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You are stupid, once such a thing happens, unless you can both accept it calmly, otherwise you are destined to lose two from the beginning, and then take a step back, it is more rational to choose a man.
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At this time, it can be seen that your sister must be pretending to be pitiful next to the man, and by the way, she has said a lot of bad things about you, created a lot of misunderstandings, and made the man hate you.
Why? Because a man likes you a little more and thinks you are good, but he is shy and doesn't dare to say it, but you don't say it, he doesn't say it. Your friend also likes that man, and your friend is very active in getting to the man, but the man doesn't want to push her away, and the misunderstanding causes ......
So, recognize the reality and see if it's a man who isn't a thing, or a woman who isn't a thing. And then make a decision.
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Please find out who your heart and the man like, if the man likes sisters, I advise you to find the other half as soon as possible, so that you can remove the embarrassment.
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To be honest, I really didn't understand the complicated relationship in it, but I also think that the question of this choice depends on which one is worth your choice, because sisters and men are not the same as before, I believe you understand
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The reason why people suffer is that they pursue too much. In life, it is impossible for everything to go well, and don't always feel that you are unlucky, in fact, there are more people in the world who are suffering than us. I know that some ideals will never be realized, some questions will never be answered, some stories will never end, and some people will always be just familiar strangers, but they will still pursue hard, wait, and fantasize.
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Or have you lost both, sisters don't treat you as sisters, and men don't treat you as lovers.
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I'm not here to earn points, but I saw that your question was very touching, so I came in and took a look, and I wanted to say something. When it comes to the choice of friends and love, Endo has questions. Let me start by asking, is friendship eternal?
I want to ask her.,Are you an emotional eliminator who no man wants... Don't judge others with your negative thoughts, and hope that you can open your eyes and take a good look at the couples who live happily in the world.
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I agree with you, men may be now, but friends are all their lives, I have experienced it myself, and my choice is the same as yours! But now it's going well!
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Women have to rely on their own intuition, the sixth sense is accurate, rely on their own intuition, and will not regret it!
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If I had to choose between love and friendship, I would choose love decisively.
Because love is something that can be met but not sought, it is not easy for a person to meet someone who loves him and loves him at the same time, and it may be a lifetime if he loses it. If something is lost, but it is a hundred miles away, if love is lost, it is the end of the world!
Friendship is further love, and love cannot be retreated to friendship.
Generally speaking, friendship is phased, and we will always say goodbye to some old friends and meet some new friends in life. For example, students who get along well in school, once they leave the campus and go to society, they may slowly have less contact, and their feelings will be weakened accordingly. Another example is the like-minded colleagues who met at work, once Ziliang left the original unit in the future, changed places, changed environments, and changed new jobs, the former colleagues had no intersection with each other, and they may gradually lose contact and become strangers.
As the saying goes: "Life is fast enough to have a confidant!" Zhou Huajian sang in the song "Friends": Friends go together for a lifetime, those days are no more, a word, a lifetime, a lifetime of love, a glass of wine ......Good friendships last a lifetime.
Some people say that it is possible to break up as lovers, and once they break up, they may become the most familiar strangers, and it is better to be friends for a long time. In fact, this is not necessarily true, lovers will break up, and the boat of friendship will also turn over. Whether it is love or friendship, whether it can last for a long time depends on the depth of the relationship between two people and the strength of their relationship with each other.
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First, our friends play more of a family role, and we can't be sure that the person in our hands will not be able to enter the marriage hall in the future because of some factors, but our friends will not think that these factors will not be friends. Marriage still has the result of divorce, not to mention the love that is still a little immature. When a person has a cerebral attack in love and gives up friendship because of love, he will soon find that his reliance and backing are gone.
2. Although love and friendship are two completely different emotions and are equally important, friends are an indispensable part of our lives. We can't lack friends in life, real friends are examples we can learn from, real friends will give you the most pertinent advice, let us motivate and correct ourselves in our daily life, in order to make us better. Friends are also the bridge in our lives, whether it is work or other teasing grandchildren, friends are indispensable to matchmaking, and they are our most powerful capital and connections.
3. Love is more like the spice of life, love is not the whole of life, but it does affect our future lives. A pleasant love will bring a lot of happiness to the future life, however, it is worth noting that the fault tolerance rate of love is very low, and if you make a mistake, it is very likely that you will take a wrong step later, and you may end up with a less pleasant life. In the rhythm of the fast food era, people are less and less convinced of love, and under the social rules of money first, truth and honesty are treasures.
Fourth, love and friendship are not contradictory, nor is it a life-or-death relationship, friendship will give us companionship and encouragement in the long flow of time, love in the long years to give us warmth and care. No one is an island, and we all look forward to the boring life in the future, and someone can be a beam of light to bring us happiness.
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I will not give up friendship for love, because the person who gave me this option is not worthy of love, friendship, love, are an indispensable part of our lives, just like hands and feet, giving up either of them makes me no longer complete, friendship and love are not contradictory, so this choice is meaningless.
Some people say choose love, give up friendship for love, when love comes, you will choose to betray your friends, betray the friendship between you, you often ignore the feelings of your friends, and your friends will become the victims of the rotten stool in your love, you will feel that friendship does not need to be maintained, and you will regret your thoughts.
In real life, it is completely possible to have friendship and love at the same time, there is no need to sacrifice one, in my heart, friendship is the first place, as long as a friend needs me, I will stand up.
But when faced with love and friendship, there can be many ways to do both, I will tell you to take good care of love in normal times, and I will often associate friendship between friends, so I will not let this kind of thing happen at all.
A truly valuable man, an attractive man, is not to follow his girlfriend all day long, but to have his own career, his own social circle, and give each other appropriate space and freedom, so that a relationship can last a long time, and no matter how much you give her, it is better to understand her.
I think that even if there is a conflict between friendship and love, as long as you find the right way, I believe that the conflict can still be okay"It's easy to solve"There is no need to give up one side, when we are in love, we feel that love is everything, once we step out of the circle of love, we will find that the weight of love in our own life is really not that important.
When we stand at the height of the whole life, we will find that love is really not as important as imagined, and we may not really have to give up a lot of emotions that are very important to us for love.
I will not give up what I have always insisted on for love, if this love cannot tolerate what I have always insisted on, I would rather give up; And once I confirm that love, it is also able to tolerate the things I have always insisted on - ideals, family affection, friendship, personality, etc., then I will do my best to protect love.
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Family, friendship and love are the most important feelings in a person's life, and each relationship needs to be carefully maintained. When you have love, you can't and can't alienate friendship. ......The reason why I say this is because love and friendship are equally important, love and friendship can coexist, and although there will be less interaction with friends after falling in love, friendship will not be affected.
1. Love and friendship are equally important, and should be equally valued, not favoritism.
For a person, family, friendship and love are the most cherished feelings in their life. These three feelings are equally important, and each of them is crucial, and neither of them can be ignored. ......Therefore, we must attach equal importance to love and friendship, and we must not favor one over the other.
Only by doing so can you maintain a sincere friendship with your friends while obtaining happy love, and make your life more perfect.
2. Love and friendship can coexist, and there is no need to alienate friendship because of love.
Although love and friendship belong to different emotions, there is no opposition between these two ascendants, and they are completely coexisting ......Just as work and life can coexist, we can maintain and have our friendship with good friends while gaining love, and there is no ...... of losing friends because of falling in love, or not being able to fall in love because of making friendsTherefore, there is no need to alienate friendship because of love.
3. After falling in love, the interaction with friends will definitely decrease. However, this does not affect the friendship between the two parties.
Everyone's time and energy are limited. Therefore, when you fall in love, because of the relationship with your lover, your interactions with your friends will definitely decrease. ......However, such a situation is certainly not alienating the friendship ......In fact, friendship between friends is not judged by the length of time they spend together.
For many bosom friends, even if they don't see each other for a long time, the friendship between them will not be affected in any way. ......Therefore, the decrease in one's interaction with friends after falling in love will not cause the estrangement of friendship, and you can have sincere friendship while getting happy love.
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Grinding tacit understanding in life, withstanding trials in tribulations, love is tenacious, we can expose our strengths and weaknesses to each other, be honest with each other, we can not be perfunctory, express more innocent emotions, and to some extent, love is indeed more sincere and direct than friendship. Love can give people more direct strength and deeper companionship, even if there is a risk of being hurt, but it is determined and passionate. In the choice between love and friendship, if you ignore your own judgment because of the good or bad judgment of your friend, it is actually not advisable to question this relationship.
I will not alienate friendship because of love, and my views are as follows:1Although love is beautiful, friendship is also very important.
In a person's life, friendship must not be missing, and friendship will make a person live more confidently. Because I know that there will be someone in my life who will help you, so the friendship of friendship is indestructible, so I will not give up my friendship because of love. Love may be lost one day, but if you give up friendship because of love, you may eventually regret it.
If one day the person you like leaves you, then in the end the result is that there is no love, and there is no friendship, and you can't imagine the consequences of this. 2.Be sure to protect your friendship at all times, and if the other party is a person who is worthy of making a deep friendship, then don't give up your friendship easily because of love.
Once many people fall in love, it is easy to break off their friendship. I always feel that in my life, dusty love will make me more happy. However, friendship has become worthless in your own world, if you have such an idea must be wrong, people must have love to protect their own life, because only friendship will make you feel that life is not boring.
3.If you give up friendship because of love, it is equivalent to losing your circle of friends after getting married. Then the life of the future is boring, and it is very difficult to maintain friendship, after all, such a thing as friendship is not like falling in love.
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