What do you think about your boyfriend s past?

1. If your boyfriend still has an unclear relationship with his past girlfriend, then you have to categorically separate the relationship with him, but the premise is that you understand your boyfriend and give him a chance to analyze, after all, some things need time to solve, if the matter still can't be solved after a month, then I personally think you don't need to waste your youth on such an indecisive and irresponsible man.

2. If your boyfriend has broken up with his past girlfriend and usually doesn't have too much intimate contact, then I personally think you don't have to mind his past. But it should be noted that it is just a pure friendship and intimacy, you have to grasp the degree of it, don't be rash.

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In fact, this psychology of the landlord is a common social imagination. It's also called jealousy. Because it was my boyfriend who started to get along with other women, I couldn't help it.

But you have to think about it. The person next to you is not the same as he used to be, she is your boyfriend's benefactor, so your boyfriend treats her like that. It shows that he is a good man who knows how to repay his kindness.

Now he is so good to you for you, and he also makes you forget the past, because everyone has a past. We should all look at the present, and if we sacrifice the present just for the sake of the past, it is too undeserved. To remember:

Now he has no choice but to be kind to you, to show that he loves you. Don't lose this person who loves you. Otherwise, sooner or later you will regret it.

In the past, let it pass. After all, it was the old days, and I can definitely forget it. Finally, I wish you all:

Happily married.

I think he's a good guy too, and he'll be grateful.

When the landlord minds, you might as well think about your past, since you will mind your boyfriend's past, then he will also mind your past, but he is still good to you, lovers must think about each other for the sake of the long-lasting. If you are jealous, it means that you care about him, but I think that the past is over, even if you break up with him now, you may not find a better one, it is better to cherish and understand it.

Everyone has their own past, I think your boyfriend told you about it, and promised to be better for you in the future, it's actually very good, he also has his own helplessness, and your boyfriend is grateful, although gratitude can have other ways, but maybe he made a mistake for a while, and now he has let go of those Give him another chance, give you another chance, there is no perfect person, in fact, girls are very conflicted, I want to know the past of their boyfriend, after knowing, I can't accept it, well, if you love him very much Then let's go out of my way for him Understand him, support him, love him as before, you've been talking about it for a long time, it's a pity to give up, cherish it, if you really can't do it, don't force yourself, I hope it's okay.

Your boyfriend is a responsible person, I don't think you should give up, what you give up should be his past, you can't always think about his past, what you should think about is his present and your future, if you blindly think about his past, you are unhappy, he is even more unhappy, this will not be good for you.

The key is how you feel about him now. Your problem stems from the influence of traditional thinking, that is, selfish possessiveness, a man who knows how to be grateful, a man who has experienced difficulties, is worth cherishing; In other words, how do you feel about finding another man after you break up with him, and in the eyes of your new boyfriend, look at you from your current perspective?

I told her seriously, let him keep his distance from his daughter-in-law. It doesn't matter what you say, but you have to be measured. Your boyfriend will definitely understand what to do. I wish you happiness.

If you can't put it down, then don't be together. If you really want to be together, don't think too much!

People love money and are always said to be philistines, and I think this is the real reality. Some people just want to be satisfied with what they once had, and I think that's really sick. If you can cherish what is in front of you, then your heart knot will naturally be untied.

You are not qualified to ask him for anything now, there are very few people in this society who have both conscience and responsibility, and he has not hurt you but is trying to make up for your discomfort, what do you do? Heart to heart, you should do something for him now!

You are selfish, you have not yet understood the true meaning of love, or the true meaning of happiness. Maybe the separation from this man can make you understand what happiness is. Whatever the result, it is a gift from God for your growth. Accept it.

Who didn't click on it?

The reason why the past is called to the past is to let him go over, give each other a little space, and your relationship will be better.

You should look forward, don't dwell on the past, the future is beautiful.

I hope your relationship goes to the next level.

You can put aside the things that make you feel uneasy! Because it is you who he loves

This kind of person is not worthy of being a man.

If you want to.

If you don't want to, why embarrass yourself......

I don't care about TA's past, I sell more to value the current relationship between two people, in the process of getting along, whether each other can really bring each other happiness and joy, the reason why there is no need to care about each other's past, mainly because of the following reasons. First of all, for many things, we should look at it from the point of view of development, although the other party has some unbearable experience in the past, but this is what happened before I met him, and I should not be too angry, if I really like the hall distribution party, then we don't need to take these things to heart, we should take into account that the beam in the future process and each other get along, whether they can really get along with each other, this is the most important factor to ensure the durability of the relationship between two people. On the other hand, if we care about each other's past, then we will naturally be more embarrassed in the process of getting along with each other, and even two people will have certain conflicts because of this, which will affect each other's feelings, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship between two people, so there is no need for two people to get along in the first place.

Caring about the other party's past shows that he is not particularly resolute about this relationship, and there is a certain prejudice against the other party, so in this case, he should not really pursue the other party in the first place, or accept the other party's confession, which will only waste the time and energy of two people, and cause some damage to each other's hearts.

If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

Now is the era of openness, and people are less interested in the personal feelings of their partners. But there are also some people who are always dwelling on the past. So what should we think of Silly Silver's emotional experience of treating her boyfriend?

First, attribute his current excellence to past experiences, including emotional experiences. "Everyone's present has a shadow of the past. That is to say, everyone's growth experience and environment will affect a person's personality and living habits.

So in love life, what kind of emotional experience a person has had and what kind of partner he has met will also directly affect his attitude towards relationships. If your significant other is considerate and caring. Then you must be grateful for his past and cherish the present even more.

Second, everyone has a past that they don't want to talk about. In modern society, most people have a very open attitude towards relationships, and young people will also enjoy the sense of security and happiness that love brings to them. But no one can guarantee that they will be able to meet the person who will spend the rest of their lives together in a relationship, and the hurt they have suffered in love will leave a scar in their hearts.

This scar may always be there, but most of the people who bring the banquet will choose not to touch it and slowly forget it. If you can also protect his scars and let your other half suffer again, I think he will cherish and love you even more. At the same time, it will also protect those scars in your heart that you don't want to be touched, so that the feelings of mutual respect will definitely go further.

Third, the past cannot be repeated, and only by grasping the present can we not let ourselves become the past of tomorrow. If everyone could predict the future, or maybe time could be turned back. Then I believe that everyone is not willing to meet the person who can't make it to the end.

Now that it's a thing of the past and can't be changed, why not accept it with grace? It is better to enjoy the happy and sweet love of the moment than to be immersed in the shadows of the past and not be able to let go. Excessive dwelling on the past will only make both of them unhappy, and eventually the relationship will break down, and he will become his past.

I don't care about his past. Because everyone has a history, everyone has a past, and if they are not perfect, how can they ask each other to be white.

There will always be this and that mistake on the road of growth, there will always be this or that dust hole, it is impossible to say that he will not make mistakes all the way to growth, even if he is a saint, it is impossible for him to keep himself from making mistakes.

A person's past will be closely related to his age, style of doing things, wisdom, when the mind is immature, when the style of doing things is not formed, it is often easy to do some wrong things, but because he has made mistakes, he cares about his past, and he can't get over this hurdle.

While caring about the past of others, I will also reflect on myself, after all, I am not a perfect person.

Different people go through different things and different periods in order to make themselves more stable and more mature. As long as it's not a big mistake, as long as teasing Hui is not a crime, then there is no need to worry about these pasts.

Caring about other people's past is actually that you can't get along with yourself, because there is no way to change the past. In fact, there is a very good saying, people live in the breath, do not care about yesterday, do not look forward to tomorrow, but live today. Because there is no point in caring about yesterday, we have no way to change, we can't go through, and we can either accept or leave the irreversible and unchangeable things.

If you can't make up your mind to leave, then why embarrass yourself and make yourself feel uncomfortable.

Two people need to look to the future together, two people need to think about the future, and they also need to do a good job in the present.

Two people get along together, the most important thing is whether they get along, whether they are happy at the moment, whether they have plans for the future, and whether they can enter the palace of marriage, which is the most important thing to think about and care about at the moment, rather than looking at his past and ignoring the current relationship, this is the end of the book, so I don't particularly care about his past.

Feelings come first and come first, respecting your girlfriend's past does not mean accepting her past, many things seem to be the same, but the essence can be 108,000 games in the silver bench, can not be confused.

No matter how much we love someone, even if we miss her in this life, we will meet other people, who may not be as loving as before, but getting along with those who come after us is definitely not perfunctory. But if there is a problem in our thinking, and we still think about the first person when we are with the second person, then it means that we are "eating from the bowl and looking at the pot", which is irresponsible to the incumbent and immoral. So, I think that there is a first-come, first-served value in relationships, who you like is your own, and who you like is also your freedom, but if you treat the other person as a substitute or a victim, then this is wrong, especially to meet someone who loves one.

From the perspective of modern people's thinking, boys should respect girls, after all, men and women are equal now. And as men and women in love, it is normal for boys to take care of girls more and let some girls go. And the premise for two people to be together is to respect each other, love each other, trust each other, and like each other, if they just work hard and the other does not work hard, then it is unfair.

Therefore, it is important to see if the girl respects the boy before asking him to respect him.

As for the past, it is not a question of respect or disrespect, who the girl was with before has nothing to do with the current one, but when she is with the current one, she has an ambiguous relationship with her former friends, or is entangled, then this is not a question of respect or disrespect, but stepping on two boats and treating others as spare tires. Let's ask, in this case, what qualifications do you have to ask boys to respect girls, they don't take boys seriously, and they don't respect boys after fighting, is it a fool to be a boy? Many girls are influenced by the Internet mourning culture, and are always demanding "power", thus ignoring the feelings of boys, and always asking the other party to respect themselves, but they never want to respect each other.