How to better deal with marital conflicts?

Respect the other party's opinions, make good suggestions in a timely manner, and don't think it's a loss of face.

When there is a conflict, I, as a woman, will be coquettish in front of my husband, which is called "overcoming rigidity with softness", and it is also a way to mediate conflicts.

When the husband and wife quarrel, they both think that they are right, and when they quarrel, at this time, as a man, I must have a big belly, great wisdom, patience, humility, compromise, think more about the problem from the other party's position, apologize to the other party tactfully, don't worry about the trivial things at home, and be unforgiving

Do more self-examination, as long as there is a conflict between husband and wife, it is not just a person's problem, as the words are good, a slap does not make a sound! It is not only about how to argue about the shortcomings of the other side, but also about what you are not doing enough, which is the most basic condition for making concessions, and only then can you find mistakes and admit them. So as to better resolve the contradictions.

A good way to reduce marital conflict is for the man to start by saying, "I was wrong."

Respect each other in front of parents and children, and do not talk about each other in front of parents, so as not to misunderstand or mislead her and cause family conflicts.

Husband and wife complain less, don't complain about making less money, work pressure, lower status than others, heavy living burden, others have cars, houses and money, we have to support the elderly, the husband has no ability, the wife will only do housework and will not make money, you are not as good as others and so on, some complaints about each other are important factors affecting the disharmony and disharmony of the relationship between husband and wife.

No matter what kind of fight you have, don't expose each other's scars and hold a long-term grudge against some bad things. Both husband and wife should pay more attention to each other's growth, care about his or her work, study and physical health, and encourage the spouse to participate in some leisure and recreational activities to eliminate fatigue and stress at work.

Be respectful of both parties, speak kindly, and don't speak to each other in a commanding tone, which will increase the conflict.

Establish a sense of trust, do not suspect each other, be honest with each other, and do not hide anything (such as mobile phone text messages, emails, secret letters**, letters, etc.).