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Hehe, don't be angry, don't worry, the two upstairs are also expressing their opinions. You're only 21, you're very young, you're not afraid you won't find the second, but you can't drag it out, women age quickly. I think it's possible that he also felt that the novelty had passed, and it was too bland.
You first tell him directly what you think he is doing wrong, but don't compare him to before, let alone with other men, he will be annoyed and angry, and then you must not be angry, not impatient, be very calm, and tell him that this dissatisfaction has existed for a while.
You still have decades in the future, and the accumulation of such resentment will cause even more damage, and by then you will all be a certain age, and he is not afraid of a man, so you will be different. Don't say the above sentence to him, that's for you.
Then you can tell him to separate for a period of time before getting married, at least half a year, with less contact, so that both parties can think about whether it is really not suitable to be together, and not have sex too often, which will make him falsely feel that he needs you, and then be nice to you for the next short time. You have to see how that man behaves when he can't get your body, that's the real performance. Don't promise him anything during this time, be a little indifferent to him.
If he doesn't agree, or is grumpy when they separate, you really need to think about breaking up.
The above are very objective views, and then I want to talk about my subjective opinion, I think he is indeed very selfish, and the money is very tight, this is not even a qualified man, he does not have the atmosphere and openness that a man should have, and his performance is inconsistent, which is a bit hypocritical. Such a person is not worth dating, I suggest you divide it directly, but you want to confirm it or you still cherish this relationship, just do it according to the above, I also hope that he can change himself through your attitude, but I personally feel that the nature is difficult to change, you should be careful. I think you're actually a very good girl, it's very good as a girlfriend, don't worry about not finding a man who really loves you and is considerate of you, so you don't need to be too anxious and worried, waiting for fate to come.
Also, if you want to find a boyfriend, you must consider observing clearly, pay attention to the details of his gestures, not desperately satisfying you is good, it depends on whether he cares about you and takes care of you, and it is also time to test whether a person can treat you the same from beginning to end, don't be too anxious to pay.
My girlfriend and I are recognized as a model couple, we complement each other's personalities, and we are both simply in love, without other ideas, and I have seen countless couples divide and merge, so I think my words are still quite meaningful, hehe.
Hope you can find your own happiness!
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Forehead. First of all. Do you still love him.
Let's be honest. I'm still a little dizzy after reading it.
I super agree with what you said.
The better the man treats you when you get to know you, the more disappointed you will be over time.
Sometimes. We just feel that we are too tired of our love and want to let go.
But if he's very selfish. And bad tempered words.
You'd better talk and disperse.
I know such people. In the end, it will become more and more rampant.
If you still love him.
Then calm down and calm yourself.
Maybe distance produces beauty、Hehe。
That one. It's true. Calm down.
Not again. It's also good to love yourself a little more.
Material things in a woman, if you love that man very much, you won't care much.
But women. Everybody knows that.
Even if the man doesn't show anything. Talk about it.
The woman's heart is still warm.
I don't know if it's time for you to break up.
Or both sides are calm and calm.
Before calming down, the two of them sit together and have a good talk.
Say what you think.
Words of bad attitude on his part. I don't know how to say it.
Seriously. It's better not to have a bad temper man.
He really cares about you.
He'll care a lot about your conversation, too.
It will also give both sides enough time to calm down.
Then let's talk about it again.
Actually, it's good to quarrel sometimes.
Not arguing will eventually erupt.
Hehe. After all, not everyone is happy with the other.
Calm down. Let's talk about it
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Before you want to break up, ask yourself these questions and you'll know the answers.
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Let's break up.
Couples who have not quarreled are not worthy of being envied by others.
There is no sweetness after a quarrel.
Everything is silent.
It's like the Dead Sea.
The feeling is suffocating and depressing.
You can't live a lifetime.
I know you like that boy so much.
I had the same experience.
It's not that I can't live without him.
Let's go live in a world without him.
Three hundred. It's not a big number for people these days.
Why can't you give it to your girlfriend?
Even if you're tight on money right now, you should show your sincerity.
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To be honest, it doesn't make much sense to break up, first of all, there is a difference in age, and there is naturally a generation gap in communication, and secondly, through your words, I can clearly see that this man's psychology is just to use you as a tool to vent his desires! If you keep going like this, even if you're married, how long do you think you'll last?
It's painful to be separated now, but I'm sure time will fade everything When you think about it so much later, you even laugh at how you wasted your life and met such a disgusting man! Just let time dilute everything!!
Divide it for yourself and be decisive!!
Support you, are you worried that you can't find a better one?? The streets are full of I tell you! I'm also 21, I haven't even found a girlfriend yet!! Hehe, I want to find it every day, haha!! lz has to be decisive!! Powder Bar!!
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It's up to you to decide whether to divide or not, your personality is developed by family and experience, your boyfriend is too ordinary and a very rigid person, at this time you just want to be the one who enlightens and guides him, not the person who protects you everywhere, if you want to be loved all the time, you can only keep changing your boyfriend, or find a man who only loves once in your life. In fact, many times as long as one of the two parties takes a soft thing first, talk about it, language is the best balancer, but also choose the right time, it is best to say it when you have a good relationship.
Hehe must break up, I think you shouldn't like him either, you just think he's good to you, so you will stay by his side, you are compassionate, but you won't be happy if you marry him.
After reading your narrative.
Agree with your brother's advice to you, you don't need to spend too much energy on love when you are studying, you don't know how young you are now, how much glory your future is waiting for you to create, just bury yourself in this love with no prospects, do you know how worthless it is? You'll meet better boys in the future, and you'll have more opportunities to enjoy love. >>>More
If the two parties really love each other, then everything in the past is not a problem, as long as they love each other, there is no problem that cannot be solved.
The premise is that you are starting from scratch If two people start from scratch together, business is not so easy to do, and you have to bear the emotional and economic risks! If he already has a store, you only need to bear the emotional risk After studying, the major may be useless, but now which job is not a college degree or above... Think it through yourself and wish you happiness.
First of all, I bet with you, your company can't do it, and even if it does, it's messy and informal, because your boss's thinking is workshop-style thinking, and there is no company philosophy. And the idea that your boss instilled in you is terrible, especially if you have just graduated, such thinking is very bad for your future development, if it is me, I will leave in a day, because the environment you are in is suffocating. >>>More