I don t know how to solve something in my heart! I ve been crying all morning, and I m so sad

I feel that the problem is still with your husband, find a time when he is tired of playing and talk to her about your difficulties, if he is a man who stands up to the sky, he will understand you, but pay attention to the way of communication, he will be annoyed to talk to him when he plays.

I think his current mentality may need to be adjusted, a little self-defeating, because I have also gone through a similar stage, to help him build up confidence, to believe in him, to support him, no man will admit defeat, they will have arrogance in front of their own women, when talking, first recall with him the ups and downs you went through, how you came over at that time, and then slowly introduce the topic, maybe he will reflect, but I think he will think clearly when he calms down. At the same time, it is more appropriate to communicate with your mother, if you have something to say, and then you as a husband and wife.

The above are just some ideas from personal experience, you can try it, maybe it will be rewarding.

The root of these problems lies in the lack of money.

So the solution to the problem is that you hurry up and get a job now to make money.

Then persuade your mom not to be angry with your husband.

Ease their relationship.

Find a job, even if it starts with a low income, don't be idle at home and let people support you.

My husband plays games to relax, and the second is to avoid the embarrassment of staying with his unfamiliar mother-in-law, who puts too much pressure on him, which is his evasive behavior. Don't interfere with him anymore, give him a little space for himself. If your mother is picky, you should persuade your mother more.

Strive for financial independence as soon as possible and live separately from your mother. There is no contradiction at all.

It's annoying! It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

In fact, the elderly should not care too much about the affairs of the next generation.

If you get a good job, your economic conditions may improve.

It's okay for your husband to play games, but don't overdo it.

Time can be limited.

Wishing happiness !!

Sympathize with your plight! In fact, it's good to look at everything, both of you have to change, you also said that he is very busy at work and plays games in order to relax, but it's not right to play like this, because it should be moderate! You'd better do it first, and we'll make a difference!

It's all about communication!

Finding a job as soon as possible solves the problem.

As the saying goes: poor couples mourn everything.

Get a job early.

Good recommendations for the 1st floor! I agree.

It is advisable for you to look for a job, and perhaps the job will relieve the pressure that either of you puts on you.