If you were a parent, would you give it, and what would happen if you had such parents?

Not to mention the bad family background, no matter how superior the family is, I think the 50 yuan a day of consumption, not to mention that I can't afford it, but at least I want to know where to spend it?

You must know that the task of students every day is to go to school, at most they will have a meal at school at noon and have a snack on weekdays.

I think the most likely thing is that your child wants to save up for something valuable, either for himself or as a gift; There is also a possibility that in order to win over friends, they will invite friends to eat or something.

Therefore, it is best to communicate well with the child, if it is the former, it is really good to guide him, appropriate as a material reward, but it must be in moderation and the price is not very high, otherwise the more you will be burdened in the future.

If it's the latter, educate your child that friends are not maintained by material things, and true friends are maintained by emotions.

Just like a family, you usually have to give your children the same love.

I hope your child grows up healthy!

I will give, but not every day is more suitable for a week or 100 yuan a week, depending on your family environment, if you give 50 yuan a day, don't you worry that your child will not use the money to go to Internet cafes, discotheques and other places where he should not go, and what friends he has outside, do you know, although it is less, but it can make your child better at managing money, and it will be more beneficial to him in the future without harm.

No, if it were me, I wouldn't give it. Because 50 yuan is too much, it doesn't mean that he won't give him money, just give a few yuan at a time, and slowly exercise his (her) ability to reason. As long as he exercises until he knows how to deal with it, I will give him 50 yuan.

Of course, elementary school doesn't give it, middle school students give a little bit appropriately, high school is about the same, and college definitely gives it.

50 a day is too much, I don't have 50 a day for college living expenses, don't spoil your children too much.

I'll give it after asking the reason.

I believe in my own children.

It depends on what it's used for, if it's used for food, buying materials, as long as it's used for serious things, it's okay how much money you have, but it's used for other things, sorry, you have to spend it to earn it!

1, the reason why the elderly believe in the nonsense of the health care product salesman is not because the children are not around, and they care too little about them, so as children, we must have nothing to do with the family to sliding the sales, care about the parents, the more they do not communicate with them, the more they do not know their recent situation, until the situation is serious and then come to face it, only at a loss, in vain. If you can, go home and spend time with them.

2. To understand their fear of illness and death, it is best to take them to do a physical examination in Quanfan Town once a year, knowing that there is a problem with their body, no problem, and if there is a problem, follow the doctor's instructions to buy whatever medicine they want, and don't eat health products that should not be eaten indiscriminately. Even if you want to eat some health products, you can go to a regular pharmacy and buy them at home.

3. Take care of the face of the elderly, don't be like me and say that they are doing wrong and deceived, my mother doesn't like to listen to it, she used an old Chinese saying to scold me, yes, it is the sentence "I have walked more bridges than you have walked", "I am not a three-year-old child anymore" and so on.

If you can, find some sober-minded peers to persuade them, or let one of the more authoritative children talk to them well, but not too many people, lest they feel that everyone is against him and does not believe them.

As the elderly get older, their self-worth is already in self-doubt, don't blindly blame them, otherwise even if they wake up, they will be left with psychological trauma, feel that they are very useless, drag down their families, and comfort them more and encourage them.

4. Compared with them, we are at a disadvantage, because in order to make money, we have long studied the psychology of the elderly, but we still have to understand the routines of the elderly, so that we can be justified when we are questioned by our parents.

It is a misfortune in our lives to meet such parents. But we must not give up on ourselves, the more such an environment, the more we can't give up on ourselves, because without the protection of our parents, we must learn to grow up, be strong, not give up on ourselves, and live a good life.

Words to meet such parents. Then try to make yourself as strong as possible. In the future, it is better to stay away from your parents, and only you can save yourself.

Each family has its own difficulties, and the parents' approach is a little too extensive, the reason may be that the parents are also busy with other things, so they form a disregard for you, no matter what, the parents are still good at home, and it is also for your future sake.

Such parents are more irritable, but it is difficult to say that you do not have the right mentality as a parent, so I hope you can communicate with your parents.

Such parents are indeed a bit excessive, and their unfortunate life is still imposed on their children, which is a bit excessive, this is a serious psychological deformity, and you should see a psychiatrist.

Parents are quite irresponsible and don't care much about their children, maybe this is also a kind of philosophy of theirs, wanting their children to be more independent.

Do you know the water and the moon? The passage of time is like this water, but it has not really passed; What is round and lacking is like this month, and there is no increase or decrease after all. It can be seen that from the volatile side of things, everything in heaven and earth is changing all the time, and even the blink of an eye does not stop; And from the unchanging side of things, all things are eternal with us, so what is there to envy?

Moreover, between heaven and earth, there is a ruler of all things, and if it is not what you should have, you cannot ask for even a penny. Only the breeze on the river, and the bright moon in the mountains, when you hear it, it becomes a sound, and when you enter the eye, it paints a shape, and no one will forbid it to obtain it, and there will be no exhaustion of worries when you feel it. This is a gift from nature, and there is no endless praise for the brows and the decadence.

Hello, you have to be strong, the only thing we can't choose is our parents.

Good children, don't quarrel with them, quietly talk to the people who can call the shots among relatives and friends about these situations, your mother has mental problems, or go to the hospital for a check-up, and it will be fine with some medicine.

Study hard to make yourself a better person and help your parents get out of the trough.

It's really not good like this, sister, you have to learn to respect other people's choices and lives, your mother gave birth to you and raised you, whether it is good or not, it is a kindness, all you can do is to be yourself, and let your mother take care of her when she needs you. You can only give your parents a good life when you are strong, right? That you.

Yes, it is normal, and it is treated with a normal heart.

Your current efforts, hardships, pressures, and all the things you are bearing are all in order to save enough ability and capital to do what you like more and fight for your right to choose.

Shouldering their ardent hopes. Every time you are hurt and shaken, think more about their eyes and their love

Being a mother really has a mental problem. Neurology should be seen.

Don't set unattainable goals for yourself because of the pursuit of perfection, in fact, happiness is very simple, just like having a big house where there is no shortage of what you want and nothing superfluous. It is the bell that rings, what has passed is the years, what is planted is hope, what is left is the story, what is hoped for is beauty, what is sent is blessing, may my friend: happy every day!

Happiness all the time!

When I grew up, I realized that my parents were also children, and they were the same as us, but it was only because of us that they faded away the willfulness and impulsiveness of their youth and chose the burden of their parents.

When I grew up, we learned a lot of truths, and I also understood things that I didn't understand at the time, and with the birth of my own child, I began to repeat the previous responsibilities of my parents, and I put myself in the shoes of my own life to experience this process, and the scenes of the past seem to repeat itself.

Of course, when we grow up, as parents, there are still many people who will not choose to treat their children with the way their parents have been educating themselves since childhood, after all, not all parents use the right way of education, the times are changing, and the way of education will also improve.

Some people only understand their father and mother in some way, thinking that they can save their children from some painful experiences when they were young, and those bad memories will end on them.

As we read more books, we understand more truths, be able to distinguish between black and white, and be able to recognize what is the right way to educate, and apply these cognitions to our own children. No matter what, as long as you are a capable and responsible person, you will subconsciously change some of your past ideas and gradually move towards happiness.

Mutual understanding will make your inner world broader, and it is not limited to understanding in a certain link, which is also more conducive to the child's future development. However, for some individual special families, understanding is not the same as forgiveness, many times they just understand some of their parents' behaviors and discover the root causes of these behaviors, but they cannot forgive the harm caused by those behaviors, let alone bring this emotion to their children.

There are some things that we are still ignorant of. When we have our own children, they understand and understand, but they are no longer young.

Where you couldn't understand your parents before, you will have the same problems when you become a parent. You may not be much better at handling it than your parents, if not worse.

That's why you'll know that it's not so easy to be a parent when you're a parent.

Because only when you become a parent, can you understand the parents' love for their children and their free dedication to their children, without asking for anything in return, for the sake of their children, you can be desperate, understand the difficulty and hard work of being a parent, but never shout grievances, all of this is understood after you become a parent. Therefore, only when you become a parent can you truly understand your parents.

Actually! Only I became a parent. I know how hard it is and not easy to be a parent.

When the child is forever. It's the hope of parents. It is the concern in the hearts of parents.

Parents are just tired and tired. Be happy to see your child healthy and healthy. The parents were very happy.

This is a sentence, if you don't know the price of firewood and rice, how can you know the hardships of your parents if you don't be a parent, and being kind to your parents is to be kind to yourself.

I can't experience anything I haven't experienced. Different positions, different roles, different ideas and practices.

Because I am not a parent, I don't know the hard work of my parents, I don't understand the kindness of my parents, and I don't know how to repay my parents.

Parents are very tired, especially in today's society, the overall standard of living has improved, but the money has also depreciated as a whole, and work is also this and that rule, this fine, that fine, bitter and tired. It's really not easy for parents, give your parents more relief, don't make trouble for your parents.

As a parent, with the concern and love for the child, you can truly feel the heart of being a parent, that is, the child is everything to the parents, and what the parents do is also for the children, when you are a child, no matter how much the parents say for your good, you can't understand it, and you can understand it after becoming a parent.

Of course, many things need to be done in person to experience the difficulty, so we must understand the feelings of our parents.

It's like the word empathy.

You haven't experienced it, you haven't walked it, how can you empathize.

Being a parent yourself, having a child is like taking the path your parents took, and you can understand it.

Raising children knows the kindness of their parents, and they do not understand the hardships of their parents if they are not in the position of their parents.

Have you ever thought about how to treat and educate your children if you become parents in the future?

The first time I thought about Nappi was when I was in high school, I had an argument with my mom, and she said that I liked to play with my phone and that I didn't do my job, so I threw my phone out on the spot. You know, I never spent a lot of time with her before high school.

Perhaps at that time, I was still in a period of solitude, indulgence, and unrestraint, and I was entrusted everywhere since I was a child, which was a phenomenon that most children had at that time. But when I went to high school, my mother said that she was afraid that she would lack love for me, so she came back to take care of me. What I was thinking was, will it be a little late?

When I chose liberal arts and sciences, I liked literature and wanted to choose literature, but my parents felt that studying science would have a wider range of careers and better development, and my only literate relative said that science was definitely better, so I had to compromise. After the college entrance examination, I could only choose a science major according to their wishes, no, I chose a science major that I didn't know about, and the reason was that my parents obeyed my educated uncle.

I know that my father bends my mother for my own good, but there are many moments when I am not understood, and I think: if I become a parent, how will I ......

For example, I don't interfere with my children's friendships, and even if I am rebellious, I want to communicate and understand instead of blaming. I may respect my child's own wishes and choices, often encouraging him: "You're awesome!

Cultivate his self-confidence, make him love the world, and have a positive and optimistic attitude.

I hope that the problems I have struggled with will not be experienced by my children again. I also hope that when children encounter problems, they can find solutions by themselves and face everything bravely.

When I was in high school, I liked to read all kinds of magazines, although it was not very inspiring, but I also knew that the thoughts of parents determine the height of children in the future.

My friends say that they have thought about it like me, and they often have troubles, why they are not understood and recognized, but they often don't know what to do. I think I'm going to be a parent in the future, and I definitely want someone to give me the right guidance.

Later, I accidentally saw a column in a magazine called "Sister Confidant", and I could see that there were many people who said that this column started very early, studied a lot, and was very in-depth, and you can get a lot of effective guidance and advice by writing letters. I was thinking, I started researching very early, I must be very keen on family education, and then I saw a recommended book called "Tell Your Child that You're Awesome".

Although I didn't read this column seriously, and I haven't read these books about educating children, I think that when I become a parent, I am willing to combine my own thoughts when I was a child, listen to the advice of others, and let my child know that he is great and I love him.

I think parents must want to get along with their children sincerely, friendly and intimately, and also hope that their children can grow up healthy and happy, have an optimistic and positive personality and have the courage to face the world. In the face of reality, he is often confused and full of problems. Hopefully, my child won't think I'm too late to accompany him.