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The future is beautiful because we can't predict it. You can try to forget about him, after all, we all have a good life no matter who we lack. You're in graduate school now, and there are a lot of good men around.

Life is enriched by some regrets, and besides, it is not necessarily regrets.

Do you eat only steamed buns every day, people in some places have steamed buns that are their dreams, and whoever puts them there to go to the steamed buns will become their dreams, so no matter who it is, no matter how expensive it is, you will not cherish it if you get it (the degree of not cherishing it is not the same) you want to get it again, maybe you will think that I advise you to give up, on the contrary, I advise you to recover him, you have lost once, and you get it twice, you should cherish it more, don't imply that you are unwilling, are you so bad, Are you the one who uses your feelings to find psychological balance for yourself? Ask your conscience, if not, put down your face, and say it like Yang Xiaoyun to the south. Final blessings to you.

The key is to look at your heart, follow the heart. Try to redeem it, and if you can, let him wait for you until graduation to see if he is willing to wait for you. In any case, try it out, and would rather regret it than miss it.

Does he have to get married next year? Can't he wait for you? If you rely on him and love him, you can't let him go, you think he can support you in the future, you can go with him, even if you get married, you can go to graduate school, but you have to make sure you don't complain in the future, if you let him go, if you let go of him, then I'll be better off now, if he loves you enough, he won't let you choose, and he'll do everything for you.

Follow your heart and take a long-term view.

1. This is the only way for people to grow. Growing up is a long process, there is always some growth, and you need to go through it constantly to understand something slowly, and finally do not get tangled, or as little as possible.

2. Learn to summarize and reflect. It is normal to encounter difficulties and confusions on the road of growth, but we must constantly summarize everything we have experienced, think clearly and understand, and try not to get entangled.

3. Relax your mind and look down on some things. Don't dwell on everything, look down on it, some things, entanglement will not help, and it will hurt your body at the same time.

In fact, people grow up in entanglement. Not forgetting history does not mean remembering hatred, but learning the painful lessons of history; Looking to the future, it is not about "healing the scars and forgetting the pain", but to make one's perspective more forward-looking, and to remember history while forgiving those who have left behind sins, provided that they have painfully confessed their mistakes and tried to repent.

Only with experience can there be growth, and it is better to travel thousands of miles than to read thousands of books.