Should a boy accompany a girl? Do boys have to grow up with girls?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1.If it's as a friend, that's fine. Don't go beyond the boundaries.

    2.If that boy is your boyfriend, if he really loves you, he can do the following:

    When a guy is willing to bend down at any time and anywhere to tie your loose shoelaces; ­

    When a guy viciously grabs your hand and walks around your campus, just to let everyone know that you are his girlfriend and stop beating your mind; ­

    When a boy turns on the phone twenty-four hours a day, just to not miss every one of your **, and not to make you feel lonely in any lost moment; ­

    When a guy opens his eyes and texts every morning to say he loves you, he doesn't forget to say goodnight to you every night before going to bed; ­

    When a boy cries like a little child because you have suffered; ­

    When a boy is willing to fight and struggle for your happiness, and is willing to accompany you to wherever you want to go and do whatever you want to do, then please love him seriously, no matter how many people love you, you are the only one who will love you stupidly. ­

    Don't yell at him over there just because you've been wronged here; ­

    Don't hit him over and over again when he's busy, just to tell him you miss him; ­

    Don't associate with any guy beyond being a friend, even if he can't see it; ­

    Don't hang on him**, no matter how angry you are. What makes a guy the most angry is that he can't find his girlfriend; ­

    Don't lie to him, never. ­

    Please don't lie to him. If He really loves you, He can forgive you for all your mistakes, but he can't forgive you for your lies. ­

    Love is a matter of two people. If he is not worthy of your love, then please let go and give each of you the opportunity to pursue happiness; If he is worthy of your love, then please affirm him with your heart, love him, care for him, and wait for him! ­

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Apparently yes, provided you have some kind of relationship with each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't accompany you, you're a friend, depending on the relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A lot of people say. A girl should never grow up with a boy."

    Because I can't afford it, I can't wait.

    Or wait for the most heart-wrenching ending:

    The boy you've been with your heart has finally grown up.

    but became someone else's other half.

    In fact, boys fall in love for the first time, there will always be a lot of problems, not taking good care of their girlfriends, not cherishing their girlfriends enough, etc., so that girls slowly feel that boys are not good enough for themselves, and begin to sprout the idea of breaking up.

    Boys have always loved her, after all, men and women think differently, have different ideas, and look at problems with different focuses, and the first love, which is a very beautiful thing to say, still ends without a problem, and then the boy grows up, and has his own understanding of love, more considerate, more cherished, all the good changes, are because of a painful loss to the middle of the night.

    But no matter how long it takes, how many things have been experienced, there must be a place in the boy's heart for her first love, the girl can not grow up with him, the girl left him, he naturally grew up, the mature and stable man you see now is through countless ups and downs, love and hatred, accumulated enough to make you leisurely love experience transformed from, and a boy grows together, his whole heart is you in the future, and it is understandable to choose a mature man who has been weathered, It's just that no matter how much he loves you, it is impossible to completely forget the girl who taught him to grow up, maybe in the dead of night, he will skillfully shake off the cigarette ash, spit out a circle of smoke, and suddenly think of the girls who made him grow up, and then his heart is full of mixed feelings, and sigh that life is probably like this.

    It's a lot of writing, and I have a lot of feelings when I see this topic, and I hope it will be of some help to people who are going through this stage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Accompanying a boy to grow up, let him transform, make him excellent, become responsible, and witness all the way, if the other party does it in the end, he can enjoy the results, which is indeed very good.

    As a participant, you will feel more proud and fulfilled.

    However, even if one day, that boy becomes a good man, his heart may not always be the same as it was at the beginning.

    As he gets better, his smooth eyes may also change, and he will no longer like the women around him.

    When he walked forward, it was entirely possible that he met someone who was also very good and he liked very much, and he ran directly to that person, giving up the woman who accompanied him all the way.

    Not everyone will have such a conscience, and even if there is, if the love is no longer there, and they no longer fit each other, and they force themselves to be together, it is actually not interesting, and there will be no happiness at all.

    There are too many women, she can't afford to block them, and she doesn't want to block them at all, so from the beginning, she will only refuse such a boy, not let herself get closer, and don't let anything really happen to each other.

    After all, the future is never predictable, people's hearts are always easy to change, too uncontrollable feelings, that requires a lot of endurance, but also needs to have a strong heart, she and Lao Cong don't think she can, and she doesn't want to.

    In fact, if he grows up with a boy, if he really has the potential, can grow up as promised, can slowly change in getting along, make people feel his growth, and later he can always be firm and single-minded, it is still good.

    It is more meaningful to climb to a higher limb together than to sit back and enjoy it.

    It's just that the variables in this are really too big, and many boys can't do it at all, which can't be reassuring.

    Therefore, the more a woman of a certain age, the more reluctant she is to accompany her.

    I'm just going to find one that's already pretty stable in all aspects and makes me feel good.

    It doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, it's all a choice, and women have the right to do so.

    And for boys, it is good to have someone to grow up with, and you must know how to cherish it. No, then you might as well grow up on your own, and when you grow up enough to be able to afford the promise of a lifetime, then love, which is actually quite good.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, the girl's youth is just a few years, and the cost of growing up with others is too great, and this person is worth waiting, so if he is not worth waiting, then aren't you wasting time and energy and still have youth, it should be two people who grow up together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Good evening, dear. Growing up with a boy is a very uncertain thing. Because in the relationship between two people, due to the difference in personality, what they do with each other may not be so understandable between two people.

    You can grow up with this boy, and this boy doesn't reach the state you want. Instead of growing, become the person you want to be. But in the process of growing up with him, you have given your time, your youth, and a lot of your own things.

    In the end, the guy may not give you a good return, or you may not end up together. When a boy grows up, it's a game, blocking his youth, gambling his time, and blocking a lot of his own things. To gamble on an uncertain future.

    So you don't have to grow up with a boy. It's not worth it. Because I can't afford to wait, I can't afford to lose.

    Kiss, grow up with a boy, win the bet, the final result is fine, in case the bet is lost, the bet is your own youth. You're going to lose a mess.

    The most terrible thing is that you grew up with him, but he went to find someone else, and in the end he was not with you. Everything you give him, he uses on someone else. In the end, you want to be like you, only you have no witness, and he witnesses to others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Girls are generally more psychologically mature than boys of the same age, and they can accompany them, but don't be his dependence, it is difficult to grow with them, setbacks, failures, and difficulties, which can make people grow more. If you want him to grow, you can help him less, you can encourage him, and let him work hard to accompany you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A boy like this, it's better to leave him early, otherwise he thinks you can't do without him, and he will think that what you do for him is what you should do

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1.It depends on the boy's sense of responsibility and self-correction.

    2.Boys must pay enough so that they don't leave easily.

    3.People are the most loyal when they don't have a choice.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It should be two people who grow up with each other, not one with the other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You haven't been able to ask this question for more than ten years, and cerebral thrombosis can't ask it.

    You might as well ask the parents of those prisoners whether they should accompany their children to grow up, the essence is the same.

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