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First of all, a mountain is taller than a mountain, isn't it? The sense of superiority in the past meets the current sense of loss, and it makes me feel powerless to fight back. Moreover, seeing that the classmates next to me were so glamorous and did not work hard in their studies, I was even more lonely.
However, these students study easily and have good grades (except for the family living environment, which no one can decide, we will not discuss), in fact, it is also the accumulation of people who have spent a lot of effort in the past, so you only see that others have a higher starting point in learning than you, and you can't see the past efforts of others, which has led to the fact that you are now learning the same as others, and you can't learn from others, if you want to reach the level of others, then work hard and spend 200% of your efforts. Reach the same level as everyone else before your senior year.
Moreover, in fact, you have been instilled in college for too long before the university to determine the concept of the future, we not only want to study in college, but also to study in this university, otherwise, how to find a job with your countdown transcript, you can say that you rely on ability, then what is your ability, as a student, it should be academic ability, learning ability is not good, why should the company examine your other abilities.
So, don't let you spend time thinking about why you don't have the motivation to study, you go to the study hall tomorrow to read a book, that's the motivation to learn. It's not about living a good life, it's motivation to learn.
But in order to avoid you going to that self-study room and only reading one page of the book in one night, I will give you a standard, find a book for a public class, and read it within a week. If you can actually do that with this week, then you will be able to appreciate what motivation is.
If you say that this standard is too harsh, then I can tell you how I studied public courses in college, and if it was an A4 size 600-page book, I would have read it in two days.
So, throughout the semester, I can have a lot of fun again, and I can also review these books again through lectures. I'm not a talented person, I'm just lazy, thinking that I can't waste all my time in college studying, if you are interested in this idea, you can also use this idea as a motivation to study.
As for doing things, you don't have to be so careful, it will only make others think that you are cringe, and show your character, if you are a boy, you will start to call your classmates brothers, and if you are a girl, you will start to be sisters with your classmates
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It is recommended to go to Kaifu Student Network to see, there will be gains, and your own progress is the best, to think about the fact that there are more people in this world who are better than you, what is your school!
You don't have motivation because you don't really see all the pressures that your family puts on you, in other words, it's what you say, if you really think you're going to college for your family, you wouldn't say that... I don't know if I'm right ...
In short, there is no offense, but I still suggest that you go to Kaifu Student Network, or buy Kaifu Lee's book, and look at the letters he wrote to students, which is very touching.
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I'm a junior high school student with poor grades, and last month the school held a grade assembly to discuss the importance of learning. After I finished it, I felt a lot more hard than before. The following are the notes I took at the meeting, and I added a little bit of my own understanding.
Think about what you're learning for.
1.national and national interests. Giving up your studies is tantamount to giving up your country, why is China always beaten? Because of backwardness. Why backward, because there are few literate people, and few people can contribute to the motherland. I don't want to fall behind, I don't want to be beaten, so study hard.
2.Parents' jobs. Your parents have raised you for so many years, if you don't study hard, you can't let them live a good life, they pay so much energy and money for you, save money to buy you school supplies, don't you study hard to be worthy of them?
Even if they don't find a good job in the future, as long as they understand that you are doing your best to study, they will be steadfast and happy, and they will be peaceful when they are old and pass away.
3.Your own values, you are not living in vain to occupy land and resources in the world, as long as you do not live in vain, you are not eating in vain. Didn't you get the best grades in middle school?
If you think about how good it feels to be when your classmates cast envious eyes on you, you definitely don't want to lose that sense of satisfaction, right? Study hard, let the classmates around you who used to be better than you look up at you, and enjoy looking down at them. Once you get used to this feeling, as long as your grades are a little unstable, you will have a strong sense of crisis and motivate yourself to study.
Finally, a word of caution, don't learn for the sake of learning, take the initiative to overcome learning, and your destiny is in your own hands.
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Are the people around you better than you in everything? Not necessarily! Except for the abundant material needs of others, you have the rest!
Than 'heart'? I believe your 'heart' will be higher than theirs. You should not lose your way because of this, you must firmly believe that knowledge is power, knowledge is a treasure.
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What you learn by yourself is useful, and what books teach is only to cope with the ...... exams
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You don't have a woman, you're the backbone of the heart, the one who can control everything about you.
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