Fifteen year best friend is breaking up, what should I do

Well, it doesn't have to be to break up, everyone has everyone's values, with the development of society, this value will continue to change, 15 years ago, you came together because of the same values, 15 years later, your values have not changed, because it is good, there is no need to change; But you can't stop her values from changing, and many times the change of values is not her own initiative, many objective reasons will cause her passivity (such as family reasons), and there is also a certain amount of hardship in this;

Also, a person may not be the one she really loves when she gets married, but she is forced to come together under objective pressure, and after many years, she meets her true love, which is a feeling, indescribable, and will trigger an emotional outburst in her for many years;

In addition, if the person's extramarital affair is not rampant, only once, as the reasons mentioned above are similar, then it can also be forgiven, because in the face of feelings, people are weak;

In the end, it's up to you whether you want to break up or not

What is the concept of a close friend.

You're related.

You can't accept having friends like that.

Then talk to her about your principles and leave with your dignity.

If you don't want to give up your friendship, then give her some advice, you have a family, you have to be responsible for the family, don't you, she accepts, you can still be friends.

If you don't accept it, it depends on your level of acceptance.

Disapproval is disapproval.

But what others do is someone else's freedom. Do you need to manage so much?

If you really can't tolerate it, then shut yourself off, when you don't know anything, and don't fall out with your friends until you have to, after all, one more friend has one more way.

Why break up with him? Is your 15 years so cheap? Just because you have different ideas about a certain point of view?

Maybe she's just being confused, why can't you take her away from this disaster? Or maybe she really found true love? You must know the many harms of extramarital affairs, and the 15 years of friendship that it can bring to your friend, isn't it worth it for you to accompany her through this ups and downs?

You have to accept this reality.

In the real world.

Such things are normal.

Society is always changing, not to mention people, no matter what the reason is, there will be his reasons, why bother to know too much detail, it will be more sad then, maybe he can't be considered your real friend! Although it is sad at this time, the facts are the facts, and we can only choose to accept such a reality.

Because no one can accompany you through your life, I remember what my friend said to me:"A friend is someone who accompanies you through a journey. "I think it makes sense, and I hope to encourage you.

Looking for the reason, is it wrong or is he wrong, how can you simply say that it is money?~

Friction is inevitable dripping

But maybe that way the friendship will be deeper!

Maybe it's for a lot of money, maybe it's just the most direct reason you can see!

There is emotional friction, which is unavoidable. It's okay.

People change.

There are many reasons for this.

Help him analyze the reasons for the breakup? Learn a lesson from it, so as not to be hurt again, and don't blindly comfort and pity her.

Are you a boy or a girl? Don't think about getting drunk with bad intentions! Hehe, just kidding! If that man doesn't deserve her love, it's a good thing!

Then you have to look at the reason for the breakup, and you can only get the right medicine by grasping the root of the problem Is it her boyfriend looking for a new love If so, then it's not worth nostalgia.

Can you tell me again about the reason for their breakup, why did they break up? We don't know the details!

You can give some generous and beautiful gifts, such as: silk scarves that match your friend's temperament, perfume, aromatherapy stone (to relieve fatigue), flower tea, etc., because every woman likes to be beautiful, and these beautiful gifts are enough to attract her eye.

This actually requires your careful observation. For example, think about what she has been lacking recently, maybe she didn't use this as a gift.

Another example is to give some practical gifts, such as: massage equipment, etc.

Give his son a quick watch, or a pen, etc.

The gift is not about the weight, but about the heart.

Are you a man or a woman, if you are a man, you can generously send an electronic product (mobile phone, camera, all kinds of boys are interested) to his son, and give his mother a vase, which is very practical and not rude, better than sending flowers. If you're a woman, it's even easier to say, you can send a scarf, sweater or something like that between sisters, and you can give his son a watch or tie, as an aunt, hehehe.

Send commemorative photos of your childhood, and send his son military things.

How about a CD, or a calligraphy and painting of a celebrity.

Yes, yes, you can't send a watch, everything else is fine......=

If your son's words are available, you can send a table, and your friend can send a scarf.

Anything goes, the main thing is the mind.

You are the best gift.

First of all, it depends on what hobbies he likes, and what festivals he has recently.

I don't smoke, I received 2 zippo lighters and I don't feel like it works, give me a Swiss Army knife, the gift I received more than a year ago, and it still works very well.

I saw the first floor and said to send a watch. I don't think it's good. Many people are taboo about sending watches, and others will think that they are sending the end (clock)! Very taboo.

Female friends and families, if it were me, I would send supplements. For example, ginseng, cordyceps, bird's nest, oral liquid or something.

As for her son, I think the tie and clothes are suitable.

When a good friend breaks up, the mood will naturally not be good, and your direct comfort is useless! Because I'm in a bad mood! You won't be able to listen to what you say!

Use the method of slow progress.

Take him shopping at night, eat supper, if you want to go to school, chat with him more after class, don't be about love (touch the scene) It's best to accompany him at noon! It's best to be able to eat together.

Slowly waiting for him to calm down...

You go and communicate with them and comfort her.

You have to see what kind of friend you are referring to, if it's a boyfriend and a girlfriend, if the two parties don't have the same personality, you can only do it. If it's a buddy, try to communicate with him as much as possible, don't care about face, otherwise you will lose both. (provided you want to be reconciled with him and her).

It should be a good girlfriend.

Why did you break up?

Is it a problem that cannot be communicated?

There is a solution to everything, and if you don't think about it, you don't care about it.

I don't know what kind of person his boyfriend is.

so ..When nothing happens, take her out and get in touch with nature.

He should treat you as a friend, this should be a kind reminder, do you want him to like you, maybe that's what you think in your heart.

I don't know exactly what kind of relationship you have.

I can't say that I can't make a conclusion.

But he still cares about you.

At least you've broken up and haven't become strangers.

So maybe there is still a chance to save.

The problem with you should be that you still love him, but you are not sure how he feels for you.

So I suggest you start with a friend.

The follow-up depends on what he cares about.

I think you can feel it after the contact.

Let's see what happens.

Probably yes, you can only say maybe, you are the person at that time.

There are no such thing as absolutely good people. That person must be a good person?

Friends after a breakup? I can't hurt each other, I love each other, I can only be strangers.

Good? The good thing is. Husbands and wives can't do it. I said I was a good friend. What a joke. Do you still remember "that thing" because you did it? Will you make a "spare tire" in the future?

The deeper the relationship, the more friends can't be made, let alone good friends.

If you break up, you can be friends or you can be nothing.

You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other. You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other. So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply.