People who are not in love will get hurt 20

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

I'm just very one-sided, because everyone's thinking is different.

The question of whether love will hurt mainly depends on maturity and ability.

As a friend of mine said, if you don't have a mature age and the right ability, then the power of liking each other alone is not enough to resist the cruelty of reality.

Immature love is like an unripe fruit, picked prematurely, leaving only bitter memories. I'm a decadent 90s, but I don't think I like you, you like me enough.

Simple love, immature love, there will be a lot of good memories and heart-warming expectations, but it only brings sadness, because you can't have his whole life, the time is still long, memories are just memories after all, and your future is just an unknown.

If you are a person who is not very mature at the age, then please wait, God will definitely give you the best, don't be so impatient, there is no point in learning what to fall in love at all, because you can't.

The sea is dry and the stones are rotten, I will always wait for you, this kind of promise, in this society where money corrupts, no longer has much meaning.

But if you are a mature person who has the ability and age to take your partner's hand into the marriage hall, then please fall in love with it, and there will be a good outcome.

All in all, I hope your love can go well, that kind of green love, in exchange for heart-rending pain.

Because some people don't understand love, they will turn love into harm to each other, and they need to grow; Yes, it is because they love each other too much, and every move of the other party may become a deadly weapon; Some are because they are too realistic, and the other party is just a tool to satisfy their desire for life, but in the end they hurt a surging heart....

No. In love, you should be self-loving enough, and then find someone worthy of love to fall in love.

Remember, the person who deserves to be loved is not about how good-looking it is, but about the person who can be in the same boat with you, accompany each other, support each other, and benefit each other.

As long as you maintain enough self-love, don't rely too much on each other materially and emotionally, and always maintain a sober attitude, you won't get hurt.

In short, it is self-love, independence, and mutual benefit.

Because they all gave themselves for love, they began to look forward to love, and then they were distressed by love, because love could not bring pleasure to both parties, and in the process of finding responsibility, they were unconsciously hurt.

Most people get hurt.

After being hurt, you will understand love more and more, and cherish love more and more.

Until one day find the most suitable person and walk together.

Everyone has their own emotional history. Some people say that love is a scarred field honey. It's not fake at all, there is bitterness before sweetness, if falling in love is like drinking boiled water and tasteless, then it will be boring, and it will be a lot less sweet.

Yes, just because I didn't look good at the beginning.

I want us to learn "love" a person should not be humble about it, whether it is a friend or a lover, we must grasp and cherish each other, love each other, don't see it is not good now, there will be no promotion and fortune in the future, don't have advice to people, it is not recommended that you count it well,

Many people must fall in love with sincerity when they fall in love, and he has paid a lot.

even wanted to marry his girlfriend, and even planned the future, but due to some reasons, including some contradictions and other people's nonsense, the two did not go to the end in the end.

There is also a large gap between two people, the woman or the man is in excellent condition, and the other party's condition is obviously worse, so there will be some distance, but the weak party wants to catch up, but often does not meet the requirements of the other party, so that in the end can not go to the end, and the sincere effort is not rewarded.

It is best to enter a relationship with the other person because you really like the other person (and the other person likes you at the same time) and you really want to be seriously with the other person, not because of other factors.

Some teenagers in their school days will enter a relationship in a daze, such as: because they can't bear loneliness; If you can't pursue the person you like, you just met someone who sent you to your door; There are many people around who are in love, and they are also in fashion, etc.

There are also some people who obviously don't like each other, or they have a lot of dissatisfaction with each other in their hearts (such as thinking that the other party is not beautiful enough; feel that the other person is too short; dislike the other party's poor family conditions, etc.), but covet the other party's good for themselves, and at the same time worry that they can't find a better one, or simply because of their own desires, so they enter a relationship with the other party.

If you don't really like each other, if you don't really want to be with each other seriously, this kind of thing may not have such a big impact on scumbags, but some teenagers actually can't be scum at all, but they objectively behave like scum, which often leads to hurting girls and easily causing their own guilt.

1. Love is giving, not taking.

Now college students' view of love is more pragmatic, self-consciousness is stronger, during the relationship always think about what can be obtained from each other, but rarely consider what can be done for each other, which will lead to the love period due to the desire can not be satisfied, and the lovers are dissatisfied, serious will hurt each other, therefore, college students should establish a correct view of love, love means dedication and dedication, to think more about each other, this can build a harmonious love relationship.

2. Love cannot affect normal learning.

Although college students can fall in love, but on the premise that it does not affect their studies, the main task of college students is to study, and love should promote both parties to study harder, so as to lay the foundation for a better future for both parties.

3. It is strictly forbidden to rent a house outside the school and live together.

Today's college students have a kind of atmosphere, that is, they have been in love for a while, they rent a house off-campus, and live a quasi-family life in the world of two people, which increases the financial burden on both parties on the one hand, on the other hand, delays time affects learning, and then there is a complex off-campus environment, which also poses a threat to the safety of both lovers. Therefore, during the relationship, lovers should still live in the school and ensure a healthy living and learning environment.

4. Look at the character clearly.

Determine whether the other person's character is worthy of your relationship. If you want to know who the other party is, you can see what type of people are around him, after all, things gather like things, and bad people are together for a long time, and that person will be affected for a long time, and it is easy for people to become bad and for good.

5. Good gathering and good dispersion.

In the end, no matter what the reason, the other party really wants to quit, and retention no longer works, so you can only break up peacefully, don't have a small belly, and have a grudge against the other party. That can only be said that you are not worthy of him or her.

The more you put in, the more serious the injury. This is a recitation of lead truth. Because the more you give, the higher your expectations, and the more you want to be rewarded.

But feelings are inherently vain, and the pay is not proportional to the return. When the other person has already let go, you are still deeply involved, so the worse you hurt.

Because of being in the family of origin, when I start a relationship and really enter the state of love, it is often difficult to really devote myself to it, because I am a person who is relatively insecure and lacks self-confidence. The reason why such a problem arises is mainly because of the original family, in my growth process and under the long-term education and guidance of my parents, I am more reluctant to fall in love, because when I was young, my parents were especially afraid that I would have the problem of early love in order to let me study hard, so they always instilled in me some of their truths, that is, to get along with girls, to keep a certain distance, because many girls are often unreliable, Only when you have a real foothold in your career in the future can you consider falling in love, because girls are more realistic. Therefore, under the influence of their concept, after graduating from college, I should fall in love at the age of time, I still have some resistance to falling in love, because I am not very satisfied with my state, I am afraid that after starting a relationship, the other party will dislike my job and my income, although at this time, my parents are no longer as good as when I was studying, but are particularly concerned about my falling in love, and always want to introduce me to a girlfriend. But I didn't have any interest in it, and I thought I was still young and should devote more energy and time to my career.

I have been in love many times, I have been happy, and I have been injured, and in these relationships, I have also understood a lot of truths and gained a lot of experience. 1.Feelings take time to cultivate:

The perfect relationship is not built overnight, it takes time to nurture and develop. Therefore, when it comes to falling in love, one should be patient with each other and not rush things. 2.

Love can't make you lose yourself: when in a relationship, we should maintain our independence and individuality, and not all time is spent on the other person. We need to have our own lives and grandchildren's interests and share them with our partners.

3.Dealing with conflict requires communication: Conflict and disagreement arise in any relationship in Liquid State.

However, the key to solving the problem is to learn to communicate. Only by expressing one's thoughts and feelings openly and honestly can we find the best solution. 4.

Need to know when it's over: we must learn to distinguish which relationships are bad for us and end or change in time. As painful as ending a relationship can be, it's even more painful to stay in a relationship that makes you sad or unsatisfied.

5.You deserve to be cherished: Everyone deserves to be treated well, cherished, and to have a healthy, normal love relationship.

If you find that your partner or friend doesn't respect you, or hurts you, stop the relationship in time and look for something better. You have to remember that being determined to be yourself and pursuing what you are passionate about is the path you should take; On this road, if you meet like-minded people, it is a happy event; If you can't meet like-minded people, be yourself, and you won't get lost. Love is beautiful, but more important than love is loving yourself; Learn to love yourself in order to love each other better.