Why do adults give birth to children and divorce them, making children miserable

It's all money that causes trouble, and some people are like this, they can even ignore family affection for money.

I feel that the woman is not a good bird, and her own flesh and blood are like this, and this alone is very disgusting! This is also the reason why the child does not follow her.

Tell your sister to be strong! It's better to live on your own feet!

I grew up in my grandmother's house, what is my dad like? I haven't seen him since I was born, and he abandoned me and my mother!

But I'm living a good life now!

I told myself that when I had a family in the future, I wouldn't be as irresponsible as my father!

My sister should be self-reliant, not dependent on her parents. How long you have the ability, and when you have money, they still want to slap you.

This is the legendary evil, the emotional impulse and the unending desire of people make there too many tragedies in the world.

Why are my own flesh and blood so ruthless, what a sin?

I don't like to bend and sell. Divorce means the end of a phase. If it solves some problems, it will only put an end to the problems of the marriage stage, but at the same time, the problems they encounter in the new stage are not necessarily simpler than the problems they encounter in the marriage.

Unless you have a strong father, Suspicion will not help you solve your current problems. All that's left is to adjust your attitude. Your parents-in-law, husband, children, finances, relationships, work, and other aspects are unlikely to be in harmony with your heart.

Bring something you are not at home as you wish.

When you come home from work (including dinner), text your phone and call secrets**. All kinds of people don't like my postpartum ** is worse, and my figure is not good. Parents use their savings to ** our lives (buying vegetables, cooking, doing laundry, cleaning children) and my family is all at home.

That way, when the child is born, I'm still thinking about giving him one last chance. Then he hit ** and said he was busy. I hung up the ** and unplugged the black.

20 minutes after the birth of the child, I contacted my lawyer directly.

After the divorce, I was silent, I worked silently, I ** and remained silent. 130 pounds before the divorce, 95 pounds now, and I'm still trying to lose another 5 pounds. Come on, sisters, the world is gentle when I'm **.

I don't feel so inferior anymore! After getting married, she immediately understood that the money she earned could not be spent by men. One is pregnant and has a child of three years.

Without a normal income, men cannot provide for their families. Women have big bellies and have to earn money for men.

Even if you've just had a baby, you still feel that your current marriage doesn't match your psychological expectations. Therefore, I will not succeed. I will get a divorce as soon as possible, secret**.

All kinds of people don't like it, but my children and I are very young, and the psychological balance caused by the income inequality of the elderly on both sides, the difference in parenting concepts, and the double pressure of having children and working all appear after giving birth, so you will find that the child buries the child and goes to kindergarten after birth.

As for the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but not only on the basis of financial status. However, the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman to be raised, and if it is not breastfeeding, it is necessary to see which party is more suitable for the child's growth and seek the child's own opinion. If one party is not suitable to raise the child during the future maintenance period, the other party can go to court to file a new lawsuit to change the custody of the child.

1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers. If the mother has any of the following circumstances, she may live with the father:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them.

2) The father has not fulfilled the obligation to support the child if he has the conditions to support him, and the father requires the child to live with him.

3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons.

2. Where both parents agree that a child under two weeks old will live with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

3. For children over the age of two years, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one of the parties may be given priority if they have any of the following circumstances.

1) Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons.

2) The children have lived with them for a long time, and changing the living environment is obviously not conducive to the healthy growth of the children.

3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children.

4) The child lives with him/her, which is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child.

4. The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild or grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

5. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 10 over that a minor child over the age of 10 should live with his or her father, the child's opinion shall be taken into account.

6. On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the children, where both parents agree to take turns raising the children, it may be permitted.

What should I do if I get divorced and have a child? It is important to know that divorce is not allowed during pregnancy. If you are pregnant.

The situation was concealed, so much so that the civil affairs department granted the divorce. This is deception**. The divorce certificate should be invalid.

Suppose, I don't know if I'm pregnant, and I find out when I'm divorced. You should go to the civil affairs department to explain the situation. The civil affairs department, if it is confirmed that the pregnancy is before the divorce, shall declare the divorce certificate invalid.

What if you can't prove that the child was conceived before the divorce, or can you not admit that it was his child? You'll also have to do a paternity test. Then there may be legal proceedings.

If the man is unwilling to do a paternity test. The only way to do that is to ask the court to decide.

If the divorced husband and wife negotiate maintenance, if they cannot negotiate a settlement, they can go to the court to sue for divorce. Courts generally determine the custody relationship from the perspective of being conducive to the child's development.

A judgment may be made for maintenance by one party, with the other party paying maintenance and regular visits;

Both parties can negotiate and support together, and give love that is not missing;

In short, it is conducive to the growth and life of children.

Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that the relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

What to do? I think if you really love this child, oh, not a special case or really. Don't divorce without special circumstances, in fact, divorce is actually very harmful to the child, and then what if the child is really divorced, do you like him, do you love him, do you love this child, if you love the person, then you will have to raise the child yourself, if you don't say that you have too much affection for this child, then I don't think it's necessary, let him be by your side.

If he and your other half love this child more, then you can go to that. You can go to that. Let him go to Fuyang this child.

In a divorce, children should be raised directly by one of the parties. Generally, children under the age of 2 are directly raised by their mothers; Children who have reached the age of 2 can agree on custody, but if the agreement fails, the court will make a judgment; Those over the age of 8 should respect their true wishes.

The parties may negotiate and sign a divorce agreement stipulating that one party will raise the children, and the other party will pay the child support, amount and payment method, or agree that the two parties will take turns to raise the children;

If the negotiation fails, one party sues, and the court mediates or makes a judgment according to the conditions of support for both parties;

If both parties perform according to the divorce agreement or the court's mediation agreement or judgment, and one party fails to perform its obligations, the other party may apply to the court for compulsory enforcement.

See Article 48 of the Marriage Law: The people's courts shall enforce judgments or rulings on alimony, child support, alimony, property division, inheritance, or child visits. Relevant individuals and units shall be responsible for assisting in implementation.

In the case of divorce, as long as the children born are with their ex-husband or ex-wife, all the children, then the ex-husband or ex-wife should also bear the obligation to support the children and bear the child support.

If the child born after the divorce is still the child of the husband and wife, then of course, the husband and wife should fulfill their obligations, the child temporarily lives with the mother, and the father wants to give you child support, and when the child grows up, let the child choose who to live with.

Divorced and had children, then keep it! The key point is that this is your child with whom. If it's your ex-husband's, didn't you know you were pregnant when you divorced? If your ex-husband tells him, raise him together.

It can be agreed that one person will raise the child and the other person will pay the child support, and the child is innocent and has to be jointly liable.

After divorce, if the child is raised by both parties, the other party must pay the relevant expenses, otherwise he can take out the legal ** to defend his rights.

Who is the parent who is responsible for the support of the child after birth, this has nothing to do with whether you divorce or not, if the other party has doubts about the child's bloodline, you can do a paternity test, if the other party does not admit it, you can go through the procedure to solve, your divorce only means the end of your relationship, and the blood relationship is continuous!

Although this is divorced, the child belongs to both parents, and as parents, both parties have the obligation to give the child the best growth, so as parents, they should do their duty, one party can raise the child, and the other party can give child support.

They become very insecure, have no self-confidence, don't like to be around others, like to be alone, don't like to talk to people, etc.

The child's pain is not understood by the parents, and the parents' world is also very difficult, but they give up the child in order to dislike their own interests, which will affect the child's life.

After the parents divorced, the children were the most innocent, the family that was originally maintained by marriage and hunger was scattered, the children were homeless, and no one was in pain to return to love, and the heart would be extremely painful.

I can tease Yu Lishan to relieve your pain, it's not your fault. But don't be inferior to yourself because of this. The environment of life is something you can't choose, and the attitude chain of life is something you can choose. Live well!

Depending on the financial conditions, the children can also be visited after the divorce.

Whether or not to divorce depends on the couple.

Children are common, to see whose economic stability belongs to whom.

1. If both parties agree to divorce, they can register the divorce with the civil affairs department where one party's household registration is located with their ID card, household registration booklet, divorce agreement and other relevant materials.

2. If the other party does not agree to the divorce, he can go to the people's court to sue for divorce. If there are no circumstances provided for in Article 32 of the Marriage Law, the divorce will not be granted in the first instance under normal circumstances. However, the law stipulates the freedom of marriage, marriage, and divorce, and if you want to completely dissolve the relationship between husband and wife, you can sue for divorce again after the first-instance judgment takes effect, and you can generally grant divorce.

3. "A hundred years of repairing the same boat", it is fate to be together, and if you have a child, think twice.

Divorce by agreement, just negotiate the custody of the child.

There are two types of divorce. One is divorce by mutual agreement, which is the consent of both parties. There is also the option of suing for divorce. The first option is recommended.

Do you want to leave after giving birth? How old is the child?