It s been more than 3 years, and now I m facing a breakup, what should I do?

If you really love each other, you will definitely overcome all difficulties and come together, otherwise you will have to go your separate ways.

Can you buy a house in Kunming 5k? If you can't buy it, go to your object's side, of course, you will have to face huge psychological pressure in the future, after all, you will be under the fence. If you can't bear the burden, don't go.

After a few years of "torture" in Kunming, if you can get ahead, then stay, if there is no improvement, you should go back to your hometown. It's not easy to survive in these years, those who graduated from college still have to gnaw at old age before the age of 30, and the money they earn is just enough to support themselves, and they have to hope that there will be no disasters and no diseases. But life always has to go through ups and downs, come on!

What does she think about going to Kunming? This is mainly based on the two of you, you should discuss it carefully, and communicate your current situation and your thoughts with her.

If you love her enough, you won't be so hesitant, since you hesitate, it means that your relationship is still... If both parties give in to each other, things will be much simpler for the sake of love.

Follow her. Don't wait until you lose to regret it. What are you working so hard for? It's not so that you can live well with her. Think about it without her. What's the point of your struggle?

It's been two years together, and you should know something about her character.

If you think you have the potential to go to that little place, and you don't regret it, then go for it, you should love him very much, or you wouldn't come here for advice.

Just don't regret it. Decide for yourself.

Young people, we must understand that the economic base determines the superstructure, and it is important to make money first.

To love someone is to understand that person. Men need to go out and work hard for their careers, otherwise how to support their families. And as a woman who understands you, she either goes out to work hard with you, or stays where she is and waits for you to come back, instead of asking you to accompany her to stay where she is and not move forward.

Let's go back to Chongqing together and go back to our own home.

Ask yourself what kind of life you really want! Does she really love you? It can be seen that you really love her, love should not be knocked down by reality, you should work hard to convince her parents, it is mainly up to her to convince her!

Take advantage of it and don't give up easily! As long as two people can live together and live a little harder, there is actually nothing, and they can still feel happy, right? It's up to you to see if you want to live a simpler life.

Try it yourself, if she can't do it, you can go, if you can't do it for love. Divide it.

A professor once said that if you lose a tree, you will get a forest.

Hello dear subject:

Through your description, I feel that it is impossible for my girlfriend to get back together with you, the relationship will not last long, and you have done something that violates the principles, and this matter seems to have violated his bottom line? If the relationship is not well maintained, the cracks that are already there will get bigger and bigger, and she says that it is not appropriate, which seems to be the result of careful consideration by the girlfriend. And her deletion of everything about you shows that there is indeed no you in her heart, so let's think about it, what lessons we have learned in this relationship, if it is redeemed, it may not have much chance of winning, even if it is redeemed, will it correct the previous unresolved problems or change the mode of getting along.

If you really can't put it down, you can have a good understanding with your girlfriend, what are the problems between you, and then learn a lesson, and then correct the previous mistakes in the next relationship, such as things that violate the principles. If you can't get back together, this is also an opportunity for the subject to continue the next relationship, summarize the experience and lessons, and don't repeat the mistakes of the past next time. Best wishes.