always thinking bad things can be caused by generalized anxiety. Generalized anxiety is manifested as excessive anxiety and worry, often worrying about oneself or a loved one's illness or accidents, and always feeling that something bad is going to happen but can't say why. Unusual worries about financial conditions, work, relationships, etc.
My heart is up and down, worrying, frowning, and restless all day long. In severe cases, there will be dry mouth, palpitation, and chest tightness.
Headache, dizziness.
Autonomic dysfunction such as diarrhea, loss of appetite, and frequent urination.
Manifestation. Always thinking about the bad things can include thinking about the uncertainty of the future, such as making negative evaluations of the future, underestimating self-processing ability, thinking that big things may happen in the future, worrying, and feeling that a big disaster is coming. It is mainly common in anxiety and anxiety-related disorders.
If you are always cranky and think about the worst, it is pointing to the past, making an unreasonable evaluation of what happened in the past, and it is negative, thinking that you are incompetent, not being liked, and other related unreasonable evaluations and cognitions, mainly seen in depression.
It is mainly manifested in depressed mood, slow thinking, or unreasonable cognition of what happened in the past. In the above two cases, if it seriously affects work, study and life, it is necessary to carry out systematic standardization, including drugs, psychology and physics, etc., and good results can be achieved through the above methods.
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But don't think everything is there, think about it.
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Xiao Yuan's company cooperated with a new project, and went to Singapore's Changi Airport to do ground handling work, which is a good job opportunity.
Therefore, as soon as Xiao Yuan saw the introduction of this project, he wanted to sign up as soon as his brain was hot. She began to promote her five-year plan to us, what exchange rate difference can save money, what airport work is good, what communication with people from all over the world to exercise English, what is convenient for food, housing and life, and what good exercise opportunities are rare.
At that time, she made up her English vigorously, as if she had grasped this treasure. After calming down, she began to be anxious, what should she do if she is so far away from home and is not adaptable?
When I asked, I said that I didn't want to go, and I didn't have anyone to take care of myself, and it was said that people from all over the world had it, and it was easy to be bullied. If you are homesick, you can't come back, and it's too late to regret it. Although there is an exchange rate difference between the two countries, the money is also spent locally, and it is not counted as making money.
After thinking about it, I couldn't make a decision, and the opportunity was missed. Do you regret it, you ask? She would say that she regretted a good opportunity, and then she said that it would be okay not to go, and that it was still comfortable at home.
In fact, when we think about things or make decisions, we must think about the problem in many aspects, think about the good and the bad in everything, so that we can win without being arrogant or discouraged.
Good and bad are like a scale, high or low will affect judgment, make irrational decisions, it is better to make a list, all listed clearly, the psychological mirror, the best decision will be made.
When we do something, we are always told to think about the good in everything, so that we will have a better attitude and be more positive in doing things.
But over-optimism can also make us unable to face up to failure, and only by thinking about the worst-case scenario can we prepare for the worst.
The icing on the cake of the show is Dong Qing's comments, and when the set information is given, we can only see part of it.
Just like a mountain, we can only see a big tree at the foot of the mountain, but Dong Qing's angle is overlooking from the top of the mountain, and she can see every tree and the person watching the tree.
In life, we must also cultivate multiple perspectives, not just hold on to one side. Don't be short-sighted, take a long-term view of things. In this way, you can see the distance that others can't see.
First of all, we must improve our cognition, cognition is like a circle, and the wider the cognitive circle, the broader the horizon. Tear down the walls of our thinking, and don't let that hinder our vision.
Then, to continue to learn, the field bosses can even command the flow of the entire field, the line of champions, not only look at talent, super learning ability is the magic weapon to win.
Secondly, if you only focus on one aspect, a mountain is higher than a mountain, and it seems that you will never have an advantage. It's better to add some points to yourself and increase the added value.
Learn to list one, two, or three points, make the ins and outs clear in advance, list all the possibilities, and then analyze the proportion of advantages and disadvantages. In this way, you can make the right choice and not hesitate and lose a good opportunity.
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What is the psychology of a person who thinks about everything in a bad way?
The normal mind of a wise man. People have no foresight, there must be near-term worries, it is this kind of ordinary normal psychology, because considering all aspects of factors, of course, things have different planes of good and bad, not all of them are good, even if the performance seems to be extremely good, there are still relative bad hidden in it.
A person with an optimistic personality and psychology is a beautiful state, but it does not mean that things must be optimistic. And the wise man always thinks of the good and the bad, when everyone says the good, saying the opposite, it will make people feel that everything is always going bad, too pessimistic, in fact, it is just a kind of appearance of thoughtfulness, it does not mean that it must be pessimistic, nor does it mean that it must be thinking about the bad.
Seeing a leaf and knowing autumn, it is also said that this kind of wise man can observe the essence of things under the surface from the details that others do not pay attention to, and know the change of seasons and the changes of things, which is not pessimistic, but an accurate cognition of objective things. Optimists actually know it in their hearts, but they may neglect to feel the underlying deep meaning because of optimism, and even sometimes miss some good opportunities, which is also directly related to this aspect.
The saying of blessing and blessing is a global consciousness and concept, and it is also an external typical appearance of always thinking about the bad in everything, and in fact, there is another external appearance, that is, when facing bad things, we always think about the good, which is different from the wisdom of blindly optimistic people. Wisdom has nothing to do with IQ, it is just a habit of thinking, and for what is happening, it can play the role of a wise man.
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Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, always thinking about things in a bad way may be a physiological reason, or it may be a kind of depression and anxiety, the reason should be clarified, and targeted**. 1.Physiological causes:
The more you think about it, the more you feel the consequences, think about it in the worst way, and fall into negative emotions, which is a normal psychological state, and should be adjusted in time, such as outdoor sports or talking to relatives and friends. 2.Depression and anxiety:
Patients with depression are usually depressed, difficult to be happy, not interested in many things, very negative in looking at problems, and overly anxious and worried. When you always think about the worst of things, you should make adjustments in time, and if it has affected your normal life, you should seek medical attention in time, and don't make blind judgments to avoid adverse consequences.
People who think about everything in the bad way are often a sign of lack of self-confidence, because when we think about things, we tend to think about the good side first, the positive side, and then think in the opposite direction, and if a person is not confident in himself, he often thinks about the bad side of others.
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It is true that there is a problem, too negative, you must know that the probability of success is still there, even if it is very low, just like buying a lottery ticket, there is always a probability of winning, if you don't do it, there is no chance at all, do not buy lottery tickets, there is no qualification to win the lottery at all.