As your best friend, what are you measuring up against?

As my best friend: 1Sincerity :

That is, it is not to use others as tools that can be used, and when they are used, they are easy to use, and when they are not used, they ignore or forget their friends. This is the premise! 2.

Of course, it's my friend, he should care about me and tolerate me, of course it's mutual! Friends should run in with each other and work hard and be patient, not only love! Friendship should be like this, so that it lasts!

People who are sincere, sincere, true, reliable, kind, and treat each other as confidants.

Understand me, trust me, tolerate me, don't have to ask him what he can do to me, and don't have to let him take the initiative to do to me, I just need to be honest and real.

Relative to sincerity, knowing me, understanding me, of course, and her can have a heart and a soul, that is the best

One look can tell what the other person is thinking and what they want to say

It's okay to be good to me, the most important thing for friends is to be sincere, and the more communication between each other, the more understanding you have.

Wholehearted! It's good to know that you can't make a few true friends in your life.

You are willing to share with him all the happy and unhappy, and so is he.

The person who can reach out and help you when you are in trouble is a true friend.

Knowing when I want to be alone, knowing that when I feel frustrated, I don't ask why, just sit quietly next to me and be with me.

Someone who can reach out to you when you're in trouble.

Not only can we share joy, but also share sorrow!

Face is adversity to see the truth, reality, right? ｜

Credit, I also know a lot of friends, and there are not many people who are completely trustworthy. Now the pace of life is too fast, everyone seems to be too busy, sometimes it is clear that 10 will come over and wait until 11 o'clock, I am the person who has decided to go in advance, and it is easy to have emotions in the process of waiting, so I pay special attention to credit.

On the other hand, I had a close relationship with a friend who knew more than two people last year, and he was in trouble and needed money, so I took a vacation and called him. But now two years have passed, and the money and people are empty. I value money more, but I like to talk to him, and it really made me sad for a long time to make such a fuss.

If a person has no trust, he will not stand, and a person without credit is destined to be unable to be a friend.

I once heard such a love story where a certain girl Xiao A met a man Xiao B. Xiao A's impression of him is average, not very good, I just remember that at the end the boy said "I'll give you a ** at 7 o'clock". Time flies quickly, it was more than 6:50 in a flash, and Xiao A didn't think much about it, anyway, the boy's impression on him was average.

But as the sound of ** news sounded, Xiao A's mobile phone also rang on time. Xiao A suddenly found it interesting: "I didn't expect you to be quite punctual!" "Little A's heartfelt compliment.

Every time I make an invitation, **, or a date after that, Xiao B will pinch this point and come as promised. Little A will also wait slowly a few minutes before this time, like waiting for a shooting star to pass by. The two finally got together, and Xiao A said, "Such a punctual and trustworthy man makes me feel very secure and interesting."

When the CCTV reporter interviewed Wang Jianlin, he was a few minutes late for some reason, and Wang Jianlin directly refused the interview. Some people say that Wang Jianlin is too stingy, but I think this is his way of doing business, every businessman has his own motto, but credit is the law that all businessmen must follow. Of course, so do friends!

Make friends, be a man, the most important thing is to be happy, haha, don't talk about it, let's talk about what quality is most important, I think, the most important thing is kindness! Some people say honesty, some people say confidence, and some people say it's optimism, but the most important thing for me is really kindness, I hope he can have a transparent heart like me, ga, I'm boasting again, I'm sorry, ha

In fact, people sometimes subconsciously tell some lies, for example, if you go to someone else's house, and someone else's house is eating, they will ask you if you have eaten? If you are not too embarrassed to eat at someone else's house, then you will subconsciously say, I have eaten, but you may not have eaten, did he lie? If so, then you won't befriend this person because he told this lie?

Will you? My answer is no. Because sometimes even I may subconsciously lie, what can I do, I am also helpless!

Right! Come on, let's talk about the kindness that I think is more important, I don't think a kind person will do particularly bad things, she may sometimes do bad things with good intentions, but her original intention is good, a person has a kind heart, will be good to the people around him, I think people like me who have a slight delusion of victimization, kindness is really more important than other qualities, because at least, she will not hurt me, forgive me for my careful thoughts. A kind person will bring more beauty to this world!

I like him so much, I admire him so much, I feel that he always has that invisible quality that attracts me, attracts me. Hahaha, what is that quality that attracts you to make friends with others?

In my eyes, the first is truth, which is both heart, heart and sincerity. If his heart is completely inconsistent with his words and deeds, then how can I enter his little world, communicate with him heart-to-heart, and shorten the distance between us, which will only make me feel particularly fake, make me feel too fake to be in contact. If a sincere person appears in front of me, I will definitely find his heart, and then I am willing to treat each other with sincerity In fact, honesty is the foundation of life, but it is also the foundation of the industry.

The second one should be kind-hearted. This always makes me feel that he is pure-hearted, innocent, gentle, and kind. At the beginning of man, nature is good.

This world is beautiful, but with the company of kind people, you can always feel warm and warm, surrounded by warmth all the time, and every day is happy. A psychological aesthetic atmosphere will affect the people around them, because kind people will always affect the people around them, and slowly become kind and selfless, that is, they have risen to another level, and that feeling is particularly wonderful.

The third is probably positive, always gives me a sense of upwardness, with the company of this kind of friend makes me feel that the future is bright, even if it is not afraid of failure, even failure can make me feel that it is hope, never worry about being worried about inferiority complex and lack of confidence. There is always someone who gives me hope in life, and there is always someone who helps me out when I am about to fall into the abyss.

It's because I met someone I liked, I felt good and fulfilled my life.

When I make friends, what I value most is.

Sincerity :

I think this is the foundation of being a friend, if you don't even have sincerity, what do you talk about being friends, you don't even need to know each other.

There is a very good saying, a friend is someone who is still willing to be friends with you after seeing you clearly. What is a friend, a friend is the one who can share the joy with you when you are happy, a friend is one who can listen to the pain in your heart when you are distressed and irritable, a friend is one who helps you without hesitation when you are in trouble, and a friend will not think that you have too much to do, and will not think that you are troublesome.

Everyone should have heard such a story, the little pig and the little bear are good friends, one day walking, the little bear fell into a big pit, and then let the little pig find a rope to save himself out, as a result, the little pig found a rope and threw the whole rope directly to the little bear in the pit, the little bear was very angry, the little pig was also helpless and asked the little bear what to do, the little bear told the little pig should grab the other end of the rope, the little pig did not hesitate to jump into the pit and grab one end of the rope.

What can you tell from this story? Not afraid of god-like opponents, but afraid of pig-like teammates? No, the little pig in this story is the one who can really be friends, he is a little stupid and stupid, but he is willing to do everything for his friends.

In this complex society, everyone lives not particularly real, fake crying, fake laughing, and need to wear a mask all the time, because they are afraid that others will see through their hearts. But when facing friends, there is no need at all, friends are used to rely on. Only sincerity can make the most true friends.

Be sincere, don't engage in any false friendship. For the kind of person who is just a verbal friend, it is simply disdainful, and the kind of person is the one who will stab you in the back.

What I need is positive friends. Being friends with a decadent person who has no enterprising heart makes it easy to be influenced by him and becomes unenterprising. And being friends with positive people can be full of positive energy. Working together and pushing each other is what friends do.

My criterion: I don't always judge others behind my back. A person who often speaks ill of others, and is friends with him, who knows when he will also say that you are not behind the back of others, add fuel to your words and deeds, and ruin your image in other people's hearts.

There is a saying that "knowing reason is not reasonable, knowing people does not judge people".

In my opinion, the most important thing in choosing friends is to be able to talk, and to make friends should be sincere, which is my basic principle. In a fast-paced, high-stress life, we become more and more impatient and less and quiet. We need friends, the kind of friends we don't make for business, we need friends who are genuinely relative.

There are many kinds of friends in the world, my standard: when it is difficult, it will help each other, not if it falls into the well, if it is blessed and enjoys the same difficulties, of course, this needs to be observed, and the hearts of the people will be seen over time; To be good, don't be like-minded, at least have a common topic, there is no common word, how to get along, sharing is also essential; Friends in general have certain common topics, and it can be said that there are a lot of mutually beneficial conditions, coupled with environmental factors, can help you solve certain troubles. ‍

In fact, in my mind, choosing friends is very simple. It's character, if a person's character is not good, no matter how good he is to you, it's useless. I knew a friend before, and when we first got along, I thought people were pretty good, and they were very good to me.

After knowing each other for more than a month, she began to ask me to borrow money, because she was quite rich herself, and I thought she just couldn't turn around. I didn't expect to borrow once and I couldn't stop, borrowing money again and again, the key is not to tell you the truth, and in the end, I went bankrupt and harmed my friends. Until now, I am still obsessed, I don't have any money, I don't think about how to make it, and I want to borrow a little money from ** every day.

Therefore, it is really important to deal with the character of friends, and ordinary friends should never talk about money (remember).

It seems that the older you get, the more you demand from your friends. I think the most important criterion for me is that we can think on the same page. It may seem like I'm doing it, but I'm really willing to be alone, and if we're not talking about the same problem and focusing on one place, you can get a very good experience of what it means to play the piano to a cow.

I'm so tired, I'm so tired, and sometimes I have to be kind and pleasant for the sake of face, or respect for each other, pretend to understand each other very well, and I agree with each other's views very much, wow, I want to be alone, watch a movie, or watch a variety show, I don't resent those who suddenly laugh when they watch variety shows, and they will be very happy when they get to that point. I just laughed out loud. Of course, you should also pay attention to the place, it is not an exaggeration to be called a fool by your parents at home, but when there are outsiders, or in a public place, it may not be appropriate. ‍‍

In my heart, the criterion for choosing friends is to know how to be kind, which is the most basic.

When you succeed, you can applaud you, and when you encounter difficulties, you can do your best to help you should be our criteria for choosing friends.

The criteria in my mind for choosing a friend is to be like-minded and have a good time with her.

I think friends should help each other in difficulty, no matter what happens, friends are willing to stick a knife in your ribs, when you are injured, they will look for you as soon as possible, and then don't say anything, accompany you. True friends will not hide their secrets from you, they are honest with each other, they will laugh when they are happy, and cry when they are unhappy, and help each other.

In my heart, I have a friend who applauds me when I succeed, encourages me when I fail, reminds me when I get carried away, makes me follow my heart when I hesitate, and pulls me when I fall off a cliff. If these requirements are too high and ideal, then I only hope that my friends must understand me, not 100 percent, one percent, just one sentence and one action.

There is no specific criterion for choosing a friend As long as it suits yourself and your temper There is no bad heart can be a friend This person does not have to have much ability Can be a warm-hearted person Although you usually don't need any help from friends, but if you can have a friend who can reach out to help you at any time when you need it It is also a good experience, there are many types of friends, there are those who can help with their efforts, and those who can help with ideas, and friends are not necessarily rich But there must be affection.