Dating pay issues

He thinks that men should pay, he said that it is a joke if you pay in full, you are lucky, most men in life are not interested, chasing girlfriends are reluctant to spend money, men take the initiative to pay on dates to appear graceful, this is a good man, why do you think so much, you like him can occasionally send him some gifts, some men don't want women to give gifts, I met one, this is machismo, such a person can communicate with him, it's no big deal.

You can do a thought work with him, for example: a person pays for a week's consumption, and so on. The AA system, which sometimes causes unnecessary trouble, is now equal between men and women.

Women can do what men do, and women can do what men can't.

Let him pay, pay for him, the boy always thinks that he should pay for going out with a girl, you should care more about it, send some breakfast or something.

He pays and pays.

If you have the chance, give him a gift or something.

There is always an opportunity to pay.

Isn't it boyfriend and girlfriend?

So why go out alone ...

Wouldn't it be nice that he would be willing to help you? As long as you have the heart to give money, it's fine. Boys are generally happy to spend money on girls.

He's a good guy, but you still have to look better than people.

He has so much money, let him lie down.

At present, I am in the stage of love, spending money in love is inevitable, some couples think that talking about money hurts feelings, but we know that the problem of money can not be avoided, therefore, how to solve the problem of dating and spending money in love We use the following methods:Small money asks each other for the stove, big money AA.

As college students, our financial income mainly comes from our parents. The living expenses given by the parents of the average family are not enough to support one party in the blind payment in love, we say that love is mutual, not only in the emotional aspect, but also in the material aspect.

At the beginning of a relationship or during the period of passionate love, one party may not care about their blind giving, but when the relationship gradually flattens out after a long time, the blind giver will begin to care about the gains and losses in love, and think in his heart how much money he has paid for this relationship. Therefore, only one party blindly pays money when dating is not conducive to the development of the relationship.

During a relationship, the two can discuss spending money and come to an agreement. During our relationship, my boyfriend and I often went on dates when we had time, and sometimes we would go for a walk together on campus or make an appointment to eat together in the cafeteria. On Saturdays and Sundays, we go out to eat, go to the movies, go to the park, and spend money on dates together, but the consensus we reach on these small amounts of money is:

He paid for the meal, so I invited him to the movies; He paid for a taxi, so I invited him to drink milk tea.

<> our boundaries are blurred in terms of small money, but there must be some cracks and some futures. In big money, our capabilities are limited, and we will choose AA.

My boyfriend and I are from the same place, go to the same university, and we are both children of ordinary families, and every time we go home together at the end of the semester, the train ticket usually costs three or four hundred yuan, and we all choose AA for this kind of big money. We all AA when we spend more than a few hundred dollars on travel or play.

When it comes to gift-giving, we all choose gifts based on our financial strengthI don't give too expensive gifts. Because we all know that too expensive gifts are not something that ordinary students like us can afford.

Finally, I want to say that the issue of spending money on love dating must be agreed with the other party, and you can't avoid mentioning it because this topic is too sensitive.

1. The ab system is implemented in love.

The amount you pay should be equal in general, he invites you to dinner, you invite him to watch a movie, etc., I think everyone should understand this issue, mainly because no one owes anyone when they break up.

Is it possible to borrow money?

It can't be said that you can't borrow it, look at the other party's character, and see what kind of attitude he usually has towards his friends. See if he has the ability to repay, and see what he is doing with the money.

If he usually detains and searches his friends, and it is very inferior, then don't borrow it. Don't borrow money to play games with money, and don't borrow them if you don't have anything to do.

It's better not to borrow tens of thousands, but if you borrow, you have to make an IOU or tell his parents.

3 Are the views of consumption and money consistent?

This is very important, I have a friend, she and her boyfriend have a big difference in consumption views. Her boyfriend has to take care of everything she buys, thinking that she spends too much money and is too expensive to buy clothes and bags that are not practical, and before he has spent his money, he began to interfere with her consumption. It's because of the inconsistent view of consumption, it's difficult to be together.

4 The extent to which a man spends money on you.

Whether he is willing to spend money on you or not, you can see whether he is really willing to pay for you, in fact, it doesn't need to be a man, even myself. For example, when I buy clothes, I would rather buy cheaper ones for myself than better ones for Xiao Cui, and I choose gifts that are best for him within my ability. This mentality is easy to understand, if you love him, you want to give him the best, and the same goes for a man.

5How to talk about money naturally?

Your view of money can lead to his.

Your usual views on money and your attitude towards spending money are all telling him about your view of money. Two people should be complementary.

Example: I spend money in a big way, but he is more rational and rational, so between us is a little Cui Yu stool to manage money, because I am either deceived or cheated, I also know that if I am in charge of money in the future, it is estimated that it will not work. Therefore, with my concept of consumption, I can lead to his concept of consumption and tourism.

If you want to know his view of consumption, you can say this:

Example: You bought a ** expensive clothes, and said to him: You see that my clothes are good-looking, I really like it, but the expensive ones are different, what do you think?

After we got married, I would like to have a cloakroom, but it must be if the conditions allow, okay? ( You can know 3 points by asking this question: 1

Through his words, you can know his view of consumption2Are you willing to spend money for your pleasure3Whether he agrees with your view of consumption).

I think it's better to get straight to the point, you spend money on a date, but in the usual relationship, there should be a back and forth.

I think so, it is considered traditional dating etiquette for men to pay bills, while in other countries it is believed that the bills should be shared equally. In addition, the specific situation can also vary from person to person.

However, we can provide some advice to help you decide. First of all, it is very important to understand your girlfriend's views and attitudes. Some women expect men to pay their bills, while others believe they should share.

If you're unsure, talk to her about the topic before your appointment.

Second, consider your financial means. If you don't have a lot of money, maybe you shouldn't rush to pay. This can cause you to feel stressed later on a date and may also make your girlfriend feel uncomfortable.

Finally, try to avoid overly extreme practices. Being too quiet and asking for money may not make a good impression, while being overly generous may make his girlfriend Qi Zheng feel uncomfortable or uncomfortable.

Overall, the answer to this question depends on the specific situation and cultural background, and it is advisable to make a decision after considering many factors.