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You also know that it was the girl he had pursued before, and it wasn't his current one. He's cut off contact with other girls for you. Although I don't dare to say 100% what the psychology of that boy is, I just want to ask "do you have a crush on him?"

I've been hurt too, and I hope you don't want to be like me again. Guys do things you can't imagine when they pursue girls. Because he hasn't made you something in the palm of his hand yet.

If you become in the palm of his hand, then I'm sorry, your first treasure may become a grass.

So from the point of view of rational thinking, it is best to test time, give the other party a little time, and at the same time give yourself a little time. Don't be impulsive and regret it. If he really wants to be with you, he won't wait, if he just wants to get you and chooses to give you up, then I also congratulate you on choosing to calm down.

You tell me?

Emotionally unstable and seemingly unfocused. But maybe he also wants to find true love, really love someone.

It's better not to look for it because you and his girlfriend are also very familiar with too much gossip.

Not everyone is a blank slate!

If you really love him, don't care about his past! Don't care what others say about your love.

The most important thing is whether he is sincere with you now.

If you love him, don't separate, no matter what happens in the future, at least you were happy.

And his former girlfriend doesn't mean anything, don't pursue what happened before you met him, as long as he is now the only one with you. Everyone has their own past, I believe you have it, and the most important thing is that now you love each other and be happy.

Even if he was a prodigal son before, then the prodigal son will turn back one day, and I hope you are especially lucky to be the one who appeared when the prodigal son wanted to turn back.

See one love one? Kick it.

The past is gone, why don't you forget it with him!

I don't think you should fully trust him at first. You need to understand it slowly, and only after understanding can you judge what kind of person he is. Because there will always be a gap between people, and it is impossible for him to spoil you and love you like your parents.

I think a person, are you trustworthy? It's not about how many times he has been in love, it's more about a person's character, and you find out whether he is trustworthy or not, it's more found in getting along, how much he falls in love doesn't prove that he is unreliable or not credible, or it may be because he is too honest, so every time he falls in love, he doesn't succeed, so you don't need to care about the number of times you fall in love.

If you really love each other, I think you can believe what he says. I don't have to cheat you, just be single-minded with you. Two people understand each other together, are considerate of each other, care for each other, and treat each other sincerely.

This is something you need to experience yourself, and you can feel it if you are really good to you. You can't generalize by having been in love a few times and say that this man is unreliable, maybe the previous ones are not suitable, only being with you is really suitable, or maybe it is true that he has not managed every relationship well. Therefore, whether he is really good to you, whether he treats you sincerely, you can feel it yourself, just follow that feeling.

Hello this netizen, my question is, I personally think it depends on what your boyfriend thinks, maybe your boyfriend is because he has been in love four times, and you are the woman who accepted her? It depends on how your boyfriend usually treats you, what he says and does to you, etc.

I don't think you should judge what he said based on this, is it really because the process of falling in love itself depends on whether the two people are suitable or not? So the reason why you have been in love four times with a friend may be because he hasn't met the right person, he has met you now, you may be right, I think you should observe for a while and see.

You can't believe it all, you still need to understand it slowly, and then consider whether to live together or something like that when you understand it clearly.

If he truly loves you, you can trust him, but if it's just for fun or perfunctory, then you can't trust him.

Your boyfriend has been in love four times and must have a lot of experience, so if you want to date him, you must have a long relationship, slowly understand him, whether he really loves you, if he is not a scumbag, he should be very good to you, because a man with this experience, he knows how to cherish better. Your feelings .

The fact that he has been in love does not necessarily mean that he is an unreliable **, or it may be that none of the previous talks are suitable. When encountering this, you need to be cautious, but you don't need to be too sensitive, just judge what he said rationally.

Believe it or not, it's all up to you, and your feelings are your own. Four times in love doesn't mean anything, love with intention is problematic.

Your boyfriend has been in love 4 times and has a lot of experience, and you haven't been in a relationship once, can you believe what he says? It's best not to fully believe it when you don't understand it at first, but still look at his actual actions.

Well, I don't know how to say it, let's keep it simple, people get along with people, it's a very artistic thing, time and patience, your boyfriend has been in love four times, don't talk about the character, you can be sure, he is not in love, he is talking about a woman's body, he only wants what he wants, but he doesn't want to pay anything, or rather, before fishing, you want a hook and fish ears, you catch a fish, what do you need?

has been in love four times and has not been successful, which means that his vision is a little problematic, or his personality is lacking, if this is the case, then his words are not so reliable.

Mutual trust and mutual respect between lovers is the minimum requirement, if you hide your love history from your other half, then it is obvious that there is a lack of respect and trust for each other, which will only make the other party have a very bad impression of themselves, and may even lead to the interruption of the relationship between two people, so in the process of dating, both parties should be sincere enough, since the other party asked this question, they should be honest with each other, Of course, the other party didn't ask himself this question, and there was no need to say it to the other party clearly, so as not to make the other party feel that he still missed his former lover.

On the other hand, in the process of dating, confessing his love history to the other party is also showing his attitude to a certain extent, indicating that he has completely let go of himself for the relationship he once had, and this is also to give the other party a reassurance, so that the other party can really trust himself in his heart, and more importantly, it is also a foreshadowing for the two people to get along in the future and avoid conflicts in the process of communication. The other party can ask about their previous love history, and it can also show that the other party cares about themselves very much, which is also a good thing for themselves.

So I don't think it's necessary to take the initiative to confess to love in the process of dating, but if the other party wants to know, you might as well tell the other party generously. Of course, smart people will not ask each other about their relationship history. After all, everyone is not a blank slate.

When you fall in love with a boy who doesn't have a lot of emotional experience, you have to get used to it slowly! And the most important thing is to teach him how to love you.

Many people like the kind of boys who are very good at pleasing girls, in fact, this kind of boys are basically very emotionally experienced, and I don't believe that there are no five or seven girlfriends. There are few people who are really in love, either ruthless or too much love! I'm afraid it's a bit difficult to help you grow old!

If the boyfriend you are looking for is less emotionally experienced, usually the first or second love, they are usually powerless about how to take care of girls and how to love girls, and they don't know where to start! When you meet such a boyfriend, you have to teach him slowly.

It is a gentleman's behavior to pull out a chair for a girl during a meal, which will not make you lose face, but will make people think that you are very gentlemanly.

Occasionally, you have to give yourself a little surprise or a small gift, no matter how big or small the thing is, you have to buy one, because girls like to receive gifts, you buy something small, it will make you happy, and enhance the relationship.

If you don't have time to talk to me about something, you should also explain it to me clearly and clearly, so as not to damage our relationship.

When you go out to eat, drink and have fun, it's best to take care of me, I'm a girl, and sometimes there will be more. Especially during menstruation, you may lose your temper for no reason, which is really uncontrollable, I hope you will bear more! It would be nice if you could cook some jujube water for me.

Tell me what kind of girls your parents like, what kind of girls they hate, what they usually like, what they like to eat and what they don't like. Don't think that the two of us are simply in love now, we must be utilitarian! In order to prepare for the future, after all, falling in love is a matter of two people, and getting married is a matter of two families!

I hope you tell me that I don't want to be blinded when I come to your house.

Usually you have to remember what I like to eat and what I don't like to eat, this is actually nothing many, except for those who don't like to eat. You have to remember, if I don't like food, don't order a table, I'll be in a bad mood, and women who are in a bad mood will usually do a lot of unbelievable things to hurt each other.

Comprehensive appeal, the simple point is to ask you to spoil me in every possible way, spoil me in every detail, there is no time limit! That's it!

What to say about him? I heard him say that he had talked about friends before me, but I can summarize it in a simple sentence, that is, I took the initiative to chase you, and when I caught up, I ignored you, and then I felt bored, so I was ready to dump you. That's how I sum him up.

So his friends are talking for nothing.

I remember one night I told him that I was hungry, and he said that he was busy and sleeping, and he wouldn't feel hungry when he fell asleep, and I didn't feel hungry in an instant, after all, I was full of gas, and then I immediately pointed out that he was wrong, after all, I had tried to be angry and not tell him, so that he could find out for himself, and then I found out that I was wrong, and his elm head could not be found, so no matter what it was, I had to point it out to him, and then let him change it.

It won't be romantic. Now I remember the time of 520, I really haven't met someone who doesn't understand romance so much, he bought me a necklace on May 15th, you know my mood! Why can't he give it to me at 520, I asked him why he couldn't be a few days late?

He said otherwise, you should treat me as a 520 for you! What can I do? I can only tell him to pay attention to these time problems.

In fact, although I will be angry with him, he will let me, so I feel that it is okay if he doesn't understand romance, I will teach him, after all, the beneficiary is myself, anyway, no matter what, I have to say it, say it, say it. Don't expect him to understand it himself, after all, you need to know that he doesn't understand anything! In fact, you have to be glad that he has given you a lot of it, and what you have learned will be used on you.

After all, it was himself who taught him to be happy.

After talking for five years, we know each other well, and we don't want to tolerate some small things, because people always don't know how to cherish something when they have it, but if you lose it one day, you will regret how you didn't cherish it when you had it. This is a mistake that many people tend to make.

But recently, another boy appeared, knowing that I had a boyfriend, and said that he would wait for me all the time, which was very good to me! Very considerate, I haven't felt like this pampered in a long time!

When you are tired of one way of life or one person, and another life, feeling, or a new person appears, you always look at him with a few fresh and good eyes, and even associate with him, thinking that you can be liberated now. Then, that guy can really have a relationship with you, and to a certain extent, he starts to ask you about some things that you used to belong to your Heng boyfriend, and from this moment on, all kinds of speculations followed, because his attitude towards you slowly began to change...

Things are changing all the time, and if you don't grasp something well, it's hard to find happiness.

Knowing what you have and knowing your opponent will not be defeated in a hundred battles.

Understand what you need and what you can grasp, and understand what you can do.

Separate because of understanding.

Combine also because of understanding.

Tell you what you need or don't need.

Since you have been able to talk about the relationship for five years, it can at least show one point: you are both more affectionate. Do you choose someone who is affectionate or choose someone you just met?

But everything is not absolute, if you do see this later boyfriend is really good, you might as well observe it.