What is the idea of severing the relationship with one s parents, siblings?

Because the family of origin can also hurt people.

But you should think about whether it is too serious to repay this statement.

Their original intention is their own happiness, although there is nothing wrong with this, but you don't have to stick a knife in black and white for no reason.

Moreover, some parents are too casual in their births, and they can't talk about much kindness, so it's hard to say what is worth reciprocating.

Understand that the reason they are hurting you stems from their own flaws, and tell yourself that you forgave them.

Because of those reasons, "your parents are good for you and raise you", the conclusion that "they used violence against you is also for your good and because of love" is in itself the biggest fallacy! And this behavior is not because of love!

No starting point is a reason for parents to trample on and harm a child who has no ability to resist or survive.

Our life is like a long river, and time flows quietly like flowing water. The silt under the river, that's our past. They settle and accumulate in the flowing water, and occasionally they are swept up a little by the waves, but eventually, they will still sink.

And you, you, are breaking free from the mud of the past, trying to draw a muddy line; Further up, there is a future that is as clear and transparent as water.

In that future, will you still think about the mud that once trapped you? At that time, it will only be a matter of one breath for that grievance to be vented. Just like the one who answered the highest vote, the past is like a cloud, like smoke, and does not linger.

There are indeed many times of despair, powerlessness, and helplessness in life, and there are also times when you have to face all kinds of regrets and pains.

Your life can be reshaped as you wish.

This is obviously sick in the brain, absolutely irresponsible, not grateful, sheep still have the grace of kneeling, not even a beast!

For most people, this is an over-the-top idea, but it is undeniable that in some families, this idea is really out of desperation, in order to be alone.

This is a very extreme idea, and it is common sense that you should not have such an idea, because your parents, siblings, and you are all related by blood. Family affection is inseparable, or get along well with them.

I think that there must be something that both sides have not done well, and we can't blame the person who has this idea for being wrong, everything happens for a reason, and both sides have something bad to do that will lead to such a situation. I recommend that the parties do not do this in anger, because to trace the source of the conflict with the familyIsn't it really unsolvable.

No one will casually cut off this kind of relationship, and having this kind of thinking shows that he is helpless, deeply hurt by his original family, and forced to solve the problem in this way.

A bit of an extreme idea, the parent-child relationship sometimes makes the child become Stockholm syndrome (go to our powerful to find out what this syndrome means), don't want to make yourself crazy, stop the loss in time, although unwilling.

Personally, I think this kind of thinking is wrong, our parents gave us life and gave us the opportunity to come into this world;Brothers and sisters are the flesh of their parents like themselves, and they have been conceived in the same place for ten months;usually live together again, how can you just break it.

This idea may only arise in extreme circumstances, and it will be more dangerous, because such an idea may generally say that it will only come after going through a very extreme thing, and it is recommended not to do so.

People who have this kind of thinking may have been hurt by their families, and it is that kind of indelible damage, so they are so decisive.

I have also had this kind of thought, and in my opinion, people will not have this kind of thought unless they have to do it, unless they have a big disagreement with them.

A reasonable relationship between siblings should be the closest person besides their parents and husband, and sometimes they feel that their husbands are not as good as their sisters.

The most reasonable siblings are those who have their own lives and don't bother each other, but when the crisis comes, everyone will step up and help you get through it.

A reasonable sibling relationship is one in which they can love each other and spend their lives together, and in the process, they can cooperate with each other, support each other, and take care of their parents together.

Before doing things, you should consider whether it will affect your sister and empathize with each other, then the relationship must be very good.

A reasonable sibling relationship should be the first to help out when there is something, and go out together if there is nothing to do.

Brothers and sisters should respect each other, tolerate each other's faults, understand each other, tolerate each other's shortcomings, resolve conflicts in a timely manner, and help each other in difficulties.

A reasonable sibling relationship is a family that lives in peace, and everyone works together to solve any difficulties they have, rather than intriguing to set up obstacles for each other.

No matter what kind of dispute there is on weekdays, they will quickly reconcile as before, and when they see that the other party is in difficulty, they will also take the initiative to help solve it as soon as possible, and they will care about each other and tolerate each other.

Respect each other, have something to say directly, no need to avoid taboos, and don't need too many reasons to help each other if you have difficulties, trust each other.

On weekdays, you should have more contact, care about each other's lives, respect each other, understand each other's faults, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and help each other when there are difficulties.

When you grow up: no matter what the relationship is, it will gradually become peaceful. It turns out that the particularly good ones will be alienated, and the bad ones will become a little better.

There are a lot of annoying and broken things, such as pension, buying a house, working, and property division, and at this time, the preference of the elderly is the killer of family affection. If you are an only child, the old man will raise it by himself, and the real estate will be mine. If I am not an only child, it is very likely that my adoptive parents, my parents will raise my younger siblings, and the house will be given to my younger siblings, and my partner will quarrel with me every day because of this.

If it's between friends, you can gradually lose contact with each other if you don't see it well, or even break off friendship.

So, how do you deal with your feelings? It has to start with the parents. First of all, I love my two children from the bottom of my heart.

The love for both will be different, but the degree of love will be the same. I don't hide my affection for either of them. I have never concealed my love for my sister in order to take care of my brother's feelings, and I can hug and kiss whenever I want.

As long as these contradictions are not principled, we must learn to resolve them through negotiation, so as to achieve mutual understanding and mutual concession, brothers and sisters should carry forward the style and take the initiative to be humble; Younger siblings should also take into account the overall situation, do not worry about it, let their parents know about major issues, and ask for their help.

It's good, my sister and I have loved to quarrel and fight since we were kids, but when we grew up, we were very close, we had good things to share and difficulties to bear together.

My brother and I get along very well. Because the two of us grew up together, we both knew what our worst virtues were.

I have a good relationship with my siblings, and none of them will let one of them be wronged. And if I have something, other people will help right away.

It's a very ordinary relationship, because everyone usually lives in different cities, and they also have their own families, and they only get together during the New Year's holidays.

It feels good, we all take care of each other, care for each other, if one of us is very sad and sad, we will all comfort him, and if he is bullied, he will also help him out.

The relationship with my siblings is very close, and our relationship is very good, because we have lived together since we were children, and we are very familiar with each other.

My relationship with my siblings is okay, because I'm an only child, so my siblings are cousins and so on.

It is very intimate and friendly, we have nothing to say together, and the relationship between blood and water is irreplaceable by any emotion. I feel very blessed.

My relationship with my siblings is actually very good, because we are often with each other, so there is not much generation gap. I love them very much.

I was brought up by my adoptive parents, my adoptive parents have two brothers and a sister, I have a bad relationship with them, they have never seen my own sister, I have to look at their faces when I talk at the adoptive parents' house, they also said that my parents' house, land and money have nothing to do with me, and they don't let me take care of the affairs of my adoptive parents' house, I have lived in my adoptive parents' house for a long time, and my two sisters-in-law will give me a look, and now that I am married, I will not go back to live idle except for the old season. When I go back for the Chinese New Year, I will also buy things for their family, I will go to see them when someone in their family is sick, give them money to buy them, they never care about me when I have something or am sick, last year I was sick and was in the hospital for more than 50 days, and no one from them came to see me, including my adoptive mother, my adoptive father passed away when I was 17 years old. I wish they would treat me like a family, but no matter how hard I tried, it didn't work.

I don't have hope for them now, after all, how can I force them if they are not biological. I don't want to recognize my biological parents, because they didn't want me to do what I suffered.

My brother and I have a relationship like good friends, whoever has difficulties, the other party will be the first to help, no matter what the topic is, we can talk to each other, and will give each other some advice.

Everything is a small thing in life! There's nothing you can't get by!

Everyone has unsatisfactory things, just be happy, and live the best.

It's okay, no, there are still many people in the world who need you.

You must know that no matter what happens to you in the future, it is your relatives who will always be there to support you, and they will never leave you, and have been silently supporting you, mother-in-law, brother, sister-in-law, including parents and ......Since everyone lives under the same blue sky, it is inevitable that there will be some small disputes, frictions, etc., and any person, thing, and thing is relative, which is the law of nature and the law that has always been followed. It's not a bad thing to have an argument once in a while, and when you solve the problem positively, it will also increase the affection between you and reduce unnecessary trouble. On the other hand, if there are no bits and pieces of life (including good and bad), then don't you think life is very meaningless?

Time hangs heavy on one's hands! God let you meet each other, this can be regarded as fate, since it has become a fact, why not look at the problem rationally!! It doesn't matter what other people think, it's important that your own thoughts are clear so that you won't be irrational at that time!!

Mutual understanding, mutual respect, more communication, and harmony in everything.

Yes, you should be a kind person, use your kind heart to touch your family and the people around you, and your family will change.

Of course, the mentality changes everything, and the situation is born from the heart. What you want the people around you to become, you try to become, and they will be influenced by you over time.

Hello, it's best to change from yourself, because if you want the people around you to change for you, it's really too difficult, unless you have the charm and strong affinity, so, try to change from yourself, come on, I wish the family harmony, thank you, hope to adopt.

Open a little yourself, release the things that don't feel unhappy, don't squeeze it in your heart!! Middle school students, you can talk to a friend or a trusted elder!

The most important thing between relatives is love, and if you learn to love your family, you will be able to reconcile the relationship between your relatives.

You don't need to change for anyone, but bad habits need to be changed.

The environment is difficult to change, and if you want to adapt to this environment, you must learn to change yourself.

This classmate must be very understanding, my sister gives you a thumbs up!

Actually, I think it's good that you have such an idea.

Completely lied to me, whether it was good for me or whatever, I couldn't accept that others lied to me, and it was even more unacceptable if it was very thorough.

I think it's because I've given a lot of help to my family members, but when the other party is still not satisfied, I will choose to cut off contact completely.

My family members didn't understand the life I was pursuing, and they blindly denied me, and I felt that I couldn't accept it, so I wanted to completely cut off the relationship with them and find my own life.

Deceiving me, I can't stand the malicious deception of others, especially the kind that everyone deceives me together, it will make me feel very lonely, I really can't stand it.

It is unacceptable for me not to help me when I am in trouble, not to give me a hand, and to see me being crushed, this kind of relatives are the same with or without.

When they are in trouble, they will choose to help no matter what, and when I am in trouble, they just look at it, and no one helps, and it is then that I recognize the so-called family affection.

In order to meet their needs, I have been forced to force me completely regardless of my circumstances, and I will cut off contact with such family members.