Do you like a good child or like a naughty child

Personally, I think it's better to be naughty, but there is a limit to being naughty, and it can't be too much. Good children are certainly worry-free, but they (they) are too conformist and have no development, or naughty children are bold and innovative.

To change the personality, I think it's unlikely.

I remember a special preschool teacher saying:

Children, what does it matter about "skin".

My ideal "skin" class should be: enthusiastic, smart (naughty), regular, and studious.

Since it is "skin", then the rules are the life of this class.

I myself couldn't agree more. The world is rich and colorful, and how tedious it would be if everyone's personality was the same. I love that I have a wide variety of kids in my class.

I like quiet children, who will listen to you silently; I also like the lively kid, his interaction with you will be so much fun.

I don't like children who are too well-behaved, and they will look at the eyes of adults when they do anything, as if they can't find themselves in **.

I also don't like children who are too noisy, who don't have anyone else in their eyes and don't consider other people's feelings.

I want my child to be considerate of the people around him, including teachers, peers, and parents, which will help him understand the importance of rules. I want my children to have fun with the rules, knowing that a game without rules will be uninteresting.

As long as there is a sense of rules and a willingness to abide by the rules, then any personality of the child can be released freely. In particular, the freedom of thought, the spirit of being willing to think and explore is the most important freedom. At this time, we must not frame the child's thinking and give too right constraints.

Another little episode, there are 2 people who are about to become teachers chatting, one of you says you want the children in the future class to be lively or quiet, and the other says quiet, but she later says: But I want my own children to be lively.

The meaning,I think it should be self-explanatory.。。。

I still like to be well-behaved compared to naughty children.

Nowadays, people's work rhythm is very fast, and they have no time to take care of their children, so they can only be placed in the nursery, so it is easier to always be well-behaved.

Like naughty kids, naughty kids are smart!

It's better to be obediently naughty.

Naughty children are smart and active.

Parents in the process of education, but also play a good role model, usually in the interaction with people or work to take the right attitude, holidays to take children out of the trip, through this method can effectively strengthen the emotional communication between each other, when the problem comes, can be a good stand in the child's point of view, to think about the problem.

Because it's by nature. Children are particularly naughty when they are young, this is just a process, it is a process of children's development and maturity, because children cannot be born adults to be able to mature, children are particularly naughty, parents should not worry too much, and the situation will improve when the child is older. Parents should pay attention to their children's naughtiness when taking care of their children, don't often beat and scold their children, and should find ways to communicate with their children, so that their parents know that their parents care about her, and parents should also keep abreast of their children and know what their children are thinking.

The nature of children, they have the desire to explore, the desire to learn, always very active, the idea is unique and whimsical, naughty children are actually better, once he wilts, it must be unhappy or uncomfortable.

There are various reasons why children are naughty, one is external factors, including society, school, family, etc.; There is also the intrinsic factor, which refers to the child's personal reasons.

Children's nature is like this, but some children are more extroverted, some children are more introverted, like to explore the mysteries of nature, like to explore all kinds of knowledge, which is driven by children's curiosity.

Because it is the nature of children to be naughty, children are unrestrained, very innocent, and very lively.

The child is naughty, indicating that he is lively and innocent. As long as it's not bad.

Naughty kids are smart, why is that?

In a doting family, children will become naughty. Because parents don't make a sense of rules for their children. What the child wants to do at home, the parents are too gentle and unreliable.

When the child is watching a cartoon while eating, the parents may not agree, but the child can't help but make trouble several times, and finally the parents agree. When a child throws away his own things and does not clean up, parents may get angry and nag, but when they see that the child does not clean up, they will clean up the battlefield and finally surrender to the child. When the adults take a nap, the children make loud noises in the living room.

Parents may teach their children something, but the child does not react and the parents stop talking. After a long time, the child knows that I want to do it, and it is useless for my parents to do anything to me.

As soon as there is a child who can't sit still, he will keep running around and disturbing the order. This is because the child's sensory integration is out of tune. Sensory integration deficiency and sensory integration disorder will affect the coordination of various functional areas of the brain, sensory organs, and the body, causing problems in learning and life.

Children with vestibular disorders often show hyperexcitement, running around, and rolling to the brim. Lack of concentration and love small movements. This may be due to the mother's malposition during pregnancy, or the child's walking movement is inadequate.

In the case of the child who does not have much space for exercise at home, if the child lacks walking training, it will affect the child's vestibular balance. Such a child is not smart, but has a sensory integration disorder. Let your child crawl more.

This is currently internationally recognized as the best means of preventing induced disorders. It can be done in-game. So, don't think of your child's pranks as being smart.

It is related to the type of child's temperament, and psychologists divide people's temperament into four types: mucous, choleric, depressive, and bloody, according to the characteristics of blood. These four types have different temperament characteristics. Juicy people are extroverted, mistress scattered and excited, quick to react, and strong willpower.

The disadvantage is that it is difficult to suppress impulses, feelings and feelings come and go quickly. Juicy children are generally easy to move. However, there is no theoretical basis to believe that juicy children must be good at thinking, and have strong understanding, imagination, creativity, etc., which is the choleric temperament type.

Because naughty children often think and exercise their brains, these naughty children are very smart.

It's a bad behavior, like pranks, spitting, hitting, and so on. These behaviors are not so much a manifestation of children's naughty intelligence as a kind of homeschooling problem. We believe that a child's willfulness cannot be a willfulness, and that a child's ignorance and selfishness are not a kind of cuteness when they are friends in the same room.

We can't put together the shortcomings and strengths of these children, as this will only encourage and even hurt the children.

Because naughty children have a strong sense of curiosity, like to explore, and have a relatively well-developed brain, naughty children are smart.

Generally speaking, children who change their skin are bent and active, and sometimes there are some strange ideas, and children with many ideas will have faster cerebral cortex development and are active, so naughty children are smarter.

This is actually not good, well-behaved and obedient children, no creativity, no imagination, will only blindly follow the rules, will not make people have any surprising opinions.

Well-behaved children must be good, because in this way they can learn better, so that they can cooperate with teachers and parents to improve their academic performance, if they are too rebellious, they will easily disobey discipline.

This is not necessarily good, because being well-behaved and obedient will become obedient to parents, and without their own ideas and opinions, it is not a good thing for a child's life.

<>There is no absolute good or bad in childhood, but there is a difference between honesty and naughtiness. Children need to give them a complete and beautiful childhood, maybe other children do not learn well, and in other aspects there is some merit. Therefore, it is necessary to educate children from time to time to be tolerant and tolerant.

Do we, as parents, have the right to deprive our children of their freedom? At a certain age, people will make progress and grow, and children will have a process of self-identification. We should not interfere, what we can do is to constantly improve their character.

Children will eventually return to school, and most serious and responsible teachers will not only consider the students' grades, but also their psychological conditions. Parents don't need to get involved, they just need to tell him some of the rules of being a human being.

People will only become more and more mature, and there will be no more and more withdrawal. Society is constantly evolving, and in this regard, we should not interfere with the freedom of children. After all, he has not yet integrated into society, and he is too young to know, so he should be given a space to play freely.