About appearance I have low self esteem, what to do if I have low self esteem

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
58 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't force yourself, just wear whatever suits you, just be natural.

    In fact, many people don't pay attention to physiognomy anymore after dating, and say a very old but useful sentence: as long as your soul is beautiful, appearance is not a problem.

    But learning to be a person with a beautiful soul is not so simple, first of all, you must be confident. Then read more books.

    But that's what happens when you get to college. How can anyone remember what you looked like before? Don't worry.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Female college 18 turns wow.

    Change your hairstyle to suit you.

    It should be pink pretty

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't feel inferior when you see me.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    PS: My strong contempt for CCTV237!

    Don't feel inferior, in fact, low self-esteem is a normal psychology, people have this kind of psychology to a greater or lesser extent, and some have a wide heart, and it's fine. Like you, just think about it, my facial features are all there, and I'll be content!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1.Change your hairstyle.

    2.Fitness. 3.Learn to maintain**.

    4.Learn to use sunglasses or other cosmetics to hide your weaknesses.

    5.Learn temperament.

    As long as you are not deformed, in ugliness, just follow the top to ensure that you are beautiful

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I want to ask how old you are.

    That's fine, because I thought I was ugly when I was in junior high school, and in fact one of my classmates thought I was ugly too.

    But after I went to high school, and even in college, my face will definitely change, and I am very good now, and I am much more confident than before.

    I have an uncle who is very handsome, but after looking at his past **, the high 1 one, it's ugly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be confident; When you have money; The work career is very good; There are a lot of beautiful chicks chasing you, do you still think so; You have to be confident; Think of yourself as no worse than others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    your temperament

    I like people with temperament.

    If not, you'll go for plastic surgery

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Just be beautiful in your soul! Don't worry about that!

    And you're still developing, maybe you'll be prettier when you're older.1

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I wasn't pretty before, but when I was in junior high school, my classmates told me that I was very good-looking, and now I......'m very confidentDress up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Does appearance determine fate?

    The key is to look inside...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Self-confidence is the best way to look good

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. Dress yourself appropriately.

    I often hear such words, "There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women", and "A person's appearance depends on appearance and dress", although it is a bit exaggerated, but people can make up for the lack of appearance through some methods. For example, many people look ordinary, but after applying makeup, they become completely human. Simply put on a light makeup, choose a hairstyle that suits you, wear clothes that suit you, and properly cover up some of your shortcomings, which will make you look different from before.

    2. Actively participate in sports activities.

    Whether you look good or ugly, you should exercise regularly to keep your body energized. If you don't look good enough, you have to make up for it with spiritual vitality. No man wants to face a woman who looks like a sick cat every day.

    3. Enhance temperament.

    Although many people see more appearance, a person's temperament is irreplaceable by appearance. If you want to improve your temperament, you can usually read more books to enrich your connotation. If a person's temperament is good enough, appearance is often overlooked, and temperament is more attractive than appearance.

    Fourth, you can try micro-rectification.

    If you have a flaw in your appearance, you can try microplastic surgery, but you have to face the fact that others will say that you have plastic surgery, as long as your attitude is good enough, the bad words of others will not affect you. Many successful people are not good-looking, just try to change, and you will always find someone who appreciates you.

    5. Develop self-confidence.

    Self-confidence is a prerequisite for a person to have an open-minded mindset, and it is not so easy to go from low self-esteem to self-confidence. Cultivating self-confidence requires patience, a sense of identity, and accumulation. But once confident thoughts become a habit, you'll be able to live your life easier.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you look inferior, then you can play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, you can make yourself successful in other things, and gain confidence in other aspects, such as your work ability.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    For a person who looks inferior, it is actually not very good, because if you yourself are inferior, then others will look at you more unconfidently.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A mature person will understand that the inside is more important than the outside. Enrich yourself more, strengthen your inner self, and have a good attitude. When a person's spirit and vision are improved, they will become confident in their hearts.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For many people, they may have an inferiority complex, so when the time comes, they must adjust themselves and make themselves confident, only in this way can they change themselves.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you look inferior, first of all, you should adjust your mentality. Have faith in yourself. Strive to be good and strong.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it's important to fill in with other advantages other than looks to make yourself confident.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no need to have low self-esteem, if you have low self-esteem, then you should take a look at the fact that there are people who are worse than you, so if you let yourself have more energy, then it will not be in yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, no matter how beautiful or ugly a person looks, there is no reason for inferiority, and a person's beauty is not only reflected in the appearance, but also in the heart. Be a person with a beautiful heart and full of positive energy. You won't feel inferior.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't look good, it's innate, and you can't change it, don't feel inferior because of it, it's useless.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What should I do if I have low self-esteem? You can see what you look like through others, if you don't imagine what you feel like, you don't have to take it seriously at all, it's good that fate is natural.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It doesn't matter if you look inferior, of course, you can get your self-confidence back from other places, and you must always have your own strengths.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't be inferior to your looks, no matter what you look like, be confident that you are the best.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This must be that you have to work harder and earn more money yourself, and then spend it on yourself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is mainly an inferiority complex mentality, sometimes related to one's own living environment, so at this time to adjust one's mentality and make yourself confident.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think that you should be confident in your low self-esteem, you should use your strengths to make up for your shortcomings, and if you dress up often, you will be very confident.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What's in the alley, I think you have a ticket to eat. You're so developed now, you can become beautiful with just a little needlingling.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Appearance inferiority, first of all, your own psychology, do not have a feeling of inferiority, have self-confidence, and then change your image by dressing up and other means.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Looks are given by parents, low self-esteem is useless, the key is to turn inferiority into self-confidence, so that you don't lose to others.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Looks are given by our parents, and we have no way to decide, but life is after the age of 30. It's up to you to self-discipline.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When it comes to low self-esteem, first of all, you have to maintain a good attitude to face it, and you can improve your appearance from your appearance.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, there are not many beautiful people now, in fact, celebrities are not so beautiful, you can use beauty and cosmetics to wear clothes.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    We can't worry about the appearance that we can't change, we have to make ourselves better in other aspects, and study hard.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you look autistic, then you have to go shopping, travel or chat with friends, which will change your autistic mind.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Anyway, what to do with low self-esteem, I feel that no matter what we look like, yours is given by your parents, so you don't have to be too inferior.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Low self-esteem can start to improve one's skills from one's own ability, so that you can increase self-confidence.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You can put on makeup, it will be good, and if you put on some makeup, it will change.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Please, much more beautiful than her is, Li Xiaoli, Liu Mengmeng and the like, so it's good that you stay at home every day with low self-esteem, whoever is beautiful, those are other people's business, don't care, in fact, I think girls with low self-esteem are quite good, and girls with low self-esteem are generally more well-behaved and cute.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Actually, if you think about it, what does it matter to you, everyone has their own life, celebrities are beautiful and handsome, but they don't even go out, it's good to be yourself, you don't live for others.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Hehe, everyone will be dissatisfied with Zai's appearance, adjust their mentality, and then work hard to cultivate their inner temperament to make themselves look like a knowledgeable and well-cultivated beauty.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    In fact, it is too fake to say that the soul is beautiful, and the self-confident woman is the most beautiful, but if a woman only has a good-looking appearance, it is far from enough, as a woman must have a certain temperament, a gentle personality should be strong, and a beautiful woman is loved, but we prefer a temperamental, cultivated, noble and generous person.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Let me tell you a person, there used to be a girl in our class, her face was full of pockmarks, but she was happy every day, no matter what her classmates said she was ugly. In fact, you can find a place where you are better than her, and you always have a place that is better than her. Come on, I believe in you!

    If you still have low self-esteem, add me.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Comparison is a sin, don't live in depression, if you are not happy, will she be unhappy? Just try to do what you want to do, with opponents, you can let yourself experience the real life (contemptible), appearance is not absolute, see others smile more, you will find how beautiful the world is.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Congratulations on your average appearance, have you ever thought that you are so good, there are many hypocritical people who pestering you every day? Is it generally bad? Isn't it remarkable? Why do you have to compare with your classmates?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    To look at people, we have to look on the inside, and the appearance is not important. Even if she's beautiful, she can't just learn it all at once. It's okay, if you really can't do it, make more friends, and become good friends with him, come on, I believe you are also the most beautiful!

    Remember the saying: not the most beautiful person can do the most beautiful thing!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    People and leaves are the same, no one is the same, and you are unique in leaves. Why do people have looks, that's just as a distinction, inferiority is just to find their own shortcomings, but also a kind of modesty, you think they are good-looking, then you should pay attention to the people next to you, in fact, there are many people watching you, you can try.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Actually, like you, I also have low self-esteem, but that was before, and now I have begun to learn to face it confidently, maybe you can dress up and talk to people more, so that they can understand you and know you.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Why would you compare yourself to her? Everyone has a different experience waiting for you in every life, and if you give up on yourself, then who can help you? Don't be jealous, you have your friends, she also has her friends, everyone's favorite people, things, and things are different, and they can't be reflected just by appearance and grades, understand!

    Don't devalue others and yourself because something doesn't exist. Anything will be fine if you cross that hurdle. Challenge yourself!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Jealousy is not inferiority, can you be brave enough to be friends with her and truly appreciate her? Everyone is unique, jealousy destroys everything like the devil, and only humility can bring out the most beautiful side. Learn to appreciate others first, and may you get out of the shadow in your heart as soon as possible and show a sunny smile!

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    To get rid of jealousy and inferiority, we must start by praising and appreciating others. Don't compare. Humility, low-key, and forbearance are priceless. Smile is the best cream.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    In fact, there is no absolute wiring to divide the beauty and ugliness, it is only relative, no one will not make friends with you because of this, and the teacher will not favor other students because of this, whether it is the opportunity to make friends or the opportunity to learn, it is fair to you to grasp it yourself, don't feel inferior, believe in yourself, you are very good!!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Hurt feelings, why do people care so much about their appearance, going out of society to be beautiful will have a little effect, but when you are in an important position, you say that you want a capable or beautiful. Think about how many of the engineers and female bosses in society are beautiful, and even if they feel pretty, they are still well-dressed.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    If your appearance is not as beautiful as others, then make your soul beautiful. And everyone's aesthetic is different, so why not let your beauty radiate from the inside out. You're just a matter of mentality.

    I used to be the focus, but I suddenly found that the focus of others' eyes was not you, so I was so overwhelmed.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Beauty is not only on the outside, but also on the inside. Temperament, literacy, and knowledge can reflect a person's beauty more than appearance.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    If I were to be fair, I think your vanity is too heavy, and when you see others better than you, you will feel uncomfortable, and you think that your heart is not only inferior, but also a little jealous. You have to understand,In this world,There are many people who are not good-looking.,Even uglier than you.,If you used to be a class flower.,Then it means that you're also good-looking.。。 If you find that someone else is better than you and you feel uncomfortable, then think about what people who are not outstanding in appearance at all think.

    Contentment and happiness, there are people outside the world, there are more people in this world who are better looking than you. Don't worry too much about that.

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