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Resolutely refuse, be resolute, otherwise his relatives will take it for granted, endlessly. The most annoying kind of person, although I don't want to, but it's not good to refuse directly, I have to take care of my wife's face, and just say it euphemistically. Open a good room directly nearby, mainly outsiders live in, a lot of things are inconvenient.
If it were me, I wouldn't like my small family to be disturbed, except for both parents, I guess other relatives would be very reluctant, after all, there must be deviations in living habits. In particular, I am a bit of a cleanliness addict and can't stand the uncleanliness of the house, but I may arrange a place to stay in advance for relatives and friends.
But if it's the kind of one, two, and back just to find a place to live for free and take advantage of it, then I can't arrange it, after all, it's all mutual. Some people may think that it doesn't cost anything to stay at your house for one night, why don't you want to? Then I don't have to work hard to change the sheets and sheets?
I don't have that big heart, and of course I won't stay at someone else's house.
For this kind of thing, the couple really have to communicate heart-to-heart, don't hurt the feelings of the husband and wife because of the temporary face. People who live in the city are used to it, and they don't want to spend the night in other people's houses to visit relatives and friends, anyway, they live in a city and the transportation is convenient, and they are not used to living in other people's homes, so they simply go home to live or open a room outside for many nights.
However, rural relatives are more conservative in their thinking, and they will save more on the economy, and more importantly, their definition of relatives should also be broader, relatives such as aunt or uncle are really close relatives, and cousins and cousins are not very familiar relatives, they will feel why the house of more than 200 square meters cannot receive them, or let them live in a hotel, they can't understand. The most important thing is that your husband will really lose face and status when he goes back.
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Tell them that your family does not have the habit of staying overnight, and staying in your house for a long time has brought a lot of inconvenience to your couple's life. If they continue to stay and play, they can book a hotel.
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Help them book a hotel to stay in. Tell them that it is not convenient for the family in the past two days, and the community may have a power outage. The hotel is better than the environment at home.
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Tell your wife about this, and let your wife take the initiative to tell your relatives. The two of them may have been busy lately and it will take some time to receive them.
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Tell them that they are planning to travel with their wives for a while recently and may not have time to take care of them, and that they hope they will come back later.
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Then you often lose your temper at home and quarrel with your wife. Let the air pressure in the house be low, they will feel uncomfortable, and they will leave quickly.
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If you are in a hurry to invite your wife's relatives away, then when your relatives come, he will also invite your relatives away, and everyone is mutual.
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You can say that you have something to do in the afternoon, and you are in a hurry, and your boss is still urging you to hurry over, so you will not leave them.
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Communicate with your wife. Relatives are not unreasonable people, they come to your house just to visit your wife, let her communicate, tell them that you are doing well, and they will leave.
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Netizen: The day before yesterday, I took home a box of crabs and was going to give them to a friend, but when I went home today to get them, I couldn't find them.
This mother-in-law usually goes to her mother's house to resist things, and she can't wait to wrap up her mother's life, and now she doesn't tell her to see what she takes home, and she really has to prevent fire and theft!
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Let him say it for himself and solve it for himself. Let him find a reason and tell his relatives that we are fine, and you can go home after you see it."
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You can tell your husband that you are a little unwell and want to go and take a break, ask your husband to accompany you to the hospital, and they will leave automatically.
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I said that I have not been very convenient recently, because I may have to travel for a few days, there is no one at home, there is no way to take care of them, and they are welcome to come back next time.
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You can communicate with your husband and tell him what you think, because relatives have been in your house for too long, which is very inconvenient for you as a couple. What your husband said to them, I believe they will understand.
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In fact, it is inconvenient for you to come forward in this matter, you tell your husband directly and ask your husband to take his relatives away. Otherwise, it will seem that you are stingy.
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You tell them that they have been busy at work lately, and they have more overtime hours, and it is not convenient for them to stay here anymore, and I believe they will leave.
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Tell your husband what you think, and ask him to tell his relatives that if you come forward yourself, you will leave a bad impression on others.
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At this time, you need to talk to your husband so that he understands what you think, and then let him come forward to solve these things.
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It's not right if you think so, this time you invite your husband's relatives away, then how will your husband treat your relatives next time?
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You want to talk to your husband and let him tell him, you don't have to get involved in person, because that's disrespectful to your husband.
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Just wrap it up and send it to the big temple.
They are so bold in other people's homes, it means that your character is very good, they think you are easy to bully, you just say clearly, my family also has such relatives, since they are so shameless, then we don't want to save face for them, find a time to call those relatives who beat them **, tell the truth in front of them, since this is the case, then the relatives should not do it, you take out the list of electricity bills and show them the glorious deeds of your relatives, See if they deliberately want to drive them away, they all say that the gold and silver nests are not as good as their own kennels, I really don't understand why they are so shameless, my personality is relatively straight, last time I did this, my relative was speechless on the spot, and then our relationship was broken, although I don't want to do this, but I can't bear it, it's the only way, they don't have to be shameless, so you don't have to care about their face.
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