What kind of feelings do you have for him? How can I be sure of my feelings for him?

This feeling should be! Friend!

If you can think of him in the most difficult times, then it should be a good friend!

When he is happy with the opposite sex, you are very sour, then it is better to be boyfriend and girlfriend!

He is the emotional sustenance of your emptiness.

What kind of feelings I have for him, only I know best.

Maybe you're not to the point where you like him in particular, but you've just had a crush on him.

There is no emotion. But it would be dangerous to continue.

You two haven't seen each other for two months.

It's just a friend, if you love, you will think about him all the time, you should just be a friend, not love.

Are you gay?

If you treat each other in a similar way to other friends, then you are a friendship; If you find that you are different from him or to you and you to other friends, then you have to pay attention to the fact that you may not be friendship but love. Although friends are different, the mood of treating friends is still different from the mood of treating likes.

Eye contact. Glances can often show a person's heart, and it's also a good way to do this if you can't tell the difference. Eye contact between friends may be more of a tacit understanding between two people, while the eyes that like one are different.

Like a person's eyes are full of love, because there is no relationship, so if you make eye contact, he or you will unconsciously want to dodge, afraid that the other person will see through their minds.

It seems that it is not easy to distinguish between love and friendship, but in fact, it is because I don't understand the true meaning of friendship and love, or I am deliberately avoiding it, afraid that the other party does not like me, and I am afraid that I will lose such a "friend". So choose to wait for him with an identity that can always exist by his side, friendship and love both need emotional giving, but the emotional giving of friendship is not unique, but love is unique.

If you find that you are special to each other, it is different from that of others, and then based on the above distinctions, please face up to your feelings, you are love not friendship, don't deceive yourself.

When I meet him, my heart will be stable and down-to-earth, at least I won't let you suffer from gains and losses, and I will not think wildly.

It is one small thing after another, one detail after another, and the accumulated sense of security makes you have absolute trust in it, and behind this trust, it knows what a sense of boundaries is.

And this sense of boundaries is often the first to be able to take into account your feelings and put your feelings first.

Knowing that you will be angry, knowing that you will be jealous, try to avoid these behaviors that can cause you discomfort as much as possible, so in the relationship, everyone has direct feelings in their hearts.

Love and non-love can be felt, even if you promise more, when I can't feel it, it's not love.

If you can't find even the least sense of peace of mind, then the relationship is worth considering, insecure, not for no reason, carelessness is always a reason, not taking into account your feelings is the real reason.

2. Comfortable feeling.

In order to get a comfortable feeling, there is a necessary premise, and there will be no friction between each other's spiritual worlds.

But in this world, there are no two people who are absolutely suitable, and there is no two people who are the same, how can they get along in harmony? It's all about respect and acceptance.

When two people are together, neither of them wants to control each other's thoughts, and guessing will not interfere with imposing their own will on each other.

Even if they don't have the same pursuit, they can respect each other's pursuits and support each other's pursuits, and everyone is a different individual, and only when they are aware of this can they continue their relationship.

The right person does not mean that they can be absolutely suitable for you, including the three views and personality.

Take the three views as an example, in fact, it is very normal for the three views to be different, which is almost determined by everyone's thoughts, and the main thing is to see if the two sides can have more understanding and respect.

It is not said that the other party must live as the person he wants, or always demand the other person with a perfect standard.

Therefore, if two people feel tired, burdened, and stressed in the process of getting along, the main reason is the lack of respect. True respect is to recognize that the other person is an independent individual, should have their own thoughts, should have their own emotions, not to say that who exists to fulfill whom, but because of each other, you can become a better person.

3. A warm feeling.

When two people are together, they will not encounter any big things, and what can move and warm people is always the small details.

Thoughtfulness, care and love from the details is the best proof of meeting the right person, and there will be quarrels in ordinary times, but after the quarrel, that person is still worthy of you saying "I do".

Once, I experienced a failed love, and I have a deeper understanding of love and non-love, and I very much agree that love and non-love can be seen at a glance. The first is that there is an essential difference between love and non-love, true love and false love, and there are completely different performances, the second is that a discerning person can see love and non-love from the words and deeds of lovers, and the third is that the person concerned may be confused by illusion and cannot see love and non-love.

First, there is a fundamental difference between love and non-love, and the specific manifestations are completely different. There is an essential difference between love and non-love in itself. Specifically, one has love in his heart and the other has no love at all.

As a result, people with these two different attitudes behave completely differently in terms of words and deeds. Those who love in their hearts will give sincerely to their lovers, while those who do not love will only be perfunctory. The differences in this regard are easy to distinguish.

The second is that the clear-eyed bystander can easily see the specific difference between love and non-love. The difference between love and non-love is easy for a discerning person to tell. The bystander is clear, and the discerning person who observes from the sidelines can easily distinguish the specific difference between truly loving the other person and perfunctory the other person, so as to judge whether the other person is loving or not.

If the words and actions of the person concerned are very direct, this situation can really be seen at a glance.

The third is that the person concerned may be confused by the illusion and cannot see the difference between love and non-love. Although there is a significant difference between love and non-love, as a person in the middle of it, it may not be clear to see. The reason why this is so is that he is in the middle of it, and he may be deceived by all kinds of illusions, so his judgment will be wrong, and then there will be a problem of not being able to distinguish between love and non-love.

1. What he gives you is not only heartwarming, but also makes you feel at ease.

The beginning of love is a heart-pounding feeling, but if there is only a heartbeat, it is not the right person. The person who is really right is the one who can make you feel at ease, make you feel grounded, and will not let you think cranky. He is willing to tell you everything about himself without reservation, and is willing to take you closer to his family, friends, and make you a part of his life.

After being with you, apart from work, his world is only left with you. Even if he is with you all the time, he will not feel bored, but will feel a small blessing and enjoy the time with you very much. In the same way, after you are with him, you can no longer tolerate other members of the opposite sex in your eyes, and you think that he is the best person in the world, and he is the right person you are looking for in this life!

2. When I am with him, I am more happy than sad, and I am full of hope for the future.

The taste of love is sweet and sour, but when you meet the really right person, 90% of the love will be full of sweetness, and the other 10% is also there to deepen the sweetness. Since I met him, all the misfortunes and all the unhappiness in my heart will be **, no matter what happens, as long as you think of him, your heart will be warm and full of happiness.

Meet the person who is truly right, who will care about your every subtle emotion and bring you joy and joy. He will be happy when he sees you happy, and if you are unhappy, he will try his best to make you happy. May you be able to find such a right person and be happy for the rest of your life.

3. He makes you more confident and makes you feel that life is so beautiful.

Someone once said that people become inferior when facing their loved ones. But if this is the case, please firmly believe that it is not the right person, please leave resolutely and decisively, otherwise your life will become humble, worse and worse, and you will not even like yourself.

But when you meet that really right person, he will not make you feel inferior, he will not make you depressed, he will only make you more confident and sunny. You can be willful and petty because you know he won't leave you; You can cry and laugh uncontrollably, because you know he won't dislike you; You can be yourself to your heart's content because you know he likes the real you. You become more and more confident, more and more beautiful, and he will love you more and more.