What moment did you feel like a person was not worth being friends with?

<>1.Lying to a friend.

I think the most important thing between friends is sincerity and trust. The people I hate the most are people who lie to their friends, such people I don't think are worth deep friendship, and I think good friends are the kind of people who talk about everything together. Especially for girls, girls are more sensitive, when you lie to your friends, you must consider whether you have to bear the bitter consequences of your lies.

Before, my friend lied to me, and I knew she lied to me, and she kept emphasizing his lies, and I felt that I wouldn't be so angry if she confessed to herself, telling the truth. However, I don't understand and don't want to understand this deception.

2.Do things exaggerated and grandstanding.

The type of person I particularly hate is this kind of person, both male and female, I find this kind of person particularly annoying. If a person has real talent and real learning, then he is a little exaggerated, and we can also say that he is confident, but if a person only knows how to talk about things all day long, and he can't see any ability at all, he will interject in whatever others say, and he will be quick to speak. This kind of person seems to be very powerful, very funny and humorous.

But in fact, this kind of person is like a clown, others look at him and think he is stupid and laugh at him. He thought people liked him. Such people are not worthy of being friends at all.

3.Don't help a friend when they're in trouble.

I don't think this kind of person can be called a friend. Rats leave a sinking ship. Generally speaking, this kind of person is just a friend of wine and meat, they will not help you when you are in trouble, and they are likely to stab your friend twice.

This is certainly not.

Although I agree that temperament is an important factor in being a good friend and a companion. In elementary school and junior high school, my main task is to play in addition to studying, so I have a lot of friends, and these friends are really good to me, and I am also very good to them, and we all have common topics.

But after high school, there are a lot fewer friends, and you can really count them on one finger. I was very eager to improve my abilities in high school, especially in college, but the people around me were not like me, and they even laughed at me.

At first, I would make some friends, but later I found that they were different from me in many ways, and their lives were on different trajectories. For example, when they talk about games and food, I may be obsessed with reading between the lines and savoring the beauty of English.

I also agree that when you focus on one aspect, you neglect or reduce your investment in others. You can compromise, but you won't feel comfortable. I had a lot of roommates in the dorm (he claimed to be a good friend and I usually knew him) and was friendly, but when I saw that he had to deal with all kinds of messages from his friends almost every day, I wondered, do I have the energy to do these things?

At the same time, my own standards for my friends are a little higher. I usually see friends in other people's circles going to drink and eat from time to time, but the topic of communication is all kinds of gossip, although I am not there, but when there is a call, it will also become their conversation during or after the meal, and after the meal, I know that I am respectful through other ways, and I feel very uncomfortable.

I'm willing to listen to other people's stories, but I know that telling another person's things in front of others, especially when it's embarrassing, is a thing that is not qualified, and it's easy to lose my mouth and provoke villains (refer to Master Bi).

A person has no friends, not necessarily because he has some fatal flaws, but also because he has special requirements for friends, and no one around him meets them. If it's the latter, you are lucky enough to be his friend, which means that the two of you are destined and he will cherish you.

Not necessarily, maybe the other party doesn't like to be friends with others and enjoys loneliness, which is up to you to judge.

No, there is an old Chinese saying: the high is the low. Some people have no friends because they are too good, while some people have many friends because they are too vulgar.

Not necessarily, sometimes a person is isolated, and the problem is with the person isolating the ta, not the tata themselves. This cannot be taken as an absolute standard.

It's not that it's not worth it.

The number of friends of a person does not mean that the person is worthy of deep friendship, he may be more introverted and does not understand the communication.

Not necessarily, a person who has no friends may just not know how to get along with others, or is more introverted and lacks initiative, which does not mean that his character is not worth making friends with.

If a person doesn't have many friends, it's not that it's not worth being friends with him, he may just be more introverted, you can try to communicate with him and slowly become friends with him.

No, whether a person is worth being friends or not does not depend on the number of friends, but on the compatibility between you and them in all aspects.

No, as long as you feel that your personality is suitable, you can be friends.

It depends on the environment he is in, if he is surrounded by very bad people, and he disdains to make friends with them, it means that his character is still very good.

No, the better the person, the fewer friends, and the person standing at the top of the pyramid has fewer friends, so if a person has fewer friends, he may also be excellent.

When a person doesn't have any friends, it sounds scary. I feel that in this society, if there is not even a friend, then this person's heart may be very lonely and even very dark. In this interconnected society.

It's still strange to not have friends, whether it's your classmates, your co-workers, or even the waiters in the restaurant where you often go to eat, as long as you want to make friends with them, there will be a place for friendship.

Of course, friends can also be divided into many kinds, there are friends with average feelings, there are friends who come together because of interests, there are small friends, there are girlfriends, and there are friends with special relationships. In the eyes of more realistic people, if there is no interest relationship, they generally will not easily make friends with each other, who can bear to blindly pay but ask for nothing? In fact, this kind of thinking cannot be said to be wrong, but it is too realistic and snobbish.

However, when you laugh at others for doing this very deep and too realistic, others may have made their fortunes on these relationships that you are ashamed of. So, fundamentally, this person who complains and despises others for being tactful is not good at all in terms of his own social skills, because in today's society, it is difficult for a person to gain a foothold in society without friends. There are friends everywhere, and it is difficult to move an inch without friends, this is the truth.

Returning to this topic, if a person really doesn't have any friends, then there must be something wrong with that person's approach and attitude. Reluctance to go out and become friends with others can only indicate that there is something wrong with one's mentality, and one likes to rest on one's laurels and is unwilling to contact the outside world.

How important are friends? Friends can confide in each other when you are sad; Friends can heal you when you are sad; Friends can cheer you on when you encounter setbacks; Of course, friends can also share your joy with you when you are successful. It's hard to imagine what life is like without friends, but it's certainly not going to be easy.

Of course not.

Whether you have friends or not, how many friends you have, you don't count, only he himself has the final say.

You know that a person is always just one side, maybe you see him has no friends, but in fact he may have a lot of friends, but there are very few social activities.

No one's character is perfect, everyone has more or less different childhood experiences, and it is always inappropriate to label others because they don't understand their past.

A lonely person is not necessarily flawed. A flawed person is not necessarily unworthy.

The point is whether he can provide the things you get from him (knowledge, experience, emotional sustenance).

A variety of characters is indeed difficult to keep up with the public at all times. However, didn't Confucius also say that gentlemen are harmonious but different?

No. Although some people don't have any friends, it's not because they're not good, it's just that they're not good at expressing themselves, and you will find out that they deserve to be friends after getting along with them for a long time.

No, some people are naturally suitable for solitude, they don't like crowded environments, and naturally they don't have any friends, such people are worthy of deep friendship.

No, it may be that others really can't get along with this person, it doesn't mean that you can't get along with this person, and you can't use this to measure whether a person is worth it.

No, some people don't have any friends because their level is too high, and there are no people around who can speak.

Actually, it's not right to think like this, maybe that person is a treasure friend.

It depends on whether the other party's three views are suitable for oneself, and if it is not suitable, it is not worth it.

No, whether or not it is worth being friends cannot be measured by this only criterion.

No, maybe this person prefers a person to have a good quality solitude.

No, some people don't have many friends, but they are very good people.

No, then you can be her first friend, and then she will be the one who has friends.

I hate it when others raise their voices to talk to me, although I have already understood this person, I don't have much ability, but my temper is very big, and it is better to have less contact in the future. Although I've heard her yell at some people, but I still can't stand this, obviously others talk to you well, you still have to use yelling, I know a truth: a person's temper should not be greater than a person's ability.

You don't have anything to blame for others, and you have no right words to blame others.

There is also a type of person, the character is not good, not sincere enough to you, sometimes you treat a person with your heart and lungs, but at a certain moment suddenly find that you don't know this person at all, this person is you thought that you would not hide anything from you, but also treat you sincerely, but it disappointed you, very cold. A friend used to have a good time, and the two of us would talk a lot together, and I would also tell some little secrets. Suddenly, one day, I felt that everyone was looking at me wrongly, and I wondered to myself, and then someone told me that it was what I thought was a good friend, and actually told the little secret I told her, and still talked about me in front of others, which was very cold and heartbreaking.

Sometimes I feel that more things are better than less things, forget it, it is better than always having to care, and you must understand that there are some things that should not be said, and you must have a number in your heart.

I believe that true friends are just like what Jacky Cheung's song "Blessing" sings: "Don't ask, don't say, everything is in plain sight, this moment, let us spend quietly by candlelight, may I always keep my smile in my heart, and accompany you through every spring, summer, autumn and winter."

In fact, to put it bluntly, friends are relative in heart and sincerity. When parting, although parting is in front of you, say goodbye, but goodbye will not be too far away, in a certain year and a certain moment, reunion in the splendid season, and as beautiful as when they were not separated.

It is said that there are no eternal friends, no eternal enemies, only eternal interests. When this sentence is scored, because friends are also divided into friends and scumbags, right? A true friend is not to give you a simple blessing on your birthday, not to give a word of comfort when you are lost, and not to give you a ** when you are empty.

A true friend is the one who hands you a cup of hot water when you're sick, carries your bag for you when you make a mistake, and pays attention to you in your daily life.

Okay, now back to the point. I'll also talk about the scumbag friend I met.

It was when I was in high school, I fell in love with a girl in high school, I was a junior in high school, and that girl was a freshman in high school, although I knew that my chances of success were not great, but I was brave enough to try. But after a month of hard work, I finally failed, at this time, that "friend" comforted me, and in an instant, I felt that he was a true friend, and my heart was warm.

However, after a while, I gradually learned some things, he asked for her QQ number through others when I was pursuing, and chatted for a few days, and after I failed in my pursuit, I told my jokes to my classmates, at that time, I suddenly felt betrayed and deceived, in fact, I was sad in my heart for a long time, quite disappointed. It was at this moment that the concept of "friend" disappeared in my heart...

What friends are afraid of is betrayal and deception, and at that time, you really don't think it's worth it...

In fact, whether you like a person or not, it's not like or dislike it all at once, it's all accumulated over a long period of time, but if I don't like it, it's not worth it, so I don't want to contact it anymore, after all, others will take what you do for granted, but I'm not your mother!

No one will be good to you for no reason, and your parents are good to you, and they are also wrapped by blood. A person's selfishness and lack of consideration for others is the moment when I feel most inappropriate to be a friend, so stay away from me.

In fact, I have always felt that friends are such a thing, I can't force it, when it will be easy to get along with, and when you will betray it behind your back. If I have to say that I feel that someone is not worthy of being a friend, it may be that I feel that I have been replaced by someone else without knowing it. It's not a betrayal, but I still hope that the friends I once met can give them some good memories in my heart.

Since I went to college, I have known a lot of friends, but most of them are acquaintances, but I don't know each other. Occasionally, we had a good relationship at that time, we had breakfast together every day, chatted together, talked about some happy things, and because of this, my girlfriend also had a good relationship with him, and sometimes the three of us went out shopping together. But because of one thing, I think I may have been deceived without my knowledge, at that time another friend of mine told me, let me pay attention, don't get too close to him, he doesn't look like a person who can be sincere, maybe when he will be sold, I didn't take it to heart, I think it's not easy for friends to talk about, not to mention that the current relationship is not bad, until something like this happened, I didn't understand that the relationship between friends is really not something that can be recognized clearly by looking at the superficial phenomena.

After that, I was suspicious of the people around me, and during that time, I didn't trust anyone, and I was always on guard against anyone. Slowly, I became very withdrawn and indifferent to everyone around me. Later, I slowly figured it out on my own, and when I saw it, I was not so uncomfortable, and I could only mature after experiencing some things.

Now I don't care if my friends are usually close to you, I find that only when something happens, I can finally put myself in your shoes, that person is right. It makes me feel that when a person is not suitable to be friends, he may be deceived by others, and I don't even know it. It's not just that he doesn't fit to be friends, it's anger.

Making friends depends on the heart and the character of the person, which is an important criterion.