How do you reject the person you like, how do you reject the person who likes you?

You can't judge the love between two people by your thoughts, since it is the love of two people, it must be borne by two people, you must first make your words clear, don't nest your thoughts in your heart, let the other party know your difficulties If he really loves you, he will love you desperately, don't do such unwise things, otherwise you will regret it for a lifetime!! Be careful!! If you have to do this, ask him out and refuse on the grounds of your discord or the distance between you!!

Otherwise, the other party loves you so much and you don't know what stupid things you will do!! I don't want to see a lover run to the end of the world!! I'll top you!!

In this state, it depends on whether you value yourself more or him. By now, it seems that there is always someone sad in this story. Either you forget about him and start your new life; Or go ahead and be a stand-in for another girl.

Women are always soft-loving, but in the end it is themselves who hurt. You are now tantamount to using your youth to fulfill other people's dreams. When you look at this relationship 10 years later, you will find it funny.

Don't be confused anymore, you must be simple when it's time to decide!

Be decisive, woman. You are immersed in his sweet words and cannot extricate yourself.

You are afraid that you will reject him, and you will never hear his voice again, and you will not feel his care for you again.

But did you know? He does this only out of his emptiness, and the people he loves don't love him. Or even treat you as a substitute.

Don't live in this kind of pain anymore. Since you can't have a future, what are you afraid of him being angry with? Be decisive, the deeper the filling, the deeper the pain, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

Don't contact him. If he comes, he will not find you. Once. Twice. He didn't come to Le. If the number of times Dole. It is possible that he loves you Virtue. It's just that you don't know.

Explain to him decisively... The longer this thing drags on, the more it hurts me... Don't care what you can for a long time.

Don't worry about anything, you just think that you want to be happy and grasp it yourself!

He doesn't love you, so why should you be afraid that he will be sad and angry?

He is looking for you because you love him, and let you come to soothe his wounded heart (because you can't catch up with the woman you love) It can be said that such a man is shameful and selfish! You are nothing more than a placebo, a substitute when he is lonely, sad, and rejected by other women!

You're stupid, girl! A decisive severance of contact is the best! There is no need to give such a man any reason and leeway!

I think yours will be better in the future. Your true prince will appear when you wake up, trust me! Bless you!

Go with the flow and don't care.

Used to have. I just care about the eternity.

Let's just say, I already have a boyfriend. Such an approach is the best solution.

No meaning, give up, you are just a substitute for him, who are you, count, precious, are you not even worthy of backup, listen to ,,, who I am for you

You'll understand,

Make it clear. Absolutely pointed.

If you want to refuse, you have to be ruthless.

Don't contact for a while.

But as a result, I will be very sad too.

Silly girl, be decisive! Cut the Gordian knot!! Outright rejection!!

I think it's really difficult. But there should still be a settlement, and it's not good for anyone to be uninvited. Cut through the mess.

Tell him, "You just want to be friends with him."

What do you like about me, can't I change it?

Why just have it yourself and don't let you have it.

In interpersonal communication, learning to refuse is a compulsory course, especially in the relationship between men and women, we can't control others to have a good impression of us, and in the face of the confession of people we don't like, we can't force ourselves to accept, although rejection is inevitably a harm, but polite refusal may not make the relationship between the two sides stalemate. So how should you refuse to be confessed by someone you don't like?

1. Resolute attitude, bluntly refusing as the saying goes: "If you keep breaking off diplomatic relations, you will be confused by it." "When the other person expresses their love for you, if you don't like the other person, give the other person a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other person a chance.

You have to refuse directly, and don't contact him again after refusing, and don't ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity for the other party, and efficiently refuse the confessions of many people who dare not refuse others, always afraid of hurting their self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a friend for many years, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of confession from a friend, you have to know how to be tactful, just give him some hints, tell him what type you like and what you imagine your future to be.

Let him stand back. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity, and minimizes the degree of harm.

3. If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that the face-to-face refusal will hurt the other party, and you don't know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to be impatient to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.

4. Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, save him enough face, let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, so you don't want to deceive him, this doesn't want to cause him any harm. Many people now know what a good hand means. Once you've dealt a good card, he knows that you've politely rejected him.

1.Stay calm: Don't feel anxious about people liking you, it's their feelings, not your problem. Stay calm, analyze the situation rationally, and think about how to deal with it.

2.Set boundaries: If someone you don't like is overly enthusiastic, you can politely tell them that you want to keep a certain distance. Set clear boundaries so they can understand how you feel with your traces.

3.Communicate honestly: If the person takes the initiative to confess to you, you can honestly tell them how you feel. Express that you don't like them talking and tell them that you want to maintain a friendly relationship (if applicable).

5.Be respectful: Even if you don't like the person, respect their feelings. Don't laugh at them or be unkind to them, try to handle the situation with maturity.

What do we do in the face of rejection from someone we like?

Today, this article is for all those who are emotionally frustrated!

Faced with the rejection of the person you like, you either give up or.

Keep liking him, whichever you choose, I feel.

Yes, yes. But in the face of the other person's rejection, you have to learn to respect his wishes.

If his answer is"No", please accept this fact first. Don't deny it and question "why don't you like me, I'm so cute". Don't try desperately to convince him.

Change your mind"I really like you, with me.

You will definitely be happy

Remember. An important manifestation of maturity in love is that you know how to respect the other person's wishes, and he has the right and freedom to choose. If you chase a guy and he doesn't like you so he rejects your confession, it's normal, don't ask him why he doesn't like you and post all kinds of pressured essays.

After being rejected by the other party, how to take the initiative with him? How do you continue to pursue him?

1. Focus on yourself and live your own life first.

Whether you are in love or making friends, you should rely on attracting rather than relying on upside down, and rely on providing value rather than asking for value. If you can't control your own life well, and just blindly take the initiative with him, you call it upside down, and you must learn to attract him, instead of blindly pleasing and upside down; If you don't spend your time and energy on improving yourself, but waste your time and energy on people who don't value you, how can you provide value to them if you are not good enough?

Blindly express love to him, but the other party does not respond.

Next, this kind of self-righteous initiative to be good to him is actually asking for him, you are actually asking for his love, and you want him to choose you. Whether in love or making friends, no one likes someone who keeps asking for them.

2. While living his own life, take the initiative to meet his expectations.

Remember, he said that he wants to be friends, then his thoughts and choices must have a reason behind them, and they need to be known and understood.

Even if you can't understand the reasons behind the boy's thoughts and choices, you should say as much as possible, because he has the right and freedom to choose, and you have to learn to play a role in the will of life.

Let's take a look at a few cases.