If there was such a mother in law, would you forgive?

Your mother-in-law has done some things a little excessively, but she is your husband's mother, and you can only accept her for your husband's sake. After all, my mother-in-law is not my own mother, she has not given birth to you and raised you, plus the age gap, different hobbies and habits and opinions, it is a little difficult to get along. I suggest you think about it and treat her as your own mother!

Forgive the unpleasant things of the past. Be more understanding and tolerant of her. Be close and care about her, and if you have an opinion, tell your husband that through him to do the work of being a mother, you'd better not talk back to your face.

When it comes to money, talk to your husband about your views and opinions, and ask for his understanding and support. Take a step back and open the sky!

Do you live together after marriage Of course, after marriage, the money is in your hands And I told your mother-in-law that you are in charge of your husband's money It doesn't matter who is in charge of the house Is there still a matter of who is in charge of the house What is it to discuss together Your mother-in-law is ruthless enough The same as my mother-in-law What do women want to do Do you want children to listen to yourself At the beginning, because you were young, you did stupid things Now you must be sensible If you live together, I advise you to move out Living together is indispensable.

Don't have a confrontation with your mother-in-law first, pull your husband over first, listen to what you said that your husband is a person who has no idea, or you won't let you beat the child first under the mother-in-law's will, and want to separate you, your husband is the key, if he wants you to take care of it, his mother can't get the money

The most important thing depends on what your husband thinks, he should persuade his mother well, the last resort, split up and live another way.

I think you should have your own life, you shouldn't be together, it's better to live separately.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been difficult to grasp.

The landlord can talk to your mother-in-law.

But please don't forget.

Filial piety comes first!

It's too much, as long as you're better than everybody in the family, you're fine.

The way to return the way of others with their own bodies.

If it weren't for the bottom line in particular, I'd be angry, but not on the spot! Because I still have to think about giving my husband face, after all, some disrespect is something that my husband can't obviously find out, and the attack on the spot can only prove that I am vexatious! But afterwards I will choose to stay away, if I can not go to my mother-in-law's house, I will not go again, if I accompany my husband on the New Year's Day, I will not be so enthusiastic anymore, just go on the face!

If they weren't stupid, they would know that they wouldn't respect me! Moreover, I will no longer be particularly humble in everything, and some of my own opinions will be expressed tactfully!But if you don't start filial piety, you will pierce the paper of not being respected!

However, if it touches my bottom line, such as belittling my mother's family, such as scolding me, etc., ......It's so disrespectful to me, and I'll choose to tear my face on the spot!Don't give anyone face anymore!If your husband can't figure it out, it's a big deal to change your husband!

I didn't think so before, but now I think like this, if I don't be respected, my husband can't figure it out, just change it!It's not that you can't make money, you're free, you don't have to be told by anyone, you don't have to be picky!

Respect is mutual, you treat me as a human being, respect me, I respect you, you look down on me, I don't feel sad, just stay away!But if you are too bullying, then who has a bottom line, and it is not for anyone to handle!

You're good to me, and I'm really good to you, you always want to pinch me, I'm sorry, I'm not just picking up the buns and letting you eat them!

I think I might forgive it, after all, a good marriage really doesn't come easily.

Many people know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an important problem in marriage, if my in-laws hurt me, I am not sure if I can choose to forgive, if I don't forgive, it means that my marriage is about to break down, if I forgive, then my heart will definitely be uncomfortable, how to continue to get along with my in-laws in the future?

It's not that I don't love my husband, it's that sometimes my in-laws hurt me, that's a matter of principle, my husband is not on my side, nor is he on his parents' side, sometimes I have to consider his situation, I can't let him be people on both sides. If one day my in-laws really hurt me, I have to see how much he hurts, if the situation is serious, it is absolutely unforgivable, if I have to divorce, then maybe I will divorce too. If it is only a small degree of harm and will not cause great consequences, then I still choose to forgive, after all, marriage is for life, I can be with their son, that is the fate of the two of us, I don't want to hurt our marriage feelings because of these small things, and I don't want to cause any regrets to my marriage.

Maybe when I really encounter this problem, I will choose to settle, after all, marriage is a woman's life for most of her life, I have paid so much youth for my marriage, and I don't want to ruin my happiness because of these little things. If my husband loves me, then my in-laws will choose to forgive me no matter how much they hurt me. But if my husband doesn't love me, then my in-laws hurt me, he will definitely stand on his parents' side, and I think it's useless for such a marriage to come.

So if my in-laws hurt me, I declare that I choose not to forgive the issue, in fact, it depends on how much I love my husband.

If my in-laws hurt me, not particularly deeply, I will forgive them.

One, give your husband face.

The most difficult relationship in the world is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and in this relationship, the husband is actually splinted in it. On the one hand, he is his parents, and on the other hand, he is his beloved wife, so how can he not be angry in the middle?

If you love your husband very much, you must give your husband a face, be filial to their parents, if you can't be filial, at least you must be able to get by on face, otherwise your husband is very difficult to do, and you can't let your husband cut off the relationship with his parents for you.

Second, communicate with your parents-in-law seriously.

As juniors, if we have a conflict with our parents-in-law, no matter what the result is, we should communicate with them seriously to see what is the reason why they slander themselves with words, or why they hurt you like this.

Through verbal communication and communication, you will eliminate conflicts or misunderstandings between you and your parents-in-law. Human-language communication is the most effective method, and this is the biggest difference between humans and other animals. So why not use the language you are best at communicating and speculate behind your back?

The best way to clear up misunderstandings in person is to clear up misunderstandings.

3. Understanding. My parents-in-law hurt themselves, probably because they were not satisfied with some of the things we did. This is also understandable, after all, there is a certain ideological gap between us and our parents, and there will definitely be deviations when understanding the problem. So when you can fully understand the thoughts of your in-laws, I think your in-laws will also consider the problem from your point of view.

All in all, if my parents-in-law hurt me, I will definitely forgive them, at least in terms of face.

If my in-laws hurt me unintentionally, I think I'll forgive my in-laws. If my in-laws had intentionally hurt them, I don't think I would have forgiven them.

Although my in-laws are my husband's parents, as their daughter-in-law, I also have my own personality and temperament. I'm relatively straight, so what do I have to say. I'm usually more empathetic.,There are many things that should be endured and shouldn't be endured.,I usually put up with it.。

But that doesn't mean I'm such a bully. If you hurt me with my consultation, the first time I endured it, the second time I'm sorry, I will definitely not make the slightest forbearance.

Although you are elders, you cannot rely on the old to sell the old. You didn't give birth to me, you didn't raise me. You didn't take care of my children for a day.

So I can say for sure, I don't owe you anything. You don't help me take care of the child, I admit it. But if you come to hurt me, deliberately hurt me, I will never be able to swallow this breath.

Don't blame me for hurting you in retaliation.

I guess this is the relationship between in-laws and daughters-in-law. I have been good to you in exchange for your kindness to me. I am not the Virgin, I can be good to you without limit, and let you hurt me, and then I will be good to you without regrets. I can't do this kind of thing.

It's because of the relationship between you and my husband that I'm good to you. What do you do, I hold you. If you treat me badly, you are like a cup, which I hold in my hand, and it is a cup. If I put it down, you're just a slag of broken glass.

I can be good to you, so please believe that if one day, you hurt me, deliberately hurt me, I will also double this hurt.

No. They dare to hurt me, and their son doesn't care about me, and this kind of marriage will re-evaluate and examine the relationship between husband and wife, and decide to stay.

The mother-in-law relationship arises as a result of marriage. It is a process from strangeness to acquaintance. It is necessary to care for each other and emphasize the process of giving.

In my own words, if something like this happens, I will forgive it after a long time. Because life and harmony can go on.

Actually, there are many such things in life, and I have them all around me. Although I don't have a mother-in-law and I don't have such troubles, if I really encounter such a thing, I think it really doesn't matter whether I forgive or not, what matters is my own feelings. No, just live separately and don't let the choices you make wipe out everything you have today.

In other words, the in-laws are just the parents of the husband, and those of us who are daughters-in-law say that they have a relationship, and if they say it doesn't matter, it may not matter. After all, it was only our own parents who gave birth to us. In addition, when my husband and I got married, we made it very clear that our parents raised each other by ourselves and did not need each other's contributions, so that both of us were relaxed and did not involve contradictions.

People say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are enemies, but why are there so many good mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law? Therefore, compare the heart to the heart, the human heart is flesh and blood, others can be like this, why is your mother-in-law like this? Moreover, I have seen more over-the-top ones, directly divorcing his son and daughter-in-law.

Could it be that she has gone from a daughter-in-law to a mother-in-law just to torture her daughter-in-law? Let's ask, is there really no heart-for-heart in the world? Is there really no true love?

Therefore, if my in-laws are like this, I will carry it directly, and my temper will be bad, and if I really encounter such a difficult one, then I will make it clear. After all, people only have one life, so don't you know where they will be in the next life? For the sake of filial piety, why should he suffer such a sin in this life?

Could it be that her mother-in-law bullied her like that? I really can't understand it.

No matter how much you say, it's a pity that Huai Qi is like an action, go straight and say it clearly!

But it should be said that after a long time, I am getting older, and I will forget it selectively. The home is a haven from the wind and rain, a warm, comfortable and happy place. Home and everything is prosperous, unity is strength.

Now that the relationship has deteriorated, many years have passed, and I hope I will choose to forgive.

No. Because they hurt me too deeply to be erased, and certainly they will not be forgiven.

It mainly depends on how much they bullied me and how they now think of God's attitude towards me, if they are very good to me now, I can not blame the past, because to let them go is to let go of myself. And bright.

I won't choose to forgive, but I still have to be amiable on the surface, because after all, we are all a family, and we still need to get along, and it's not good to be too stiff.

Yes, but there must still be a pimple in my heart, I can only think on the bright side, after all, she is an elder and the mother of her husband's draft, and now she is living with her husband. It's just that I don't want my husband to hurt myself, just love myself. Holding grudges will only increase one's sorrow, and it is better to think on the bright side.

I will forgive, after all, it has passed, learn to be generous, try to forgive others, so that you can be happy.