Someone introduced me to a person who was in the same unit as my ex boyfriend

This is nothing, since you have broken up justifiably, there is no one who is right or wrong, you just have good memories, what you should do is to cherish this good memory and then pursue the future, true love is not guilty, is it possible that you don't like rice You will not eat it in your life, the same reason, friends don't have to be empty, now you are not boyfriend and girlfriend, the mentality is on point, you can still say hello when you meet so that the other party will not be embarrassed, go, I support you Bless you.

It's full of embarrassment, and I'll think about what to do if it were me, but you're in the same time with your ex-boyfriend, right? > are you afraid of what you were afraid of before, besides, you don't have to be with this, what are you afraid of when you see it, and you don't say what you have to do when you see it, see it, give yourself a chance, give others a chance, maybe this is fate

There are two ways to do it, one is to see him, and the other is not to see him.

If you don't see him, you can continue to look for him, maybe you can find a more suitable person than him, and so many people in China will definitely be able to find him.

If you meet him, it may be really embarrassing to hinder the relationship with your ex-boyfriend, if you have to meet that object, after you meet him, if he gives you a better impression, you will continue to date, but don't determine the relationship too quickly, people are not easy to understand, when you are in a deeper relationship, after the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is determined, you have to solve the estrangement of the ex-boyfriend. In fact, when you are with the current partner, you can ask him out together, because at this time the three of you are pure friends, step by step, over time, this layer of separation will be eliminated, and the two of you are still friends. It is important to note that you should not be in a relationship with the current partner in the first place, because your ex-boyfriend will feel that you have come to demonstrate in front of him and make him lose face.

I'll see you when you see it, it's nothing, anyway, I don't know how to do it yet! Maybe it's the best fit to meet you, and since you've broken up with your boyfriend, forget about him! I'm looking for another world of my own, bless you...

yes. I'll see you somewhere else.

The farther away from that unit, the better.

That's it

Try to get in touch with this person, and maybe this person will be the one you can't miss in your life.

If it works, if it doesn't, it doesn't. Find the best !! for yourself

Nothing is nothing but there is still something.

Can you be a little assertive?

Your ex-boyfriend broke up with you, and he still has such a good relationship with you, it's so good that he wants to introduce you to someone. Then I think you must have had a good relationship with him before! The reason why you want to break up must be a reason of necessity!

Anyway, I think my boyfriend definitely doesn't want to watch his girlfriend find a boyfriend first after a breakup, so he will be jealous. So when he introduces you to someone, it's definitely not sincere.

So why on earth did he introduce you to someone? I think the biggest possibility is that he wants to get back together with you and then wants to see your attitude. He said that if you introduce your boyfriend, you will get a lot of information.

If you agree to the introduction, it proves that you don't have a boyfriend now, and if you don't, maybe you already have a boyfriend, then there is little hope that you will get back together.

Let's take a look at how deep the ex-boyfriend's routine is through the following conversation.

My ex said, I'll introduce you to a boyfriend. You said okay, you can arrange it for me one day, anyway, I don't have a boyfriend now. From these two sentences, he will learn that you do not have a boyfriend, then there will be great hope that you will get back together.

So from now on, he'll definitely be bracing up to chase you.

My ex said, I'll introduce you to a boyfriend. You say no, I already have a boyfriend. And then the ex will go on to say, do you have a boyfriend?

Why don't you show it to me, or bring him over, and I'll help you with the staff officer. At this time, your ex wants to see if you have a boyfriend. If you do have a boyfriend, he will also find a lot of fault with your boyfriend and then ask you to dump this boyfriend, so that he has a chance to chase you again.

If you do bring your boyfriend to him and find that you and this boyfriend always kiss me and I look very nice, he may back off. Besides, if he sees that this boyfriend is very powerful, if he doesn't mess with him, he may run away, and he won't want to get back together with you anymore.

So I think your ex-boyfriend should want to get to the bottom of you and decide whether to pursue you again or not.

These days, anyone can introduce you to someone. At school, your friends will help you introduce, your colleagues at work will match you, and at home, your seven aunts and eight aunts will also help you Zhang Luo, but it is really rare for your ex-boyfriend to help you introduce people. When encountering such a situation, you must also be confused, what kind of mentality did he introduce to you?

1.Even though you broke up, he still treats you as a friend and he wants you well. If his mentality is very simple, he just wants you to live well and wants someone to take care of you, then you are lucky, which means that you have not loved the wrong person before, and even if you break up, you can still be friends and care for each other.

In this case, if he introduces you, you don't have to be afraid, accept his kindness generously, maybe it is really suitable, and you will have to thank him at that time!

2.Deliberately flirting with you under the pretext of helping you introduce someone, and wants to pursue you again. After all, you have broken up, and it is inevitable that you will feel a little awkward, and he can't pull his face to say directly that he wants to chase you again, so he uses the excuse of helping you introduce your boyfriend to chat with you and care about you.

If you say that you don't have a boyfriend now, it proves that he still has a chance to chase you, and if you say that you are willing to accept his introduction, he will not appear too embarrassed. Kill two birds with one stone, you won't perceive his intentions, and he won't be too embarrassed.

3.He wants to deliberately mock you and take the opportunity to mock you. He probably knows that you don't have a partner and no love now, so he feels that this is the retribution you should get after you break up, and it is a wrong choice to leave him.

He just wants to express that you don't have a boyfriend, you are pitiful, and you are so pitiful that you want his ex-boyfriend to introduce you to someone. Indirectly shows that you are not attractive, you are not capable of finding a new boyfriend, and if you leave him, you will have no one to want.

In this case, don't panic first, and analyze the specific problem in detail, so as to prescribe the right medicine. You can't blindly reject and refuse, and you can't accept it stupidly, first distinguish what kind of mentality he has, and then talk about it.

Predecessor, he is a magical being. Everyone will have such an ex in their hearts, you have loved each other, quarreled, quarreled, and even if you are not together in the end, you are each other's special existence. He is your lingering pain, he is the past you can't mention, if you are not destined to be together, then it is better to say goodbye and never see each other again.

Your current boyfriend is in contact with you to introduce you to someone, so I think his brain must be having a convulsion, and I guess he has both of these things in mind.

One: Your ex wants to renew his relationship with you, but he doesn't know what you think in his heart, and he can't speak. Hit"Introduce the object"Ask about your love life and inquire about your attitude.

If you explicitly tell him that you have a partner, he will not be delusional. On the contrary, if you accept his advice, it means that you are still single and he still has the opportunity to pursue again. If he has this kind of thinking, I think his emotional intelligence is zero, and if he doesn't grasp the scale well, it will backfire and cause you to resent it.

Two: You once loved each other so much, and then had no choice but to separate, he also found happiness, seeing that you were alone, after all, there was such a love, and I couldn't bear to let you go on like this. Here you go"Introduce the object"It is also to make up for the guilt in his heart, if you can tie the knot, he will also be relieved to pursue his own happiness.

If that's the case, I think he's really nosy, and no matter what way you look at it, it's going to break your heart and make the scene very embarrassing.

If he is interested in you, you can't forget him, it's better to try to start over, and on the contrary, it's better to say to him in a chic way"There are many people chasing me, not bad for this one", leaving him with a haughty back.

When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

Just the most familiar strangers.