How can I redeem it, and how can I redeem it?

Judging by your description, isn't it already clear to you. Listen to this, I feel it from your description, none of us know this woman, but I just got straight to you from you. 1. You were initially nice to her because she was beautiful and your colleagues liked her, so you chased her and succeeded.

There is no question of her character involved. 2. From your description, we know that she is a woman with watery poplars, and 3. She is not a person who can go through the ups and downs with you. 4. She is a very scheming woman!

5. She's an irresponsible woman! That's how you describe her, you already understand this, what questions do you have? What are you doing with such a woman?

Don't be obsessed anymore, from what you said, you should know that she is using you Maybe you don't believe it's the truth, but the facts are already in front of you

The joys and sorrows of the world are common, slowly use time to fade If it is really what you said, then there is no room for recovery Unless you give her a golden house

Can you rely on this feeling for a lifetime?

People are very realistic now, and she has so many choices, of course, she has to pick and choose.

Conclusion: She doesn't like you enough to marry you.

If you are willing to continue to endure hardships and grievances, you will persevere, and if you are unwilling, you will give up completely.

It's just that it's too superficial because it's good-looking.

Just like your own description of the whole thing, you don't have any special memories, in fact, you will find that everything is much easier when you are separated.

Long live the breakup!

Was there any contact during the two years of the breakup? The first thing to do is to make sure that the woman does not have a new boyfriend now. If there is little contact during the two years of the breakup, the relationship will also fade.

If you are sure that it is necessary to redeem it, first of all, of course, you will be contacted by WeChat or QQ, greet it every day, care about her life, pay attention to her circle of friends, see what she lacks, and take the initiative to send it over. Then, if you have time, ask her out for dinner and shopping. Slowly regain your feeling in this way, and when the opportunity is ripe, ask her if she can start again, this time she will be more serious and more tolerant, and I hope the other party can give her one more chance.

First of all, what is the motivation for trying to redeem yourself? A person can do what he wants, but he can't want what he wants. What were the reasons for your breakup, have they been resolved, and can they be resolved?

What kind of attitude and state is the other party, and if it can't be as you want, whether you can accept it willingly.

Dig deep into why you broke up last time, and then see if both parties can improve instead of repeating the mistakes of the past if they get back together.