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Anonymous users2024-02-11"I would have turned my heart to the bright moon, but the bright moon shines on the ditch. ”If you really give, you meet people who don't know how to be grateful, even if you pay more, you will be taken for granted, as long as it doesn't go well, you will forget all your good.
Some people are as ruthless as wolves, as indifferent as snakes, and after receiving help from others, not only do they not know how to be grateful, but they may also bite others back.
Sometimes, you even hurt yourself by your efforts. There is one thing that cannot be used, that is to give sincerely, and there is one thing that cannot be forgotten, that is, gratitude. A person who does not know how to be grateful will not be kind to anyone in the world.
Some people take for granted that others are good to them, that they are the center of the whole world, and that everyone revolves around them. Always inch in, always want help from others. When one day, when others see through it and no longer help him, he will scold and not be grateful to others for helping him.
To be a man, you must understand Entu. No one is born to help anyone, and no one is born nobler than others, and those who are willing to help us are all noble people in our lives, and they are all people who care about us in their hearts. They don't hesitate to pull us when we're in trouble.
It's right to be a person and do things, but you have to help the right people. There is a good saying: "If you are not afraid of being let down by good people, you are afraid of being used by bad people."
In any case, a person who does not know how to be grateful must not help, so as not to encourage his villainous anger.
People, if you have a conscience, no one's money falls from the sky, and anyone's money is hard-earned hard-earned money, and they are willing to lend it to you because they trust you, and you should also keep your promises, at least you must repay what you borrow, and then repay the kindness.
Others have helped you, you have to know how to be grateful, it's okay if you're not grateful, please remember not to take revenge.
To be born as a human being, you must be kind. But your kindness should be sharpened! It's okay to be helpful, but you have to learn to see people clearly, and don't give everything you have when you meet people.
You must remember: your kindness should be left to those who know how to repay it. Your contribution should be left to those who know how to cherish it!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10A person who does not know how to be grateful, even if he has a lot of money, he will not feel any happiness, he is still a poor person. for his heart is in need. If you know how to be grateful and repay your kindness, you are the richest and happiest person in the world.
Gratitude, the mental activity or practical action that arises from the awareness of being given and the spontaneous belief that it is given or loved, and thus the willingness to thank the other person. Gratitude is one of the basic reference characteristics of whether a person has good qualities. In rational thinking, it is considered to be a philosophy of life and a great wisdom in life.
A wise person should not worry about what he does not have, nor should he blindly take and inflate his selfish desires. Learn to be grateful, be grateful for what you have, and be grateful for everything life has given you, so that you will have a positive outlook on life and a healthy mindset. If revenge psychology is a self-defense and protection mechanism to cope with and resist external unfavorable factors, then gratitude psychology is its feedback mechanism.
Because they always feel that what others are doing is taken for granted and that they don't need to be grateful
Maybe it's good to have a child, raising a child knows the parents' hearts, but it also depends on the situation, in some cases, parents hurt the child but don't know it, and they won't understand the child from the child's point of view, and they won't be grateful to their parents in this situation (such as Yingzi in Xiaohuanxi, her mother destroyed her astronomical dream and forced the child out of depression, if you don't do empathy, you will feel that the child is very hypocritical, but the child also has the pain of the child, not just learning. Whatever you do, you have to put yourself in their shoes, right)
People who laugh a lot are not necessarily scary, it is also possible that people are more optimistic and cheerful, so they smile often. The example you gave is indeed terrifying, but it is only an isolated phenomenon. It is not representative. In fact, terrible people, whether they cry or laugh, are terrible people.
In this case, you can help your son not to go to school, but don't give him money, let him work in the society for a month or two (don't help him) let him understand that money is not easy to come by, and then let him choose, go back to school or mix in society, if he can mix well in society, in fact, it is okay not to study, if he is not good, you can persuade him to go back to school. It's up to you exactly how to do it.
The first choice is black. Black represents tranquility at the cultural level, is the background color of the universe, if you attend some formal or serious occasions, you can choose black clothing, but the black is too heavy as a whole, then you can match bright jewelry or bags.