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Tell him something about a good child 2, give him a prize when he behaves well3, and tell him a story, for example; Because a child was naughty, his friends nicknamed him Naughty Ghost, and everyone ignored it ever since. Then say; Do you want to be that disobedient child?
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Parents can cope by setting rules and other methods.
Here's how:
1. The first thing to do to deal with naughty children is to set rules for them. For children, parents should set some rules for them from an early age. For example:
When you see the elders, take the initiative to say hello, and say thank you for helping you complete things. Although children are very expensive, they must not be over-stocked, and the formation of bad habits lies in the over-doting and blind parents to them.
2. Secondly, to deal with naughty children, parents must make up their minds. Some bad things that shouldn't be there must be corrected, whether it's crying or making trouble. Parents must have a correct attitude, if it doesn't work, it won't work.
3. Of course, in the process of dealing with naughty children, parents need to set an example. Some of the bad problems of children are imitated by their parents, because the words and deeds of their parents in daily life will affect them. Such as swearing, hitting, temper tantrums, etc.
In the eyes of children, parents are everything, and if you want to cultivate children who are loved by everyone, the quality of parents is very important, because all of this determines the child's future temperament.
4. Don't make any excuses for their mistakes when dealing with naughty children. When children make mistakes, parents will consciously make excuses for them and then evade responsibility, which will only harm them.
5. When dealing with naughty children, don't blindly beat and scold, the children are still young, they don't understand what you scold. When the child is naughty, parents should try to talk to the child calmly and equally, greed is more effective than stopping the child or satisfying the child.
6. Parents must be calm when dealing with naughty children, children's behavior is sometimes naïve and understandable, and parents should not be absolutely embarrassed and embarrassed.
7. Dealing with naughty children is to let him understand what to do should be measured, rather than blindly countering violence with violence, and appropriate criticism and education will make your child grow better.
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Managing a naughty child can be one of the biggest challenges. However, with the right approach, this challenge can turn into an opportunity. Here are some effective ways to do it:
1.Establish clear rules and limits: Let your child know what you expect from them and the rules they need to follow. In this way, they will know what is acceptable and what is not.
2.Establish a good communication channel with your child: By establishing a good communication channel with your child, you can better understand their needs and ideas, so that you can better manage their behavior.
3.Establish a system of rewards and punishments: children who behave well should be rewarded appropriately; Appropriate punishment should be given to children who do not follow the rules. This can help children understand that their actions have consequences.
4.Set an example: Setting a good example for your child to see how you should behave and how to relate to others can help them learn how to behave.
5.Develop your child's self-control: Let your child learn self-control and let them think about whether they should do it before they are impulsive. This can help them better manage their behavior.
Finally, don't forget to talk to your child's teachers and other parents about your child's performance in school and other home management methods. Sharing experiences and learnings with others can help you manage your child better.
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I have a younger brother, 10 years old this year, he has been a particularly naughty child since he was a child, this "naughty" has more than half of Lingqiao is also a bad meaning, because he can be said to be obsessed with and even obsessed with fun, especially like to run out of the house to play, often go out in the afternoon, stay downstairs until the evening before procrastinating home, and even go out to play when going to school, homework or something left behind. If this continues, not only will the playtime squeeze his study time, and his academic performance will be sluggish, but also his playfulness is so large that it is easy to be dangerous, so when we meet such a naughty child, or a younger brother than you, what should we do to leak the ruler to be violent?
The first thing I can think of is "ideological education", that is, verbal persuasion, simply put, it is to tell him the truth, because the age difference between us is relatively small, there is no generation gap between the two, and I can understand his thoughts. So we talked and talked about the things he liked to hang out about, persuaded him to focus on his studies, connected his current performance with his future development, and helped him anticipate the terrible consequences of not achieving anything in the future. Especially when it comes to how he should have fun reasonably, it is no problem to go out to play after completing his homework or with good knowledge, and there is no problem in controlling the time and going home on time.
But his mistake was to just have fun, run out of the house without finishing his homework, and often go home overtime, even ignoring dinner, which made him realize his own mistakes and understand how to correct them. In this way, after gradually changing his thinking, I added material rewards, mainly through the formulation of study contracts, giving him snacks, movie rewards, etc., so that he gradually developed the habit of learning first under the encouragement, and corrected the bad problems of only having fun but ignoring other bad problems.
The dual education of ideology and material is indeed very fruitful, first persuade him to change his thinking with flexibility, let him take the initiative to recognize his mistakes, and then motivate him to study hard, reduce play, and gradually develop good habits, so that the naughty child will also correct bad habits and become a good child.
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Children who are very disobedient and active can be dealt with by appropriate guidance, psychological counseling, taking drugs and other methods, the specific situation is as follows:
1.Appropriate guidance: Children are very disobedient and active, parents need to be patient enough to guide children, and can take the initiative to calm down through rewards and punishments, distraction, and communication with children.
2.Psychological counseling: children are very disobedient and active, which may be related to ADHD, in this case, it is recommended that parents take their children to the hospital for psychological counseling, through behavior, cognitive behavior and other methods to alleviate this situation.
3.Taking medications: If the child is very disobedient and active, accompanied by inability to concentrate, delayed language development, emotional overreaction, etc., it indicates that the situation of ADHD is more serious, and it may be necessary to take methylphenidate hydrochloride tablets, atomoxetine hydrochloride capsules and other drugs under the guidance of a doctor**.
The solution to the problem of the baby's naughty and disobedient is as follows:
1. Positive adjustment, should be more tolerant and patient, because the baby's age is not old, it is easy to be naughty, disobedient problems, and naughty is the baby's nature, so can not blindly deny or even punish, scold the baby, but should be more tolerant, understanding, give the baby more verbal encouragement, positive acceptance of its behavior in order to make its behavior more and more healthy, and more and more expected to appear in its behavior.
2. Appropriate guidance, especially deviant behavior or even special disobedience to selfish and self-interested behavior, should be stopped in time, and should also be clearly informed that its behavior is wrong, must have a clear and resolute attitude, wrong behavior such as lying, selfishness, sprinkling, rolling, scoundrels, etc., these behaviors should let them know that they are wrong, wrong, and even some babies may scold their parents, should be corrected in time.
3. Reward and punishment measures need to be done, and there can be more verbal encouragement, companionship and game time for good and positive behaviors, and verbal criticism should also be given appropriately if there is a scolding and lying behavior, and there are rogue behaviors that can also be appropriately ignored, because ignoring is also easy to make disobedient and naughty behaviors slowly subside.
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1. For younger children, if they have problems with their personality, it is bound to be inseparable from the wrong way of education. If it is just blindly criticizing and blaming, then it will only make the child more bored. If parents have not realized the importance of disciplining a rebellious bear child, then only the child himself will suffer in the future.
Article**22, the first thing to do to deal with naughty children is to set rules for them. For children, parents should set some rules for them from an early age. For example: take the initiative to say hello when you see an elder, say thank you for helping you complete something, etc.
Article**3 Although children are very expensive, they must not be over-stocked, and the formation of bad habits lies in the over-doting and blind eyes of parents.
3. Secondly, to deal with naughty children, parents must make up their minds. Some bad things that shouldn't be there must be corrected, whether it's crying or making trouble. Parents must have a correct attitude, if it doesn't work, it won't work.
Article **4
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It's normal for children to be ignorant and naughty. But in the process, you must educate him. What can be done and what must not be done.
Slowly regulate his behavior. In that case, he is. Know.
Adult's intentions. He knew it. What to do and what not to do?
Slowly develop the habit of obedience.
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1. If parents want to discipline their naughty children, they must first pay attention to protecting their children's self-esteem, and must not use violent methods to make their children obedient, which can easily lead to rebellious behaviors in children, and it is also easy to hurt children's psychology, so that children become cowardly and unconfident. Parents should teach by example, lead by example, and use soft means to make their children obey you, so that discipline will be more worry-free.
2. Parents should let their children say their thoughts more, be patient enough with their children, and do not hear their children's bad ideas, so as to immediately correct their children strictly, which will make them feel that their thoughts are not understood. Parents should guide the baby correctly according to their interests and ideas, so that the baby's psychology will be healthy and positive.
3. Parents can let naughty children do more hands-on, let children help do some simple housework every day, and give children positive praise and affirmation, which can enhance children's self-confidence. For some of the children's destructive behaviors, parents should not blindly blame the children, but should carry out correct guidance and education, so that the children can correct this behavior.
4. Parents should correctly recognize and view their children's naughtiness. The naughty explanation has three meanings: one is fun-loving, active, unpersuaded, untamed, and difficult to deal with; The second is to be clever, tricky, and cunning.
Obviously, from the above explanation, being naughty is not necessarily a bad thing. In a sense, children are naughty and active, disobedient to discipline, do not listen to the persuasion of parents, do things smartly, etc., which are showing the child's personality, intelligence, and frankness, and this is the characteristics that a child should have, which is normal.
5. Guide scientifically. There are many reasons why children are naughty, and being naughty is not necessarily a bad thing. If we blindly adopt simple and crude means to intervene and educate with sticks, it will not only affect the healthy development of children's body and mind, but also very likely to stifle children's potential and nature in some aspects.
In this way, it is the biggest dereliction of duty of parents.
6. Praise excellent behavior, punish and restrain wrong behavior.
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