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You care too much about what others think, or your own self-esteem is intertwined with an inferiority complex. On the one hand, you want to be strong, you believe in your abilities and be able to get ahead in all aspects; On the other hand, the objective conditions of reality may be somewhat in conflict with your thoughts;

Therefore, you start to be afraid to let go and do things, and you are afraid that if you do something wrong, you will be criticized or evaluated.

It may be caused by your parents' high expectations of you, or too much praise from others for you, causing you to be stressed right now.

You should let go a little bit and don't look ahead and be timid. You are still young, don't be afraid to make mistakes, have the courage to take responsibility, mistakes are wrong, just take responsibility.

Don't care what others think and say, you are you!! Live your own life and live your individuality. ！If you care too much about other people's opinions, and care about what other people say, you will never grow up. It doesn't matter if what the other person says is right or wrong!!

Don't you have the ability to judge right from wrong? Don't you have the ability to heal and heal yourself? There is still a long way to go. Some difficult situations have to be overcome alone! Work hard and bless you

In fact, you shouldn't put so much pressure on yourself, at your age, you should do what you should do at your age, what you should say, you just need to be more considerate of others, don't cause trouble, give yourself so much pressure will be suffocated, people are growing in frustration, everything goes with the flow.

Don't care too much about what others say, ask yourself what you need. The encouragement given to you by your family must also have an accompanying influence, think about what you need to be true to yourself.

You may have had a painful experience. Judging from your words, I am very hesitant to find my own position.

Don't think about it so much.

Just be natural.

Besides, it's cute to be naïve.

Since my brother said that you have grown up, why worry?

Believe in yourself and everything is OK

How could it be.

Right now. The most natural thing is that you are not naïve.

Because you've grown up.

Believe in yourself.

It's okay.

The problem is too difficult, and too few points are given. Just take two points, take it and leave.

Get more physical activity.

Go out and take a tour.

1.Participate in group activities and don't be afraid not to participate.

2.Get outdoors and more than just exercise.

3.Read more books.

You have to think about everything, and you have to think about the simple to the complex!

I thought about the impossible, too!

It's not fun to pay out of pocket.

It's going to get a little nervous.

Dear slim friends:

Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.

You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's imitation stool ridicule, just do your best! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape from reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

So, isn't it all a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.

Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! ~

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! *Happy and healthy :) I hope to encourage you together.

Taiwan has an island climate, which is different from the climate conditions in the mainland, and there will be some differences in the people's conditions in the north, central and southern regions. Things to pay attention to in life, give you a few items for your reference: 1. Don't drink and drive, if you are caught, you will be criminally detained, and the fine is not low, and Taiwan is very strict in this regard.

2. Remember to give up your seat to the old and weak women and children when taking the bus, try not to sit in the position of the "fraternity seat" with the logo, so as not to attract strange eyes, and the most important thing is to remember to bring your own change, because Taiwan's buses are self-service coins without change. 3. Don't stare at others if you have nothing to do, in case you stare at the wrong object and make the other party unhappy, it may cause unnecessary trouble.

In fact, everything is very convenient in Taiwan, the streets and alleys 24 hours a day at any time to need any necessities or want to eat do not worry, as long as the "banknotes" are ready, even if you go empty-handed, you can prepare the necessities of life in half a day; It is recommended that you only need to bring your personal belongings, a change of clothes, and the rest, do not prepare too much, try to make your luggage as easy as possible, and then buy it as needed.

1.Learn to listen to Taiwanese!

2.Bring a credit card (Visa Master is good).

3.Other. Go and enjoy the warmth of the Taiwanese people!

Pay attention to the "athlete's foot", which is resistant to ** and high temperatures.

Political topics.

Also, don't say that Taiwan is China.

Don't even tell the Taiwanese that we are all Chinese.

Taiwanese young people are very good at these three words for Chinese.

It's a good thing to pay attention to details, but it's too late, everything is too perfect so that you will be very tired, always afraid that you will do something wrong and be sorry for others, and you are afraid that others will not think well of you, so that after a long time you will become very sensitive, and the mind will become very fragile, it is a good thing for you to do essential work and be meticulous, but interpersonal communication is still better, don't think too much about everything, too much thought baggage will prevent you from succeeding, and it will also deprive you of happiness!

What, you don't feel tired, you can say whatever you want, you have to live your own life, see how tired you are!

When it comes to society, many details determine success or failure.

It seems to be the same as me, so it's good to be natural, too much attention = no attention.

10% of a person's personality is inherited, and 20% is caused by the environment! The rest is on your own, you can learn to be humorous! Big things can be taken seriously, and harmless things can be said humorously!! You can always remind yourself and wish you good luck.

Because of the habit of growing up, or you know in your heart that you have to be serious.

You said so much, it's so sad to be fired because of your job. Actually, you can find a new job, you are still young, this job is not suitable for you, then find another one that suits you. Everyone has shortcomings, others have pointed them out to you, you will try to change them slowly in the future, what's the big deal, although there are some difficulties, but as long as you have confidence, you will eventually change.

Your best doctor now is yourself, and as long as you can overcome your self-pity, your illness will cease to exist. Everyone has a place in society, but there are some people who don't sit in their right place and become distressed. There is a saying called:

There are no people here, there is a place to keep people. It seems that you attach too much importance to this job, and your liking for this job is a bit too high, so once you lose it, you feel like the sky is about to fall, in fact, when you adjust your mentality after a period of time, and find another job, you will find that there is nothing. There are too many such things in society, bosses fire employees, employees fire bosses, abound, it's no big deal.

If you want to open up a little, you just think of it as a workout, and in this way, you will be free. I hope you can get out of your pain and live a happy life as soon as possible.

Hello, I am zhpsy088 Hu Yan, a volunteer of the Psychological Alliance.

In this increasingly competitive society, I believe it is a very common thing to be fired, but if you have the idea of suicide because of being fired, then it is your fault. You must know that rainbows will only appear after wind and rain, and a person's ability will slowly improve in many setbacks. No one is born with the ability to solve all difficulties.

The road of life is full of thorns, and how many people can pass through this thorny road smoothly without being stabbed? The key is to learn from the pain and not be hurt twice by the same thorn! I don't know what your former manager said to you, maybe it hurts your self-esteem, but at least he fired you and pointed out a lot of your own objective and even fatal personality and ability problems.

And at this time, what you should be worried about is not thinking about how to end your life and escape from this helpless world. Instead, you should learn from your manager's words and think about how to fix your own shortcomings. How to keep yourself from being knocked down by these problems in your future work.

After all, you are still young, and youth is capital! You have to prove to those who have said you can't do it through your performance: Actually, I'm better than you!

In the end, it is better to seek medical treatment than to seek medical treatment, only by realizing the root cause of the problem can you really solve the problem, otherwise no matter how good the doctor is, it will not be able to help you solve the problem. It is recommended to read more celebrity biographies!

Finally, I wish you an early victory over yourself!

You must take your heart and choose your own path, and everything will be over. It's not like I've never experienced these things about you, but I've survived it. Fate, often plays tricks on people, and behind every setback is a generous gift.

First of all, from what you said, you are too pessimistic. The manager says you can't do it, maybe the professional skills are not strong enough. Running to cry on the Internet should be more withdrawn, not cheerful enough, and not confident enough.

Also, my vision is a little narrower, and I hate people who want to commit suicide at every turn. You came to this society, received an education, gave you the opportunity to enjoy life, and you didn't think about repaying it? The value of a person can be best reflected in the dedication to society.

If you really don't want to live anymore, keep your life to serve the poor people who have really struggled with their fate since birth, and you don't even have this dedication?

Brother, I'm also from Sichuan, Yibin, Yunlian, what are you yelling here? Still martyred, it's a shame for our man's face, remember my words: this society is cruel, it's realistic, you will be eliminated if you are not qualified, take out the determination you want to succeed, do it well, it doesn't matter if you fail, just come again, see what kind of psychiatrist coward's performance, if you really want to die, you won't come here, brother, remember, if you are still alive, you have hope, and hope is for those who are ready, if you want to give up, then go home and farm!

It's a man, stand up again!

What's the hell

Therefore, the heavens will descend on people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act chaotically.

This is a test from heaven.

If you stand through this, you will be victorious

There is no such thing as absolute bad luck in life.

Not giving up is true.

To be alive is to be lucky.

LZ, you're going to rebuild your confidence! Come on, being fired doesn't mean a total rejection of you as a person, maybe you're not suitable for that industry, maybe I feel that you are in such a chaotic situation, you are clear and organized in your words, you are a very smart person, meet more friends, expand your social network, and let your friends give you advice It will be much better than the advice given to you by a psychiatrist Believe in yourself!

It's not a big deal, there is no place to stay here, there must be a place to stay! The manly man stands up to the sky,

The fees of formal psychological counseling institutions are currently very high, but every night there is a program host named Shu Xin in the Voice of Zhejiang Economy, who may be able to give you a lot of help, and she is also a good psychological counselor.