What is Happiness? How do you forget so many sad memories? 20

What is Happiness? What is happiness?

To live is to be happy! I remember a famous person once said, "There is nothing in the world that makes people feel more humbling than being unhappy!" I think this sentence makes a lot of sense, if you want to be happy, be happy, don't go to conditional happiness because of what you lose or gain!

Losing a lot of friends will cause melancholy for everyone, which is natural, and you should not always be immersed in this melancholy state, you should come out bravely and infect the people around you with your smile, so that more people will be willing to be friends with you!

The friend upstairs was right, there is no such thing as a feast, and perhaps friends are leaving to find their own happiness and joy, so why should you not be happy? Friends, let it be and be a happy angel!

I remember that there is a story that says, "What people should cherish is not what they cannot get and what has been lost, but what you have now". If you don't have it, you can continue to work hard, but if you just regret the loss of the past, then you can't find happiness now and in the future, there are no immutable memories, you have to continue your life journey, otherwise you will lose more, real friends are not allowed to explain, if you are really wrong, apologize frankly, if it is they misunderstood you, then don't explain too much. Waking up every day is a good start, what you lost yesterday does not mean that you won't get it today, everything or something is new.

It's the same with people. You have to build the belief that tomorrow will have a new beginning.

Losing doesn't mean never getting it.

I believe in one word, that is"Happiness comes from the concept of happiness"For example, if you think that you can eat a big meal, you are happy, then when you eat delicious food, you are happy, and for example, as a mother, if she thinks that when her child is admitted to college, she is the happiest, then when it is really realized, she thinks she is happy.

So, the meaning of happiness is different for everyone, find your happiness.

There is also a saying that the feast of the whole world is over, and the past is the past. Won't be coming back. You've been happy. It's also time to be unhappy. It's better to have a good time. Find new happiness. Hehe, are you right?

Get fulfilled for happiness.

Let go of your own inhibitions, and you will feel relaxed and happy at the same time.

Prescribe the right medicine: keep yourself busy first, and don't have time to think about those times.

When the time comes, you will naturally forget about it.

Maybe it's beautiful to forget.

Pick up a pen and paper and ...... your life into elementary school, middle school, university, and workStages are divided, reminiscing about the past, how many sad things and happy things can be remembered in each stage?

I tried it, and the sad things that came to me in the hair shed were remembered one after another, but there were very few happy things.

Psychology has found that the most memorable thing is not the joy of making a profit but the pain of a loss, and the latter effect is twice as great.

But when I looked back at my diary recently, I realized that I didn't get into my first choice university, which was a very painful thing for me. But because the second choice school for parallel admission is not bad, basically for so many years, most people who hear the name of this school will think that I am a top student. So before reading the diary, I had completely forgotten that the original feeling was so strong, and it was not just a regret that I missed my first choice.

Because of the continuous affirmation of the people around me for more than ten years, as well as my own psychology under the influence of this, the feeling of doing well in the test has been strengthened over and over again.

The chain of reeds is sad and forgetful, perhaps it is just that we deepen our impression of sadness over and over again. Keep a daily diary to record your happiness and achievements.

When I was a child, I would go to the ship every summer vacation, and during the day I watched my father's handsome appearance when he was at the helm in the cockpit, and at night I lay on the deck, and I could still see a lot of stars in the night sky at that time, and the waves crashed against the boat, swaying. It was probably the most carefree and happiest time I can remember.

The happiest moment in my life was when I had a fever for several days in elementary school, and my father asked me where I wanted to go, and I said that I wanted to go to the zoo. But after school and Zhongshan Park got off work, my dad stuffed me through the iron gate fence into the zoo, and asked him why he didn't come with me. Dad said he couldn't get in.

So I went to see the smelly bears, tigers and vultures by myself, and I was scared to goosebumps, and when I came out, my father picked a lot of mulberries for me, and held them in his hand, and then took me to eat sweet and sour fish and Mao Xuewang. I'm the only one who has seen ferocious animals at the zoo, and I'm alone! It's awesome!

When I was a child, my grandmother raised a few rabbits on the balcony and planted loofahs. Every morning, I would feed the rabbits, pet the loofah, and ask my grandmother, can I eat the loofah today? Grandma teases me :

The loofah is not ripe and cannot be eaten, but it can be eaten by rabbits. "I was so scared that I cried. In the evening, my grandmother would hold me to watch a TV series, and I always hoped that the TV would continue to broadcast the next episode, and that it would never be time for my grandfather to come and call for bedtime.

The sounds and smells of these memories still warm me and reassure me.

On the night of the rainstorm in Zhengzhou, when I returned home, the whole family was a little stunned and sat around for dinner. Although it was the simplest meal, that night I realized the meaning of home.

The happiest was the day I slept with Ringo for the first time and the last day I slept with Ringo. For the first time, I didn't think about our future. Accept for the last time that we have no future.

I happened to ask my boyfriend this question before. It was late at night, we came out of the library, he sent me downstairs to my dormitory, in the cold wind I asked him, "When is the happiest in your memory", he said "now", I used the hail in the spring sky as him to coax me, and asked "think about your childhood", he thought about it, and said with a smile on the corner of his mouth, "It's still now".

My husband proposed to me. On an ordinary Monday, after work, we went out to eat seafood and dumplings, took a walk and talked about life, and then went home. I opened the door and found that the house was decorated with a lot of letters and pink hearts, and as soon as I turned around and my husband proposed to me with pink roses and rings, I started crying all the time, saying, "Oh my God, I knew I should have worn that new red dress today."

The person I had a crush on for a long time confessed to me drunk. The next day he said to me that we should go and get the certificate today, and then we got the certificate.

The happiest moment in my memory was my first kiss with you. We stand under a big old tree, you look at me tenderly, and I shyly avoid your eyes. It is the purest love without any distractions.