I don t know if it s normal for me to think like this

I just broke up and couldn't let go.,It's good to find another one It's not just one man in the world.。。。

It's okay. Go on a trip, or go home and cook a meal for your parents. Make it easy for yourself.

There are many men in the world, he is not suitable for you, and there are many suitable for you, you can always find your own. When it comes to sexual fantasies, it's normal, if you don't mean that you're not a normal person, you will, but it means that you're normal. Hehe.

Make your life happier, more relaxed. Walk more, see more, it will be fine. I wish you to find your love soon.

Normal psychology Even if you don't look at it, you have that kind of thought, and it's not normal if you don't want to, and young people are like this, and both men and women think about it, and it's normal.

The breakup just shows that he thinks you are not a good fit with him, and you can learn from it, then the next one will be better.

Falling in love should make people mature and make people know how to get along with the opposite sex, instead of being depraved like you are now, and the result of depravity will make you unable to accept yourself, and it will be more difficult for others to accept.

Now the most important thing you need to do is, please rely on, get out of the abyss of pain, you can live well without him, and losing you is his loss.

What thoughts, does it matter, you judge whether your ideas match your identity according to your identity. If you don't fit the identity, don't bother with your own thoughts.

1."I" thought she was not a scholar, and it was useless to say it. The reason why I think this way is because Ah Chang is illiterate, uneducated, and doesn't know what kind of book "The Classic of Mountains and Seas" is, not to mention that she has always seemed to be not good at caring about "me", so she will not understand "I" desire to get the "Classic of Mountains and Seas".

This shows that "I" have a sense of estrangement and even contempt for Ah Chang.

2."I seemed to have encountered a thunderbolt, and everyone was shocked", which made me have a new respect for what others would not or could not do, but she could succeed. Indeed, she has great divine power.

The resentment of murdering the hermit rat has since disappeared completely. It can be described as surprised and delighted, and grateful.

Your thinking is normal, I have also been in the bank office, your father is the director of the office, most of the people you face are leaders, the level of what you see and want to stand is naturally higher, and your professional habits have been unable to change for so many years. You are now married, if you don't like the way your parents communicate, then don't let your next generation bear what you experienced, what kind of atmosphere you like to let your family and children grow up in.

I can understand your feelings. You're observing, you're thinking, you're growing. Between parents and children, there is not only material support, macro guidance, but also sincere respect and love.

Some parents are accustomed to bringing home the style of the workplace, and I personally think it is inappropriate, after all, the more important thing at home is family affection, love and warmth. It's good that your parents can give some career advice, but there's no need to be on top of it because of this, and ask your children to be grateful to Dade. Maybe when you grow up and know more than your parents, they will respect your ideas.

Your dad is right. Although people cannot be divided into levels, there are levels of knowledge, culture, opinions, and experiences that people have. Elementary school teachers are absolutely condescending to the education of primary school students.

But in front of university professors, there is no such feeling. If you're a PhD graduate yourself, your dad probably won't be preaching in front of you. Either way, as long as your dad is right, you should accept it.

Your living environment is very. Superior, however. Your family's family conditions are very good.

Your parents never communicate with you, they just talk to you as adults. But you have not been in contact with ordinary people's families, but ordinary people's families are very warm and harmonious, and there is no problem. It was solved in the most common way.

You're glad you've found a good in-law. Got it, the happiness of the family. I hope you will have a happier life in the future.

I think this kind of thinking of yours is incorrect, because your father has knowledge, culture, and social experience, and his teaching to you is to make you like him in the future, or better than him, completely for your good, as you grow up and time goes by, you will realize that your father's teaching to you is completely correct, and you will fully understand him.

I think it's very good, even if you save money and get a degree, and then you are not very old, you can do a small business on your own, and you can work in a promising place, I think it is very feasible. You are a caring person, you can plan your future, I support you! Go for it, boy!

A bright future awaits you!

Your parents have big problems, and your husband is happy through what you meet. After all, you just jumped out of your fire pit and didn't jump into another fire pit. Now that you are married, you should have your own independent ideas.

They should no longer be puppets of their parents and live out their own values.

It's normal that your parents interfered too much in your life. And there's a lot less humanity in your family.

Be able to understand your feelings.

The family should be a warm harbor, work, study, life, etc. are uncomfortable and unhappy, and everything should disappear when you return home, but as you said [going to work is annoying, and going home has to face a "bigger leader"] This two-way high-pressure environment makes people have no chance to take a breath.

To err is human.

Who can not make mistakes, but simple preaching will make people feel depressed, and the family sits together in a different way, or jokes, or small talk, which is a good way to communicate, and can make the atmosphere at home happier and happier.

Also, it's nice to see that your in-laws can make you feel that way.

In your family, your father trained you as a bank clerk, not a daughter, and your mother taught you as a student, not a daughter, I think your husband's family is very good, family members are originally equal relations, regardless of whether the family has money or not, happiness is not only happiness when there is more money, the harbor of the soul of the family is warm. Some people have a high culture, that's just a few more words, not really a high culture, my country has a long cultural history, what is the goal of your struggle without a home? When you stand on the highest place in the world, and there is no family around you, then what is the point of struggle, so it is right to have a home and everything to prosper.

In my opinion, your thinking is incorrect, there are many rich people nowadays, and your family wealth is far worse than the middle class, so your thinking is not normal.

You can understand your feelings, you have your own ideas, but you have always been controlled by your parents and have no freedom of your own. But after so many years, there is no need to blame who is right and who is wrong, you now have your own family, you can manage your family well and turn him into the kind of warm and harmonious appearance you imagined.

Parents and children should establish a new type of family relationship, where everyone can speak freely, ** problems, exchange opinions and opinions.

By seeing your problems, you are a relatively good person, self-motivated, and should be good for future development.

First of all, don't try to negate your own ideas, and don't give others a chance to deny your own ideas. Because listening to our hearts and respecting our true thoughts is what we should do. When you follow your heart and see and feel the world, you may see it as it really is, and you may find that it is not perfect.

The world is still like this, let alone people. As long as you stick to your heart, move forward optimistically, and believe that everything will inevitably get better and better.

Because you have grown up in a depressive environment since you were a child, when you are married now, when you encounter the family atmosphere of your current husband, you feel that you can release your previous pressure and release your emotions. Since you can meet such a good husband and such a good in-law, you must also cherish this happiness.

Your parents are greatly affected by the environment, including speaking, doing things, etc., all of them communicate with you or others in accordance with rules and regulations, horizontal and vertical patterns, and do things. You are in two families with big contrasts, so you will have some understanding, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, but how can you better integrate into it.

It should be said that your father is too self-righteous, who would dislike his parents for not being able to be reasonable? Who would listen to their parents' career advice? Did you know that there is a word called dogmatism? Experimentalism?

What your family of origin lacks is respect for younger generations, and what it lacks is family affection.

Your dad is too bureaucratic.

Your father is right, the cultural level of your in-laws' family is too low, but their level of life is not low, at least their family atmosphere is relaxed, cordial, and respectful of each other.

Prov. 17:1 Let a house full of feasts and everyone fight against each other, and it would be better for them to have a piece of dry bread and be at peace with each other. You are very blessed, your original family gave you a good upbringing, and your current family has given you warmth.

When you grow up, you have your own opinions, thinking, this is a good thing, your thoughts are also normal, every family has happy scriptures, and there are also difficult scriptures.

Normal, because you haven't met someone who will allow you to change the pace of your life right now. Don't worry, as long as you don't have zero communication with the world, fate will always come, of course, you have to take the initiative to find that person.

I always feel that it is better to follow your inner feelings in everything about your feelings. You can also refer to the opinions of your parents, but as an adult, you should already have your own analysis and thinking, so as long as you think that you will live a happy life, you can like it.

There should be a big gap between your husband's family and your family, but the fact that you can get married proves that your husband is also very good. In this way, although your husband's family conditions are not as good as yours, the family atmosphere should be stronger than yours. His parents should be pretty good, too.

Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation.

Seed. Luck for lovers.

Fu strives to build.

One. A piece of the sky, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a kind of dependence and kindness to each other. Journey. A.

Heart. Move (think. Read.

Time. Heartbeat (phase. See time).

The feeling of heartache (when parting and hurting).

Love someone, to.

Understand and explain, apologize and thank, and admit mistakes.

It also needs to be changed. Wrong, to be considerate and considerate, to accept rather than endure, is to be tolerant.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

the world. on, each.

Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

No one can understand when you are lonely, and no one will comfort ,...... when you are sadOf course, it depends on whether you are willing to share your loneliness and your sadness with others. Maybe this state of helplessness that you have been feeling is only temporary, and maybe you can get rid of it completely with just a little opportunity. Many times we need someone to talk to ...... we feel comfortable talking toNot for anything else, just let it listen.

But most of the time people don't want to share their loneliness and sadness with others, but no matter what, they still have to find a life intersection for themselves in life, and when they feel cornered, this intersection can help them live in another new world. And most importantly, what are your options? So don't worry that no one knows what you think, it's because you haven't chosen a path for yourself yet!