Personal life tangled! Those tangles in life

You say that you don't have enough education, but your family's economic conditions are good, and this is a good environment that can be provided for you.

What do you like to do,。。 You don't seem to understand.

What can you do, you used to work, but you are getting older, your consumption is high, and you say that your appetite has grown, and you are a little flustered.

So you should look out for yourself, do you need to consolidate yourself? Or do you keep going like a headless fly?

You should regulate yourself, one step at a time.

No skills, no ideas, not very easy to do. If your parents' industry is promising, go back to them.

Maybe parents like to nag, but they both love their children.

Since you are doing business and you have more contact with people, you will gradually get used to it.

People need to exercise, the environment makes people, maybe in another 3 years, you will find that you can also speak.

Just do a family business with your parents, you won't learn slowly, you can't find your ideal job when you go out to work, you can't find your ideal job due to professional constraints, it's better to work from home in a down-to-earth manner, the roses will always bloom, and you are much better off than most people.

Don't worry so much, the main thing is what you like to do.

I saw someone talking about tangled in the circle of friends, and I thought it was interesting, so let's talk!

Will you get tangled? I will. From buying a house and a car, to eating Japanese food for dinner or a noodle restaurant, I have a difficult choice.

During the epidemic last year, because one car was not enough, I wanted to buy more than one car for myself. I had a hard time choosing between the three brands, looked at it several times, and finally my husband said to go and see the M car. The moment I walked into the showroom, my husband said, "This is my wife's car."

The entanglement was empty, and the silver withered became a decision in that instant.

In fact, many people are not so entangled at first, for example, there is a friend who wants to live with her husband after getting married, so she quit her job and went to his city without hesitation. Girls usually buy a lot of things to buy what they want, until they find that there are a lot of things at home, the wardrobe can't be stuffed, and it is troublesome to move. When people buy things in Doudong, they start to think about whether they want to buy it or not?

Slowly I will consider that there is something similar in the wardrobe of this dress, and you can not buy it. But after a few days, some people will be upset why they didn't buy the dress in the first place, and so on. That's how a lot of people start their struggles.

To sum up, entanglement is the difficulty of choice, it is ** desire, the more desire produces tangled stool ability. For example, you want a bigger house, a higher position, sweet love, a happy family, and both children. Let's take the example of buying a house:

The budget is there, is it to buy a 50-square-meter house in the old city school district or a new real estate with an elegant environment? The factors to be considered here are the children's future study, the elderly usually buy groceries, exercise, the convenience of commuting by themselves, and even the overall quality of community residents, etc., if these are what you want, then will you hesitate and be entangled?

So maybe you will say, is that the person who achieves financial freedom will not be entangled? Because he can buy a house in every place and buy every car he likes. The answer is no.

As long as he desires enough, he will definitely have entanglements, for example, he will not know which suit to choose from the cabinet full of suits today, the date today likes blue, and today his lucky color is yellow. This is how the tangle arises.

So how do we deal with the struggle? In fact, as long as you don't get too entangled, there's nothing wrong with being entangled! It represents that you have thoughts, pursue perfection, and even struggle to make you more mature and stable.

So first of all, we have to accept. After accepting this entanglement, the decision is still to be made, and the choice is also very important. So what we have to solve is how to make a decision.

Many people will use the method of elimination, the method of suggestion by friends and family, and so on. My own trick is subtraction. It is to get rid of your desires one by one, go back to the original self when you wanted to do it, and ask yourself what you wanted at that time, which is your choice!