In the event of a breakup. Should I not be contacted. Do you want to contact you after you break up?

In this case, don't contact it.

When you are together, you should be together and devote yourself to love for once.

After the breakup, I didn't want to contact each other anymore, and it was a very beautiful dream. Give this relationship a beautiful outcome, and you will both be grateful to each other in the future.

In the future, you will all have to face your own life, your new other half, live a good life, you will meet a more suitable one.

People, look ahead.

You're quite right. You're just a passer-by.

Passers-by can't talk about love. At most, I like it.

Don't give him unreservedly in the future. It's not worth it to you.

I don't know what you think, but for me, I won't contact him again after the breakup, because I know that I can't continue to be with him like a normal friend. So I won't be in touch, and I don't want my future boyfriend to be in touch with his ex-girlfriend.

It's useless to ask others here, and solve your own problems.

If I were to ask a question here, what if I asked you, "Can I be a millionaire?"

What's the use? The questions you ask are just a little comfort to you. Good luck.

What is there to be discouraged about.

Get in touch again? Is there anything you need to do?

You all feel like you're just a passerby in his life.

So what else do you need to contact?

Fang: Let it go, time can wear everything down.

When it comes to breakups, many people deal with them differently.

Some people think that they should talk about it, make it clear, and break up clearly; Some people think that since they have decided to break up, there is no point in saying anything, so it is better not to say it.

My advice: when you break up, it's best to be clear.

Because, what you said when Biliang broke up will directly affect the development of the relationship between the two after they break up. There are a lot of legacy problems after a breakup, which are caused by not speaking clearly when the breakup happened.

Most people propose to break up for two reasons: one is that there are various practical reasons that cause you to not want to continue with the other party, such as long-distance separation, parental opposition, etc.; The other is that there is no specific practical reason, that is, I don't like the other person.

In both cases, the way to deal with it is not the same when it comes to a breakup.

In the first case, it is important to make it clear to the other person what are the practical issues that prevent you from continuing to have a relationship.

If one day this problem is solved, it is still possible for you to get back together.

If you really want to save the relationship one day in the future, it's essential to make it clear when you break up.

If you don't make it clear when you break up, when you try to redeem it, the other party will have resistance in their hearts: why do you say break up and break up, and reconcile when you say reconcile?

However, if you are clear about the reason for the breakup, you can also try to convince the other person when it comes to recovery: "I understand what caused us to break up, and I have found a solution." ”

For example, because of the breakup of long-distance places, because of the breakup of parents and families and other practical problems, now a solution has been found. This will make it easier for the other party to accept it, or at least show that you are taking the relationship seriously.

Therefore, for this kind of breakup caused by practical problems, you should make it clear when you break up, which not only shows respect for the relationship, but also leaves a little room for each other.

What if you want to redeem it later?

And for the second case, many people don't want to redeem it, because the person who proposed to break up has no interest in the other party. He knows that the other party is very good, and he also knows that he may not find a better person for a while after the breakup, but he just doesn't want to continue to associate with the other party.

In this case, we need to speak clearly, only in this way can we avoid entanglement with the other party.

At this time, you would rather let the other person hate you, and would rather behave ruthlessly than give the other party a chance to continue to pester you.

It's cruel to do that, but if you're really tired of this person from the bottom of your heart, it's good for both of you: you're dead, and it's irresponsible for both of you to let the other person have illusions about you, or to let the other person spend time on you because they think they can change something.

Therefore, when you break up, you must make it clear, or tell the other party "I have nothing to dislike about you, it's really because of some practical problems that we can't go on"; Or tell the other person "I just don't like you anymore, and no matter what you become, I won't like it anymore."

Of course, it is necessary, the relationship is most afraid of confusion, and the breakup must be understood.

This brings us to the necessity of communication.

Fan Xiangyan said:

I don't like this kind of unfair waiting, you and I had the last meal, the last time we met, you made all the preparations, and I didn't. If you really don't love, then make it clear to your face, after all, the love at the beginning is true, and the current love is also true, give this relationship a minimum of respect, give the other party a complete death, and then get together and disperse. They turned around and drifted away."

The beginning of a relationship comes from acquaintance, and a good ending ends with acquaintance, which is also the greatest respect for this relationship.

In real relationships, many lovers may not have time to say goodbye or even have the opportunity to say goodbye and talk about their hearts because of the final emotional escalation and emotional conflict, which is unfair and irresponsible for the other party.

In fact, the promise given by love to the end is marriage, and we will all be co-responsible in the marriage relationship, so we are all a whole of each other, have the right to know and the right to decide, the best relationship is understanding, but also tolerance, it is not easy to meet a person, to be able to have someone by your side to feast and stare at that is even more unavoidable, even if it may not come together in the end.

We also have to face it calmly and open-mindedly, thank the past, thank him, and let the other party understand you, him, and you. This kind of relationship is worthy of respect, those who run away from their lovers and don't say a word are cowards, they don't even have the courage to break up in person, they can't even say goodbye to each other, how can they give a lifetime of life.

In love, communication is really an art, learning, disagreements, quarrels, coincidences, etc., these are what love should be.

If a person does not have the ability to communicate, it will be difficult for him to achieve great success, no matter how strong his personal ability is.

Psychologists propose that everyone has four levels of needs. Before focusing on the needs of the top, it is necessary to meet the needs of the grassroots first.