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If so, then I sincerely hope that the two sentences in the message will still echo in your mind. "No one can live for you, no one can succeed for you! As Don Kudeti mentions in the classic essay "The Advice of Failure":
It is not easy to live in the world, and it is even harder to live decently; It's not easy to really know yourself, but it's even easier said to like yourself. But we have to live, and there is one more person in life that we all have to face. "That person, of course—yourself.
But who are you? What are you? How sad it is that many of us know how to drive a car but don't know how to drive ourselves!
Suppose someone asks what you do. You might say you're a salesperson, a computer programmer, a model, a broker, a truck driver, a carpenter, or whatever. However, you are wrong!
The profession you are in is the profession we all do – that is "life". By understanding who you are and why you are the way you are, you will be able to face the many doubts and challenges that have plagued your success. Okay, let's hurry up and start ......
I called him Joe because at the beginning of the story, Joe was a complete amnesiac patient. He couldn't remember his name, he had completely forgotten his previous life, and he didn't even know how he got here. The biggest possibility is that he used to be a pilot and was in an accident and was shipwrecked.
Joe woke up and found himself lying in a dark cave. He was still able to move, and his bones were apparently unwound, but his brain was not very effective, so he quickly lost consciousness again. Joe also didn't know how long he had been in the cave.
Weak and helpless, he was confused for a while, moved for a while, and confused for a while. Since you are warm, not hungry, and very comfortable, there is no need to worry. Everything was as it was, and Joe was satisfied.
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People are selfish, this is their nature, but many people can put their selfish interests behind under the influence of personality and social environment, so you don't have to blame yourself. In fact, selfishness is amplified a lot of times has a lot to do with our growth environment, but it is not unchangeable, usually you have to relax your mind, and always think about being kind to others.
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Let the past pass, don't let it hold you back from your present or future.
1. What kind of past.
If you are happy in the past, it is actually a good memory, but you must understand that no matter how happy you are, the past is just the past, because people can never go back to the past.
There are no time-traveling artifacts in the world. On the contrary, if many things in the past make you feel very painful, forget about it, it only exists in the past you, the past world, and has nothing to do with the present you, so why bother to imagine things that are not at all now.
2. How to look at the past.
Some people will say that it was those past experiences that made you who you are now. But this does not mean dwelling on the past and losing the feeling of the present. It is inevitable that people will always recall their past at an unspecified time, but it is more important to learn something from the past so that they can grow better and face the future life better, rather than letting the past things hinder the possibility of the future.
3. How to better face the past.
With a calm mind, do not regard the glory of the past as a capital to show off, nor do you regard the pain of the past as a burden, there are still many things to do in life, look forward, go forward, and the past time will stay in the past.
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In the past, there was joy 9, pain, helplessness, sadness, and confusion. The most important thing is that there are a lot of regrets. But life, life is supposed to be like this, stumbling, getting up and falling.
Looking at the scenery along the way, I also saw injustices and so many helplessness. There is no regret medicine to take, so I can only move on. I only hope that the things that were wrong in the past can be corrected later, and those who missed in the past can be remembered later.
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Water under the bridge! Plan for now and for the future.
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When I think back to my childhood self, I can't deny the feelings of disappointment and regret. I had a lot of dreams and plans at the time, but for various reasons, I didn't go all out to pursue them. Now, I can clearly see that those opportunities have been lost, which makes me feel a little lost.
However, I don't want to dwell on this negativity. On the contrary, I want to use these experiences to spur myself on and make myself more appreciative of the opportunities I have now and work hard to pursue my dreams. I know that if I don't work hard, I may be disappointed and regret again in the future, and I don't want to repeat the same mistake again.
So, I'm now focusing more on my dreams and trying to make them happen. I've learned to make my goals more specific and achievable, and I've been more proactive in looking for opportunities instead of waiting for them to come to me. I also learned to learn from my past mistakes to avoid making the same mistakes.
In the end, I hope that my experience can inspire more people not to repeat my mistakes. Regardless of age, we should pursue our dreams and strive for them. Don't be disappointed or regret if we fail, but learn to learn from it and keep pursuing your dreams.
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I had a retaliatory act of compensation for my childhood, that is, when I grew up, I apologized to my classmates who had been bullied by me.
The journey of life is a long way to go. The end of the world is far away, and we are always easy to lose ourselves. So as to make a wrong choice, but no matter what kind of mistake, as long as the courage to bear and correct will not be too bad, Buddhism has a cloud and a sea of bitterness boundless to turn back is the shore, no matter how much we go and how much we do, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will be a better way out, people are not sages and sages can be without fault, and making mistakes is an essential part of life, life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes in order to be confident in order to be self-sufficient, so as to better grasp and treat life.
Don't doubt your own abilities because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny the lives of others because of a momentary mistake. People live a lifetime, not because of a mistake, and can change, don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because of today's all. Mistakes are an indispensable part of life, and it is also for that more wonderful tomorrow Life is always good and bad, half right and wrong, and there are some things that are done wrong, so there is no need to be upset.
Some things go wrong, don't panic There will always be ups and downs on the long road of life, there will always be regrets of mistakes, we should be happy, because on the way forward, every mistake is another growth of life, and we can only find our own correct direction by constantly exploring and not making mistakes.
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When I was a child, I was very innocent and always wanted more attention and recognition. And as time goes by, as we learn more and more about life, we will realize that some of our decisions, words and deeds may disappoint our childhood selves and regret them. Let me talk about my own views in the blank space.
First of all, looking back, I did feel that way. When I was a child, I always wanted to get attention and praise from others. But as I grew up, I found that some of the decisions, words and deeds I had made brought me some regrets to a greater or lesser extent.
For example, if I had given up on practicing a skill or missed out on some opportunities, if I had persevered and not given up trying, or if I had worked harder for the opportunity, maybe my life path would have been different. These things used to disappoint and regret me.
Secondly, these experiences have also taught me to cherish the present moment. No one can foresee the future, but we can do our job well and do our best to make the future a better place. Don't let the regrets of the past hold you back, let these experiences be your motivation to grow and pursue a better future.
At the same time, we can also express our gratitude to those who have influenced us, supported and encouraged, as a way to make up for possible regrets and losses.
Finally, we should learn to accept the decisions and behaviors we have made in the past, and learn from them to better improve the future by thinking, reflecting and summarizing. The future is under our control, and we should face it positively and strive to seize the opportunity to achieve our ideals and goals.
In short, we all have some regrets and losses, but this does not stop us from moving towards our ideals. It is important to be positive and forward-looking in terms of mentality, constantly improve your cognitive level, master new skills, and give yourself a better future.
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When we were children, we imagined our future selves countless times, imagining a glorious future. However, when we look back, do we feel that we have let down our childhood selves?
In the journey of life, we continue to grow and gradually form ourselves at different stages. In this process, we should learn to respect our past selves and not need to look at the present with past thinking. You also need to learn to respect who you are now and appreciate every stage of your growth.
In those years, we had dreams, curiosity and enthusiasm. As children, we often fantasize about what the future will look like and aspire to achieve something. However, as the years go by, we gradually realize the heaviness of reality, and we also leave joys, sorrows and sorrows on the road of growth.
Standing at the crossroads of life, we should understand that each stage of our self has its own unique values and experiences. We must learn to cherish these experiences and face our past, present and future selves with a heart of tolerance and respect. Only in this way can we know ourselves better.
Let's move forward bravely with our childhood selves and pursue our dreams with determination. We have to tell ourselves: despite all the twists and turns in life, we never give up and we keep trying.
We would like to thank our childhood selves for giving us the courage and strength to go further and further on the road ahead.
Life will not be smooth sailing, but we must learn to learn from setbacks and continue to grow. Let's embrace our past selves and our present selves, and let each other work together to face the challenges of the future. When we learn to respect and appreciate our own growth, we can truly feel the beauty of life.
Looking back, we will find that the former dreamer still shines in our hearts. We should cherish the original intention in our hearts and let it become the driving force for us to move forward.
Looking forward to the future, we must have firm faith and perseverance to move forward bravely. Let us use our childhood dreams to illuminate the road to the future, and down-to-earth to realize those visions that once made our hearts surge. In this way, together with our childhood selves, we will become a better and more complete version of ourselves.
Conclusion: Let's respect our past selves, live in the present, and look forward to a better future. Face every stage we go through with a heart of gratitude, respect, and tolerance. Be brave enough to pursue your dreams and never stop.
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Looking at one's past self can be a beneficial way of personal growth. Here are some suggestions:
1.Accept your past self: Every stage of the past is a part of who we are today, so we should accept all the strengths and weaknesses that we had in that period.
2.Learn from past mistakes: Understanding past mistakes and mistakes can help us better face future challenges and improve our decision-making skills.
3.Deal with regrets: If something you didn't do well in the past, don't dwell on it. Honestly admit your mistakes, forgive yourself, and then let go, allowing yourself to move forward and focus on the future.
4.Cherish memories: Reminiscing about the past, some good memories can show that we are cultural animals, but also give us comfort and give us an optimistic attitude.
5.Keep surpassing yourself: the past is the "past", and the future is still in your hands. Reflect on the past, know your strengths or weaknesses, find new goals and stick together, try to challenge yourself and surpass yourself.
In short, the journey written in the past will become the guide of my Zhongling in the future. Every day, those bright spots and flaws will become part of our future growth. Therefore, you should be grateful for the past and inject new energy into your future challenges with a positive and constructive attitude!
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1. Congratulations, talk about rebirth, look at yourself with new eyes, and you will see a different world.
2. Seek truth from facts, live a good life, and work hard in a down-to-earth manner.
3. No matter what the past is, it has passed, I hope you can grasp the future and take your own future path.
4. When you see the wind and rain, there is a rainbow, moving forward, towards the future, and making noise.
5. Start anew from today, say goodbye to yesterday's self, and go smoothly in the future.
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Your parents are not afraid that no one will take care of them when they are old They are afraid that you will abandon them The old people are originally nagging, and some people want to honor their parents, but their parents are gone, I have to say that this is really sad Your parents are still sick What is this asking Isn't it all for you What do they live for all their lives? Aren't they all for their children They can ignore you when you were a child and be happy to be at ease But look at the other way you are under such pressure to run away Complain to your parents Are you worthy of your conscience? Even if you have all your troubles, don't bring them to your parents, let them live out their old age in peace.
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