How do you know that you are important to others?

If you want to know where you are in someone's heart, you can tell by how he behaves and behaves when he is with you. This is a reason that a person is very important in our hearts, when you feel that this person is very important to you, you must be comfortable and happy with him, in the same way, when you are very important in the hearts of others, he will pay attention to the details of your life, and your words and deeds will be in his eyes, which will make you very comfortable when getting along and communicating, because he values you and will communicate with you attentively.

When you are lost and unhappy, you can also see how important you are in the hearts of others. The person who cares about you can see your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and even if he doesn't say it, he can detect it through some of your small details, and even know your mood just by feeling; On the contrary, if a person does not pay attention to you, then he will not really care about you, even if he greets you, it is only a few words of greeting, and he is not distracted. At this time, you will be able to see how important you are in the hearts of others.

Of course, when you encounter difficulties, it is the best time to see whether the people around you are sincere to you or not. Most people are utilitarian, when he feels that you have no interests by his side, then you will be given up or even abandoned, and only true friends will be by your side, because you are very important in his heart, indispensable. Especially in today's era when everyone wears a mask, most people only have their own hearts, which shows the importance of true friends, and of course, it is easy to see whether you are important in the hearts of others.

Originally, I thought that you were very important in a person's heart, and it can be seen from his performance. He will think about asking you if you have eaten every day, if you haven't eaten, he will bring it to you, he will pay attention to what you like to eat, he will find out his heart to surprise you on your birthday, he will let you walk on the side without cars when crossing the street, and he will remind you not to stay up late at night.

Later, I found out that not only that, many boys can do what I said above, this is no longer a standard to see if you are important in his heart, but has become a routine that every boy will tease his sister, I have also met boys who treat me like above, I think I am the most important in his heart, and then I found out that this is not the case, he can care about such a girl at the same time.

I'll admit that maybe it's because I'm so lacking in love, so I've magnified it many times at the slightest bit of goodness, but I think most of the girls are probably like me. Lack of security, don't know how to see a person clearly, and always be deceived for some reason. I've summarized some of the methods that I think are okay in my few emotional experiences, and I hope you can gain something.

1. Of course, the part of external performance is indispensable, if a man doesn't even know your favorite food, your favorite, there is no need to further investigate whether you are important in his heart, he won't even pay attention to you, and of course there is no place for you in his heart. <>

Second, after some external performance parts have passed, observe his eyes, all say that the eyes are the window of the soul, I have always believed in this sentence, when he thinks you are important, he looks at you differently from others, Weibo has always said "like a person, even if you cover your mouth, like will run out of the eyes". I firmly believe in it.

Third, he won't care about his face in front of you, when a person really thinks you are important, he will abandon those so-called machismo, he will pick up your ** as soon as possible during the game, afraid that you will be worried, so drink very little alcohol outside, and will not force you to eat egg fried rice with green onions that you don't like to eat when friends have dinner for the sake of face.

Fourth, he will pay more attention to you than to himself. He saw that you were wearing very little and hurriedly put your hands into his clothes to keep warm, but he forgot that his own hands were also cold, he began to think about the two of you, and then seriously discussed with you how to arrange the house in the future, and put your opinion first, he put away all his bad temper, and then became your follower. <>

Of course, that's just my opinion, and if there's a guy who can do that for me, I really feel like I'm already important to him. The truth in the world is hard to find, a lot of it is random improvisation, if you really see you as a very important person, please be sure to cherish it.

I think it can be seen from his daily work and life, if he can think of you in everything he does, it means that he cares about you very much.

The bits and pieces of life are plotted, thoughtful care, loving eyes, and gentle persuasion.

Someone asked me: Teacher, how do you judge whether you are important in the hearts of others?

If a person values a relationship with another person:

will remember what the other person has said, understand and remember the other person's likes and dislikes;

will not do the things that the other party hates next to the clump and take care of the other person's feelings;

will appreciate each other's strengths, remember each other's career scope and help promote and promote them;

will not expose the other party's shortcomings, and will avoid and protect the other party's taboo topics and privacy;

When encountering differences, they will take the initiative to look at the problem from the other party's point of view, and even help the other party explain;

In case of misunderstanding, they will take the initiative to explain and clarify, clarify the cause of the problem, and express their true thoughts and attitudes;

Take the initiative to provide resources and help when the other party is in difficulty, and will pay attention, wait, and accompany the most powerless;

will know what the red line between each other is and consciously abide by it;

Will take the initiative to contact, communicate, create meeting opportunities, and be regular;

will give gifts in pairs, will also ask each other for help, and will also make appointments for meals and plays;

Will be willing to open their resources to each other, share their own experiences, experiences, ideas, and promote understanding;

They will explain their whereabouts and return dates to the other party.

If a person is never curious about you, never takes the initiative to greet you, never wants to help you, can't remember any of your characteristics and always knows what your red line is, and keeps crossing it, there is no special reason, just because you are not important to him at all.

Therefore, whether a person cares about you or not, this kind of emotion really can't be pretended.

Friendship is like this, love is like this, the workplace is like this, and family is like this.

The relationship between people, in fact, is the manifestation of the subconscious, and all the explanations that need logic are just because they don't care enough.

Written at the back: We will meet many people in this world, and it is impossible for everyone to be important in your heart, and you cannot be important in everyone's heart. Many people look back on their lives, and there are only a handful of people who are truly meaningful to them.

So, you really don't need to worry too much about other people's attitudes towards you, but you have to manage yourself, when you become excellent and influential, you will naturally become that important person, and naturally someone will see you as important.

Those who don't value you will also end up becoming unimportant in your life as well.

You can give yourself a hint that if you want others to understand you, you need to open your mouth and be honest.

Sometimes I want others to understand my thoughts and be understood.

Although I would have felt this way, I didn't allow myself to open my mouth and discuss it with others. In the past, I may have had the idea of letting others guess their thoughts based on their intuition and feelings, and I felt that I would have been deeply involved in it before, but I didn't realize it, but I still wanted others to know everything.

It's a kind of selfish idea when you think about it now, and you never open your mouth, and you really want others to know, which in itself is quite contradictory.

If you keep thinking about it, you can't help but know, but this idea is definitely not good, and it will make you suspicious, and you may think, "Didn't he already know?" Why hasn't there been action yet, could it be deliberate", 0 That's it, maybe it's a bit exaggerated.

However, it is not unfortunate to have these thoughts, which may be caused by the previous environment, and it may be that I want to continue the idea that "I can be understood without speaking".

But now the development of things is becoming more and more complicated, how to express reasonably, how to tell others, it is particularly important, the reason why we are not good at communication, is that we do not know how reasonable communication is, but communication is to learn, I also hope that I can make progress in this area.

That's all for end, and I'll continue to update new ideas if I have them.

It depends on what kind of situation, if you do something immoral, then the eyes of others say about your character. If it's something you think is right, your future or the health of others, stick to your own ideas.

It doesn't matter, as long as you have a clear conscience, don't care about other people's opinions. The most important thing is to be yourself.

It doesn't matter, but other people's opinions can let you know your shortcomings and correct them to become a better version of yourself.

It's not that important, everyone is an individual, live their own life, and don't have to care too much about other people's eyes.

Look at yourself, it's important to care, it doesn't matter if you don't care.

I don't think it's important, go your own way and let others say go.

It doesn't matter if you care, and it doesn't matter if you don't.

Does it really matter what others think of you? Really good people don't care what others think.

There is a simple way: when a person likes another person, the frequency of looking at the other person will be very high, of course, it may be short, but the eyes will involuntarily look at the other person.

A few days do not show up, and see how he reacts.

If a person really cares about you, then he will be desperate to know all about you! He will give you meticulous care, if you are sad, he will make you happy, if you are sad, he will help you with tears, if you are happy, he will be happier than you! This kind of care is manifested!

There is another kind that is not expressed, and that kind is silent care! As long as you are careful, you will find out, oh, it turns out that there is a person behind me who cares about me, this kind of person, who will not blatantly say the encouragement and care that you have. But this is the kind of person who really cares about you!