Why don t I get the happiness I want?

Updated on society 2024-05-20
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sometimes happiness is at your fingertips and you don't notice it. Addendum: Don't like why you want to be together, don't you know each other's personalities before you get married?

    Fighting can't solve the problem, what's the contradiction? What happened? What is happiness?

    For example: we are both hungry, I have a steamed bun and you don't, I am happier than you! If he really loves me, I think he will change himself for you.

    Or you can accommodate him a little more. If you have any questions, talk about them calmly! Follow-up:

    There's nothing to talk about with someone like him, it's useless to talk about it, I've accommodated him so much, why doesn't he think about it, think about our future, I'll give him whatever he wants, and I'll do anything for him? Do you still have the heart to continue living with him?

    Such a man is really happy! If I had such a wife, I would cherish it! Should you go out for a walk, calm down and think about tomorrow between you?

    If it's really not necessary, then the long pain is better than the short pain? Make up your own mind! Added:

    I don't know how to cherish what I get, and I feel sorry for losing him Follow-up: You can't leave him I want to go home is harder than climbing to the sky It's impossible to stay at home for a few days : Such a man is really hateful.

    With him, I don't think you can calm down. Think about whether you can live with such a person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There will always be a gap between reality and ideals There are shortcomings to be real Do you want to live in a dream? Addendum: You are hesitating You still love him Learn to tolerate him Communicate with him Tolerate each other You will be happy Don't just think about yourself Ask:

    I thought so much about him I let him do everything But did he think about it for me He knows what I feel every day : Is there communication Do any of you have a bad temper That's very troublesome You let him try to live without you But don't provoke him Follow-up question: As soon as the two of them talk, it's okay I want to go home and live for a few days But will he agree :

    He probably won't agree You can make an agreement with him You arrange everything for him to live with you for a few days and live without you for a few days Let him feel it You provoke him to ask him if he dares to try Follow-up: It's useless As long as you say go home You can go with you Come back and come back together I'll just say I want to stay at home for a few days His face is longer than a donkey My parents said no, he's like this Do you say there is a selfish person like him? You can't go back to your own home: Then you can talk about it Patience is always limited I can't make any more decisions for you and I can't do anything to ask:

    There is no way to talk about a selfish person how can you talk to him How can you talk to a person who only thinks about himself and does not think about others : Then I can only pray for you Poor child You don't fight, do you? Follow-up:

    If you don't fight, it's all a joke: You have a good relationship, it's normal to be a little contradictory, and you ask: What's good about talking every day:

    What do you want to do? Follow-up question: What can I do, I can't help it, just continue to prepare :

    Hey, I died in vain, so many brain cells, ah, I wish you all continued to live well, and asked: Hehe, I'm sorry to pull: Then I'm leaving.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There was a girl who had liked it for a long time and finally gave up. The reason is a little helpless, because of the lack of qualifications. In the eyes of many people, as long as two people like love, they can be together at all costs. But that's the ideal state, and the reality is real.

    Everyone is different, and if you can meet someone who is willing to love you and care about you regardless of everything, you must be happy. But if you meet people who love each other, they care more about their own families. It seems reasonable for her to choose to become a stranger to you because she is powerless to refute her family's interference in her life.

    In those months, I've been wondering, why can't two people who like it be together, whose fault is it? I tried, I told her desperately that I would work hard for our future, that I would bring her happiness, but to no avail. Then I gave up because I figured everything out and it turned out that everyone was right.

    It's just that the happiness of this world requires you to have matching qualifications. Even if you are lucky, you must also have the qualifications for good luck, such as the character, connections, background, etc., these various conditions are actually qualifications.

    Since then, I've never questioned in my heart why the world is unfair. Instead of worrying about those, you should improve your qualifications. Whether it's honing your abilities, exercising, developing hobbies, learning to dress up, or working hard to make money, it's all about improving your qualifications.

    When I have the opportunity to face the choice of happiness, I hope to be qualified to have happiness, to be with the person Wu Tuanzhi really likes, and to give her and give us a beautiful happiness in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Dear landlord.

    In fact, the most precious and important things in the world, that is, one's own family affection, one's own feelings and heart, one's own life and health, one's own happiness and joy, one's own life and career, one's own personality and dignity, it can also be said that the five types of people that should be cherished, namely parents, siblings, friends, lovers, and oneself, these are the most precious things in one's own life, and they are also the most cherished things, which cannot be lost.

    Because only one's own family affection is eternal love, it is a love that cannot be let go, it is a love that blood is thicker than water, and only family affection is eternal love.

    In the world, only one's own feelings are one's own things, nothing can be lowered, and only oneself is the most real.

    In a person's life, life is precious, health is the capital, as long as you cherish yourself, cherish life, is the most precious.

    As long as we face life with an optimistic attitude, happiness will be everywhere, happiness is a feeling, happiness is a wisp of floral fragrance, when the flower blooms in the depths of the soul, as long as the breeze blows gently, it can exude a leisurely, intoxicating fragrance.

    Life and career is the ideal we pursue and the goal of struggle, one thing, if you figure it out, it is heaven, if you can't figure it out, it is hell, since you live, you must live well. If you know how to live, if you can enjoy yourself in a world where colors, sounds, lights, scents, and beautiful scenery are always available, life will become an endless journey of fun.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

    It's awkward. Yes, you may regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're not him, how do you know he's unhappy?

    Perhaps he felt that his dedication was the greatest happiness.

    We can't always think of our feelings as someone else's.

    This can sometimes cause unnecessary trouble.

    I think you should have faith in yourself.

    Believe in yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What kind of love do you want.

    It's not perfect.

    I'm sorry. No one can do that.

    And love is a matter of getting along with both parties.

    Maybe you want to be perfect.

    Others don't want to. Neither can you.

    Find the right person for you.

    Go with the flow. Don't deliberately pursue any beautiful women and handsome guys.

    We're all human.

    You don't have to worry about what the other person does to you.

    You have to work hard to improve yourself.

    It's not like that's love!!

    You have raised yourself to a certain height.

    It was recognized by everyone.

    Love comes naturally.

    A poor boy.

    Fantasy love. That's unrealistic.

    So you're not trying to work on love.

    It's about their own quality.

    Ability to work hard

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are some things that you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

    Some fates are:

    Doomed to lose.

    Yes, some fate will never have a good result, you don't have to have someone to have, but you have to love someone well.

    The man cries because he really loves;

    The woman cried. It's because she really gave up.

    If sincerity is a hurt, I choose to lie; If a lie is a disservice, I choose silence; If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave.

    If loss is bitter.

    Are you afraid to pay?

    If confusion is bitterness.

    You will not choose to end.

    If the pursuit is bitter.

    You won't choose to be obsessed.

    If separation is bitter.

    Whoever you want to talk to, many things are only seen later, and many things are not bitter at the time, but I can't find the way I came.

    There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but it cannot be said. There is a kind of love that I want to give up, but I can't give up. There is a kind of love, which I know is torment, but I can't open it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward. But the heart has long been unable to be recovered.

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