How to solve the problem of leftover women in China, and why are there leftover women?

There are more boys than girls, shouldn't boys worry about how to get a wife?

Now, there are more and more "leftover women" in society, and most of them look beautiful at first glance, have a good personality, and have a good career, but why are they "left"? On the face of it, the reasons are as follows:

1. I always think that I am very good, I have too high a vision for mate selection, and I am very picky about the man's appearance, talent, education, character, economy, region and other aspects, and as a result, the scope of mate selection is narrow.

Second, the feminist consciousness is very strong, and when getting along, once the man has something different from his own concept, they will immediately have antipathy.

3. Habits make them only pay attention to their own feelings, become more and more individual, and more and more self-sufficient. For example, many "leftover women" have a habit of cleanliness, and once the other party has something that she doesn't like in terms of hygiene habits, she can't bear it.

Fourth, the monkey broke the grain and finally missed the best mate selection period. Before becoming "leftover women", they were often the object of pursuit by many men, but she always felt that there would be better men waiting for her, and in the end they were left.

Fifth, many people may be hurt by an unforgettable love, and from then on stubbornly believe that she will never have real love in this life. As a result, there is a psychology of self-harm.

6. To pursue success in her career, not only does she think so, but even her family, friends and colleagues encourage her. This, coupled with emotional hurt and emptiness, led her to hide in her career as a sustenance.

7. Feminist thoughts, excessive self-esteem, and psychological damage have caused almost all leftover women to have varying degrees of psychological disorders. They are afraid that they will not find a better man than the husband of the female friends around them, and they will be laughed at.

If the reason for all this is fundamentally found, it should be the cause of character. Most of these people are stubborn, egoistic, strong, and very demanding of themselves and others. If you want to change this tragic fate, you have to change this kind of character of yourself.

In a word, you should treat yourself and others in the most simple way, be an ordinary person, and be a person who doesn't care about fame, then everything will be flat for you.

Too arrogant, too beautiful, too capricious, etc., some people dare not approach.

"Leftover women" refers to older (more than 30 years old) but still unmarried women, according to different national conditions, social environment and cultural background, the reasons for the emergence of "leftover women" may also be somewhat different, the following are some common reasons:

1.Changes in the structure of society. With the urbanization, modernization and economic development of society, women's education and employment opportunities have increased, and women have chosen to stay single or marry later or not marry in various forms.

2.Personal wishes. Some women choose to live independently or make choices about their careers and interests out of their own will or in pursuit of a free and independent lifestyle.

3.There is an imbalance between men and women. In some regions or occupational fields, due to the outflow of population and the overall increase in education level, there are more women than men, especially independent women with higher mate selection conditions and more important cultural identity, and the crust of mutual selection and matching is shrinking, which also exacerbates the problem of "surplus women".

4.Traditional cultural influences. The long-term influence of the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women in traditional culture has made some women bear greater social expectations and pressure in marriage, and face problems in interpretation, marriage period, children, etc., so that they have become "leftover women".

On the whole, the reasons for the phenomenon of female "leftovers" are relatively complex, and they are affected by changes in social structure, population distribution and cultural traditions. Therefore, in order to comprehensively understand and solve the problem of "leftover women", it is necessary to trace the root causes, accurately assess the current social and cultural environment, and follow up and adjust in a timely manner.